But if you are a filial child, when you think about problems, you will not only think about yourself. I will take care of it somewhat, and the parents who gave birth to you and raised you. If she had considered this, she would certainly not have made such an unreasonable request.

Although Gui Zhi said every word, he cried sadly. But Zhang Yangbin remained unmoved. For a while, the family was at a stalemate, and they didn't know what to do.

Then Zhang Yangwu continued, "Big brother, it's really not a wise move to get married after graduation." Let's not care about it for now, my mother doesn't agree, you buy a house at the woman's house. ”

Although as soon as the words came out, her mother immediately glared at Zhang Yangwu. But Zhang Yangwu can't care about it at the moment. Then he said, "The question of the place to buy a house will be talked about later, first of all, let's talk about money."

I'll ask you, where do you plan to get the money to buy a house? When the time comes, you are all recent graduates, and you will definitely not have the money to buy this house.

And then this money, I thought about asking my family for it. And we can't compare to other people's families with good conditions. You are not only looking for problems for your family, but also for yourself.

You don't know about our family's situation. Before, my father was alone, working to earn money. Supporting a family of 6 people is barely enough.

And since my father passed away, all the expenses of the family have been piled up on my mother alone. But my mother doesn't have a job, so the money she got from there to buy a house for you, and the little money she has on hand is all given by me and Zhang Xiaohua.

I'm still a student, and although I work a few part-time jobs, I don't have to get through it and deduct my monthly living expenses. Some money was deducted from the nails, although it was also taken from my mother. But how many?

Even if you want to go out to borrow money, you know our relatives, and everyone lives a half-catty and eighty-tael. There will be excess money to lend to us.

The money for my father's funeral before was basically from my aunt, and the two of us were going to college, so I guess we borrowed some money, and even my aunt's family probably borrowed a side.

What's more, the money before is not a little worse than the money you need to buy a house now, and if you borrow it now, even if they go bankrupt, it will not be enough to take it out.

What's more, aunt and aunt. They also have to keep money to live, can you bear to let them live alone for you, and then the whole family lives tightly?

You don't have a financial foundation, and you still want to buy a house and get married. And think about it all, and let the family help you prepare. If you think about it, it doesn't make sense.

If the girls in this city want to get married, they all require the man to have a house, a car, and a lot of dowry money. If there is one less or one less of these, the woman will have an opinion.

The woman's parents will not agree. Even if you reluctantly agree now, you will have to talk about these things in the future. What will you do then. Your house was bought at the woman's house, and in the future, your mother-in-law will say in front of you every day that you will be worried when the time comes.

Take 10,000 steps back, if you have to get married so early. It's okay, you can just tell her that our family conditions are like this. If you want to get married, then everything can only be simplified, and the house can only be bought later, when you all go to work and earn money.

"Xiao Wu, I advise you not to be too arbitrary. Wait until you talk about girlfriends later. You'll know that some things aren't, as easy as you say, and some things are up to you.

Moreover, you don't have to be so exaggerated, now in our family, at least my little sister is already working outside. As far as I know, Xiaomei's salary in the factory is not low.

It can be said that before, several times of my father's salary. Before, my father was still supporting, and the three of us were studying. And now there are only two people studying, how can this life get worse and worse? ”

After listening to her eldest brother, her second brother smiled and said, "I'll just say, you know that you don't have money in the family, how can you still think about getting married, it turns out that you pay attention to your little sister's salary"

Her eldest brother just wanted to defend himself, but his second brother snatched the words. "Little sister's money, don't even think about it. The money she earns is to be kept for herself and used in the future when she marries.

Now there are no conditions at home, prepare a dowry for her in the future, and the two of us will graduate in the future, even if we can find a job, after all, we are just graduates, and the salary will definitely not be too high in the short term.

Even if she is good and rich, she can buy a dowry for her, but what if she doesn't mix well? When the time comes, it will be difficult to protect itself. Where did you take care of her?

So in the future, her own dowry, maybe she will have to buy it with her own money. You've scavenged all her money now.

What will she do when she gets married in the future, do you really want her to be a person when she gets married? Or do you want her to be an old girl, stay at home all the time, and not be able to marry when the time comes?

One more thing, I'm going to tell you. Xiaomei's salary is not as high as you think. Even if her previous salary was a little more, it was earned by her spending her youth and staying up late all day. That's her hard-earned money, are you embarrassed to take it? ”

"I'm not going to take it all, I'm just borrowing it, and when I work and earn the money, I'll definitely have to pay it back to her, and it's double. won't take the little sister's money in vain.

After speaking, he pulled Zhang Xiaohua and begged, "Little sister, I know you work hard." But Big Brother has no way now. Even if you work hard for a few more months for the sake of your eldest brother,... May I? …。

I've probably calculated one, if you can save enough every month. And I do a little more part-time to support myself. In the future, you don't have to worry about my living expenses.

And the money you earn is saved for the down payment on the house when the time comes. Plus the money you saved last year, half a year on the job.

Zhang Xiaohua just wanted to explain a few sentences, but was directly interrupted by Zhang Yangbin. So, I had to continue listening and let her eldest brother finish speaking.

"If you can. Extraordinary, ask your colleague to borrow a little more. I've heard you say before that your colleague is very nice, and the two of you are still called sisters. And when she was sick, you took good care of her.

If you ask her to borrow some, she will be able to take out some of them more or less. There are other colleagues in the factory, you can also ask them to borrow some.

In addition, ask again, your leaders will see if they can advance in advance, part of the salary. Advance as much as you can. If all these are added up, the down payment on this house must be almost enough.

Zhang Xiaohua listened to his eldest brother's words, and her first reaction was, how is this possible, how could I ask Jiang Xihong to borrow money, other people's lives are even more miserable than her. No, it should be said that it is several times more bitter than her.

Jiang Xihong has no relatives anymore, and there is nowhere to go when she leaves the factory. The money she earns now is equivalent to her life, how can Zhang Xiaohua bear to take someone's life.

Again, she is not familiar with the other people in the factory. Some relationships are not so good. Their leaders can't count on her, and the previous leaders have a bad impression of her.

And the current leadership, although there is nothing bad about it, is also related to the relationship, and it has nothing to do with it. All along, everyone was just a subordinate relationship at work.