Chapter 278: Life Experience
After knowing the situation, Liang's mother smiled at Lu Yao, and then said that her current situation was already very good, and she smiled at Lu Yao.
"Okay, I know you don't have to worry too much, your father and I both regulate our emotions, the most important thing now is your business, as long as you and Han Xusheng have a good relationship, then there will be no problem.
The main reason is that we are worried about what other problems will occur in the relationship between you and Han Xusheng, after all, sometimes, many people have no way to hinder you, but if the real two people are together, if the relationship between the two people is not firm enough, it will definitely be the biggest reason for the failure of your relationship.
When two people are together, they must trust each other, rely on each other, and be honest and can't hide each other, and everything is best to be discussed, so that they can get along more harmoniously. ”
Liang's mother said such a thing to Lu Yao as a person who came over, and she also wanted to inform Lu Yao that the matter of feelings itself is a very difficult thing, if it is really discussed, it will definitely be a very happy thing for a girl.
has a good husband who supports you behind your back, which is definitely for a girl, so that he can live a good life in the future, but if you meet a very suitable person in the relationship, but you don't grasp it, because of all kinds of grinding, you break up with each other or have some other contradictions, so the two people separate.
The same is a very big loss for girls, and Liang's mother knows that Han Xusheng is a very good person, so she said such a thing to Lu Yao, he hopes that Lu Yao can be with Han Xusheng, after all, after he saw Han Xusheng, he really thinks he is a very good child, she hopes that the two of them can always be together, preferably forever.
That's why she instructed Lu Yao.
And after Lu Yao heard her mother's words, it suddenly became clear what she wanted to express to herself, what she meant was to let herself catch Han Xusheng well, Lu Yao only felt a little embarrassed, how to say it?
Maybe my own view of love is still different from that of my parents.
What Lu Yao thought in her heart was that if Han Xusheng had been good to her, then she would have been good to Han Xusheng, but if Han Xusheng had been bad to her, she didn't need to be good to Han Xusheng.
It's not like his parents said, he has to keep holding him, there is never right or wrong in the relationship, generally there is a problem in a relationship, it has always been a problem for two people, so Lu Yao does not recognize what his parents say, he feels that if he breaks up with Han Xusheng one day, it will definitely not be just his unilateral problem, Han Xusheng must also have a problem.
If she was alone, how could she provoke a contradiction, Lu Yao thought in her heart, but she didn't veto what her parents said.
After all, parents are also for their own good, so even if they don't agree so much in their hearts, there is no need to deny them.
Lu Yao thought the same in her heart, so she nodded to her mother with a smile, and then made her mother happy.
Liang's father and Liang's mother saw Lu Yao's expression and felt that she had listened to it, and what they said suddenly became happy in their hearts, so Liang's mother said to Lu Yao: "The most important thing for you now is to treat Han Xusheng's grandmother well as you told us before."
Although Mrs. Han doesn't like you now, she doesn't either, because she doesn't like you anymore, she just thinks some other aspects, but since she has agreed that you and Han Xusheng are together, she will naturally find a way to accept you, you have to be more kind to her and make her more able to accept you, so that the two of you will get along more harmoniously in the future. ”
Lu Yao nodded immediately after hearing her mother's words, she knew what her mother wanted to express, that is, she wanted to live in harmony with Old Madam Han.
Lu Yao felt that what she said to her mother had always been right, but before, she had always maintained this state, but later because she felt that Mrs. Han didn't like her, so no matter how hard she tried, she couldn't do anything, so Lu Yao thought that she could be lazy.
That's why she treats Han Xusheng's grandmother well from time to time, and the same old lady Han may dislike herself even more, Lu Yao thought in her heart.
She listened to her mother's words and decided that she must treat Han Xusheng's grandmother well in the future, and she could no longer fish for two days and dry nets for three days like before, with a little perfunctory.
Lu Yao felt that she might not have any ability, but she had one of the best advantages was that she was very patient, so for Han Xusheng's grandmother, she felt that she had no problem, and she would definitely make Mrs. Han like her, and then nodded solemnly to her parents.
Seeing Lu Yao nodding, Liang's mother knew in her heart that Lu Yao listened to what she said, and for a while, she was very happy, and he also knew his life experience, and he only had so much experience to tell Lu Yao, so there was nothing too big to tell Lu Yao in the future.
So she patted Liang's father's hand, and then said to Lu Yao: "Your father and I will go up first, and you still need to figure out this matter yourself, because emotional matters are never something that outsiders can say, and the most important thing is the two of you."
You must remember what I said, sometimes the appropriate bowing of the head and the weakness of the appropriate nature do not mean that you are wrong, but rather an attitude of respect for the other person in this relationship.
And girls, they should be weaker, sometimes they can't be too sharp, maybe you think that's personality, but many times many people can't accept it, girls should be gentle and delicate to make boys feel distressed, you know? ”
Liang's mother knows that Lu Yao's personality belongs to the kind of very sharp and strong woman nature, in fact, she doesn't want her daughter to grow up with such a character, but since Lu Yao is this kind of character now, she can only choose to accept it, but she still hopes that her daughter can be gentle and show her weakness in front of boys.
Only in this way can girls live happily. Girls won't be so happy in the end, they are too concerned about things.
And the most unacceptable thing in the relationship is to be careful, everything will be infinitely magnified, if a little bit of trivial things are taken care of, then there is absolutely no way to live, especially if two people will stay for a long time in the future, in order to make each other happy and naturally want to choose many things are omitted.
Therefore, Liang's mother said such a thing to Lu Yao, after hearing her words, Lu Yao suddenly felt that it still made sense, so she said to Liang's mother: "Okay mother, I know what you said, you don't have to worry too much about my affairs, I will deal with it myself, now you and your father go to rest, I will think about it myself."
How should I get along with Han Xusheng in the future, after all, the final result is still the matter between me and him, right? The two of us still have to think about it carefully, and I'll definitely think about what you said, so you don't have to worry too much about me. ”
After saying these words to Liang's mother, Lu Yao also followed Liang's father to send them back to the room, and after watching her parents return to the room, Lu Yao went downstairs when she came out of their room and sat on the sofa.
Lu Yao began to think about what her mother said, she knew that her personality was sometimes too strong, and sometimes she couldn't listen to what others said, so this was indeed a weakness of his, but Lu Yao felt that sometimes these things could be improved, and she could also try to improve them, so Lu Yao felt that everything was not a problem in her heart.
As long as Han Xusheng doesn't betray, as long as she is happy, the relationship between the two is good, then everything is not too much of a problem, and in the end, she and Han Xusheng will definitely be together, Lu Yao thought in her heart and was also very excited.
Now there is no obstacle between her and Han Xusheng, although Mrs. Han doesn't like Han Xusheng now, but she also agrees that she and Han Xusheng can still be together, and Song Linda has made it clear that Han Xusheng has expressed to her that she has no idea about Song Linda at all, so there is no need to regard her as his enemy or a rival in love.
is completely an insignificant person, Lu Yao thought in her heart that all this seemed to be coming in a better direction.
And after Han Xusheng returned to the company, he began to deal with the company's affairs, and it was indeed something urgent that required him to return to the company, otherwise he would definitely accompany Lu Yao there for a while, after all, he wanted to get along with Lu Yao.
In the same way, he also wanted to make Lu Yao more confident, after all, what Liang's father said to him before had always laid the foreshadowing in Han Xusheng's heart, and he was actually very worried that he was not good enough for Lu Yao and would make others feel uncomfortable, so Han Xusheng always wanted to behave well in front of the Liang family.
Lu Yao was naturally unclear about this thought, but she could understand Han Xusheng's cherishment of herself.
After Lu Yao returned to the room, he wanted to call Han Xusheng, looked at the time, and found that it was not early, he must have already arrived at the company.