Lin Ming actually wanted to continue to say something, but when he heard other girls say so, Lin Ming had no choice but to nod: "I'm just a big man, I can see whatever I eat, let's go back and eat whatever you want, and the vegetables I bought yesterday, there should be a lot left at home today, just make a little bit of what to eat, filling my stomach is the most important thing, I was already very happy to be able to eat before, where are there so many requirements?" ”

When the two of them returned home and found that the house was empty, the two of them couldn't help but be a little shocked, and they didn't expect it at all, because after all, at the beginning, they thought there was someone at home.

Where did Feng Chengcheng go? It's hard to go to them again, shouldn't it, after all, I already know what they do, and if I look for them, isn't it a little incomprehensible?

"Looks like he's not home." Bai Ling was not shocked, but went to the kitchen.

Lin Ming frowned: "Where did this guy go by himself?" ”

"I feel that you are very strict with him, in fact, there is no need, no matter where he goes, it is his own freedom, after all, he is not a child anymore, he can always control him, it doesn't seem to be good, if you can, I think you should give him some freedom, at least like this, he can also understand the meaning of life, you always control him, don't let him do anything by himself, but he will be uncomfortable in his heart."

Knowing that the relationship between the two of them is good, but the relationship is not so good, and sometimes there are some relationships that are not the case, so I will feel that if a person is restrained for too long and is often restrained, there will be a kind of rejection, which is also a very normal phenomenon.

Because no matter who you are, you will definitely hate the feeling of being restrained, and you have been restrained by your family since you were a child, and you will have to be restrained by your friends when you grow up? If that's the case, then it's a matter of who can stand it, everyone makes friends because they want to be happy with their friends, not because they want their friends to restrain themselves, so it's normal for everyone to want their friends to understand themselves, rather than restrain themselves like everyone else.

"I don't want to restrain him, I'm just worried about him, what if there is any danger if he is alone outside, after all, he hasn't been out for too long, often alone, a lot of times with me during this time, we brothers are always separated because of some things, how can I not worry at all, never separated, if we are always separated, I will still have some worries in my heart."

In fact, to put it bluntly, I am not used to it, because there is too much time in one piece, and the time in one place is too long, and suddenly it is often separated, in fact, it is somewhat difficult for everyone to accept it, but this kind of thing is also normal to put it bluntly, whether to accept it or not depends on the individual, everyone's ideas are very different, so whether it can be accepted or not depends on the person himself and his ability to accept it, as for whether it can be accepted, in fact, who can really say this kind of thing, That's all there is to say bad things.

"Although I understand what you said, but he has his own ideas, why do you care so much, it's good that he's happy, anyway, he's an adult, and he's not a child, he knows what to do, he doesn't need you to worry, you're not his parents, you should be good to him, but you don't care about everything."

If you have to manage everything, a person, in the end what will this person be managed, have you ever thought that few people seem to think about this, because they never think that there is anything bad about controlling a person infinitely, but in fact, if you control a person infinitely, in the end what you get is not just disgust, it is likely to be a kind of resistance, and at that time, whether your two friends can still be successful, that is another matter, Because once people have a heart of resistance, then the stubborn psychology of you, the kind of rebellious psychology has become more and more serious, and at that time, if you want to regret it, but it is too late, so if you can, it is better to talk less and care less between friends, after all, everyone has their own ideas.

"I'm just worried about him, after all, the two of us used to eat and wait for death every day, and never thought too much about it, but just felt that life was just like this, and now he ran out alone, how could I not worry about it, although I don't need to worry about this kind of thing, after all, he is also an adult anyway, but to say that it is absolutely a lie not to worry, it is impossible, I am really actually quite worried, I'm afraid that there will be something wrong with him when he is alone outside, and you say that I am worried about him like this, I really the old father's heart! ”

Lin Ming is such a worrying person, there is no way, he doesn't want to do this, but he can't control it at all, so it led to the last situation, what can be done about this, but it's all helpless.

"Okay, okay, don't think about it so much, I'll cook first, wait a minute, let's eat first, I'll leave him some food, you don't have to worry, he will naturally eat when he comes back, and I understand your mood, but it's useless to worry so far, no matter what he does, just wait for him to come back and ask him if it's okay?" People also have to have the freedom of their lives, we can't take care of everything, and it will be annoying to care about so much. ”

That's right, it's really like this, if you manage everything too much, then it will definitely be annoying, no matter who you don't like one, every day is so many friends, you are not other people's parents, you care so much, is there something disgusting, so you can be friends until the end.

Feng Chengcheng was still wandering outside at this time, himself, just trying to find a job, but where did he want to get a job, it was so difficult to find and wander, and he didn't find a more painful job all day, so he continued to wander, and the results he got until now are all disappointments, in fact, he also thought about life at the beginning, where it would be so easy, it would definitely be very difficult, but it was not enough to think that it would be so difficult, and now they all want to give up, But when I think that everyone's life is rising, but only myself is declining, that's not okay, it must be good, no matter what, it must become stronger, more capable, and must not let them down too much.

Lin Ming has already started working, how can he rely on them to support himself, he must work harder and harder.

But I've been looking for a whole day today, and I don't have a job that is too suitable, and I don't know why there are so many things I feel I can do, but on the contrary, I don't need people like myself for these jobs, probably because I don't seem to be so suitable.

Feng Chengcheng felt a little hopeless, and finally when he passed by a construction site, he found that those workers were working very hard, and he had just bought a boxed lunch to eat, and those workers were eating white flour steamed buns.

Feng Chengcheng instantly had a pimple in his heart, so he walked over and asked. Excellent reading books

"Do you make very little money here? Why are you all eating white flour steamed buns? ”

I almost forgot when I asked this, in fact, didn't he and Lin Ming eat these things every day, and every time they could eat these things, they felt very satisfied, because sometimes they couldn't even eat these white-flour steamed buns, but now that they have some money, they feel that these white-flour steamed buns are really not suitable for people to eat at all, it seems that people are easy to forget their roots once they have money, this sentence is true.

These construction workers are more talkative, and when they hear someone knowledgeable, they respond.

"I earn a lot, but it's all hard work, no one is willing to spend money, you see what our hands have caused our body, if it's not a child, but also go to school, who wants to do coolies here, earn a lot, but it's very tiring, everyone is reluctant to spend a penny, for fear that the child will suffer in other cities!"

Only then did I find out that these construction workers were relatively old, and it seemed that every one of them was a parent at home, and sure enough, only when parents love their children know that money is difficult to earn, and they must save a penny to give their children a better life.

Feng Chengcheng clenched his fists: "Brother, are you still recruiting?" ”

"Ouch, young man, what do you mean by that? Do you want to come and do it? The old brother looked Feng Chengcheng up and down: "I see that you are so young, don't do hard work, and the family doesn't need you to make money to support the family, just find some easy jobs, where is it, if you do hard work with us and don't wait for your age, you will already be not good, how can you marry a daughter-in-law!" ”

It is normal for these construction workers to do hard work every day, and it is normal for them to be disgraced at this construction site and not find their daughters-in-law, so most of them are people with families who come here to do these things, which is also very normal.

Where can Feng Chengcheng manage so much: "It's okay, brother, if you recruit people, I'll do it here, if you can't find a daughter-in-law, that's a matter of the future, isn't it important to make money now!" ”

"Ouch, young man, you have to have this heart, I really admire, you haven't been here before, young people just didn't work for a few days and left, they can't bear this hardship, so we don't want to recruit these young people on the construction site, do it for three days and two ends, what do you mean, he is also tired and we are also tossing, but since you want to do it, I can help you recommend it, as for whether to recruit you or not, it is our boss's business!"

Feng Chengcheng thanked again and again: "Thank you!" Thank you dude! ”

The old brother waved his hand with an atmospheric demon king: "Hey! It's all a trivial matter, everyone is running around for life, and it's not easy for anyone! Don't take it personally! ”

Feng Chengcheng secretly thought in his heart, as long as he could make money, he didn't want to think so much!

After all, everyone is working hard now, everyone is earning so much money, working hard to make life better, and how can they stay the same?

The old man took him to the foreman.

"Brother Li, this kid said that he also wants to come to our construction site to work, can you take a look?"

A construction site like theirs is infinitely recruiting, after all, there is a lot of work on a construction site like theirs, and one more person will complete the project in a day shorter.

In this case, the salary will be a little less, so under normal circumstances, every boss contractor wants more workers to do the work.

Brother Li looked up and down at Feng Chengcheng, and then handed him a cigarette with a smile: "Don't you smoke, brother?" ”

Feng Chengcheng was a little flattered for a while, but he didn't expect that this foreman would be such a prisoner, but a self-cooked guy.

A little embarrassed to take the cigarette, the old brother on the side hurriedly said, "Hey! It's okay to take it quickly, it's not too expensive cigarettes, our brother Li is so good at taking us workers on weekdays. ”