Chapter 35: Methods of Changing the Mind
"She doesn't understand me, doesn't support me, doesn't trust me, always doubts me, questions me, scolds me, gives me a look on my face all day long, and often sends people to follow me, secretly photograph me, investigate me, I am scared when I see her, I feel pressure when I see her, I hope she can change it."
Zhao Dahai said expressionlessly.
"Uh......"
Listening to Zhao Dahai's words, Qian Wancang suddenly felt a little in a trance.
He originally thought that it was Mengmeng's father's betrayal of the family that led to a series of problems in Mengmeng's family.
But at this time, it seems that Mengmeng's father was misunderstood.
He is a middle-aged uncle who works hard to start a business and make money, and all his thoughts are on his career, and he is not sorry for his wife or family.
Of course, based on this alone, it cannot be judged that Zhao Dahai is innocent.
Because although he did not betray the family, he neglected the family!
Sometimes, neglect is more maddening than betrayal......
Qian Wancang felt that it was Zhao Dahai's neglect that made his wife suspicious of him.
In the face of his wife's suspicion, Zhao Dahai not only did not think of a way to eliminate this suspicion in the first place, but also chose to quarrel with his wife and choose to confront his wife.
This behavior made the wife's suspicions even worse.
It can be said that the direct reason for their family's situation at this time is the suspicion of his wife He Yina, and the fundamental reason is her husband Zhao Dahai's neglect of the family.
After finding the reason, Qian Wancang felt a lot more relaxed.
He is extremely confident that all the problems in this world can be solved as long as the root cause is found and eliminated!
In other words, as long as Zhao Dahai reattaches importance to his family and his wife, the problem of discord between Mengmeng's parents can be eliminated.
But how can Zhao Dahai change his attitude towards his family and wife?
Qian Wancang thought of a method in "Zhuang Sheng's Dream Building".
This method appears in top-level schanter techniques, and with the use of this method, it is possible to change a person's mind for a long time or even permanently.
It's just that this method is a bit inhumane......
"As long as he can't die, what can he do! Anyway, it doesn't have to be on yourself. ”
Qian Wancang persuaded himself in his heart and decided to implement this method on Zhao Dahai.
"What are you most afraid of?"
Qian Wancang suddenly asked.
"I'm most afraid of my wife."
Zhao Dahai replied expressionlessly.
"What are you afraid of?"
Qian Wancang asked.
"I'm afraid of being slapped in the face."
Zhao Dahai stared at Qian Wancang and replied honestly.
"Smack!"
As soon as the words fell, Qian Wancang gave Zhao Dahai a slap, and then asked, "Does it hurt?" ”
"It hurts."
Zhao Dahai said innocently.
"Smack!"
Qian Wancang slapped Zhao Dahai again, this time, he used all his strength, and the sound of ear scraping was a little harsh.
At the same time, his palms were also shocked to the point of numbness, and he couldn't help but shake them lightly in order to speed up blood circulation and relieve the numbness of his palms.
"Squeak~"
Suddenly, the door of Zhao Dahai's office opened.
Qian Wancang was startled, and quickly stopped shaking his hand, sat upright, and then looked towards the door.
I saw a woman in a small suit leaning in halfway in and asked delicately, "Manager, is there anything I need to do?" ”
It turned out that the ear scraping sound just now was too loud, which alarmed Zhao Dahai's secretary and made her think that Zhao Dahai was calling her.
"Let her out, and she won't be allowed to come in later."
Qian Wancang looked at Zhao Dahai's eyes and ordered in a low voice.
"You go out, and you are not allowed to come in later."
Zhao Dahai obeyed Qian Wancang's order.
"What?"
The female secretary was stunned for a moment, what does it mean to "not be allowed to come in the future"?
Is the manager going to fire me?
Qian Wancang understood the female secretary's thoughts, and hurriedly comforted: "I have something to talk about with your manager, don't tell you not to come in, and don't let others in." ”
After hearing this, the female secretary glanced at the boss, saw that the boss was expressionless, and did not deny the young man's statement, which should be what he meant.
With a long breath, the female secretary cautiously stepped back and gently closed the door.
After the female secretary left, Qian Wancang immediately raised his hand and continued to shake it.
Since he was interrupted by the female secretary just now, he needed to slap Zhao Dahai twice again.
It is clearly written in "Zhuang Sheng's Dream Building" that if you want to change a person's mind for a long time or permanently, you have to use what he is most afraid of, stimulate him at least twice, make him extremely afraid, and then suggest that as long as he is in any way, he will not be stimulated by what he fears the most. However, this process must not be interrupted, otherwise it will have to be restarted......
"Smack! Syllable! ”
Qian Wancang gritted his teeth, slapped Zhao Dahai twice, and then quickly shook his palm in order to speed up blood circulation and relieve the numbness of his palm.
"Does it hurt?"
Qian Wancang asked.
"It hurts."
Zhao Dahai replied.
"Are you afraid?"
"I'm afraid."
"If you don't want to be slapped again, then you will be kind to your wife in the future,
Don't drink again in the future, or you'll get alcoholic liver,
Don't quarrel with your wife anymore,
Every day when you come home, you have to buy a small gift for your wife, and if she doesn't let you buy it, you have to buy it......
Remember? ”
Qian Wancang said all the ways he could think of to pamper his wife.
He felt that if Zhao Dahai could really do what he said, his wife would definitely not suspect him anymore, and the two would soon reconcile.
When the two of them are reconciled, Mengmeng doesn't need to pretend to be sick anymore!
"Remembered."
Zhao Dahai replied.
"Okay, I'm leaving, you go and arrange a car for me to take me back"
Qian Wancang said, slowly stood up, and walked towards the door.
"Okay."
Zhao Dahai nodded, also stood up, followed behind Qian Wancang, and walked towards the door.
Open the door, walk through the hall, and come to the door of the company.
Zhao Dahai patted the shoulder of the driver who was squatting at the door to look at the beauty: "Xiao Song, send him back." ”
This Xiao Song, Qian Wancang is the first time to see it.
It was another driver who picked him up just now to the renovation company.
Xiao Song turned around and glanced at Zhao Dahai, and found that Zhao Dahai's face was flushed, as if there was some happy event that made his face red.
Could it be that Manager Zhao Dahai and Zhao talked about a big order?
This young boy should be the owner of this business, right?
Or how could Manager Zhao come out and deliver it in person?
It seems that this boy is very rich!
Thinking of this, Xiao Song's face instantly bloomed with a smile: "Come on, please come here!" ”
"Okay."
Qian Wancang nodded, put on sunglasses, and under the guidance of Xiao Song, he got into a Daben and drove in the direction of his home.
According to the description in "Zhuang Sheng's Dream Building Technique", Qian Wancang guessed that Zhao Dahai should find a place to sleep next, and when he woke up, he would not remember everything except those commands that were forcibly implanted in his mind......