"You still care too much about what others think of you, are you trying hard just to make others look up to you?" Lin Ming really didn't understand, what was the meaning of living like this: "You should know who you live for, you are not living for your parents, nor for your brothers and sisters, nor for your companions, and the most important thing is that you are definitely not living for Naruto Uzumaki, you are living for yourself, for Hinata!" ”

These words may be really important to Hinata Hinata, and it can be regarded as really waking himself up, in fact, at this moment, the whole person was shocked, yes, not for other people, but for himself, for himself.

That's really the case, it's really like that.

"I'm sorry."

After listening to his sister's apology, he felt even more uncomfortable in his heart, thinking that Hinata Hinata didn't need to be like this.

"Why do you say you're sorry, why do you apologize?"

It's a little incomprehensible, this apology is a little inexplicable, Hinata Hinata raised his head and looked at Lin Ming in front of him: "Shouldn't I apologize?" ”

"You're a little baffled, aren't you, why are you apologizing to me? You haven't done anything wrong, and even if you do, the person you have to apologize to is not me, but yourself. ”

Lin Ming just felt that Hinata Chutian had always been a little too embarrassed for himself, he was just embarrassed for himself and didn't embarrass others, so he felt that Hinata Hinata didn't need to do this, but apologizing was even more unnecessary, whether it was right or wrong, in fact, these are not important, where is right or wrong so important, what matters is just what you think, what you do yourself, these are very important, as for the others, maybe they are really not so important, right, what is important is it, A person should never think too much, and that's probably it, and if you really have to think too much sometimes, it's actually completely unnecessary for many people.

For example, this girl sometimes shouldn't think like this, after all, this kind of thought really makes people feel a little speechless, and why should he be like this, what can be right or wrong?

As long as it can be corrected in the future, but there is no need, saying a word of right or wrong and saying sorry is an absolutely unnecessary thing, because a word of sorry may make you put down a lot of things, rather than simply so easy and so easy to do, sue things, so it's better not to apologize, no matter what.

Don't apologize even if you do something wrong, and make sure you understand where you stand and what you should do.

Although today's brother is really fierce, there are indeed some differences compared to the past, although the usual brother is also more strict with himself, but he has never been so fierce, such a fierce brother is the first time to see, so this is a little nervous, after all, my brother has never been such a fierce person, and even if I didn't like to take care of myself before, I have never been so fierce, because my brother himself is a person who doesn't like to lose his temper, although he still loses his temper occasionally, But this kind of time is really special and rare, in itself, tantrums are a special thing that makes people feel helpless, always losing their temper, naturally being annoyed by others, and my brother has always been a man.

So tantrums are basically never seen in this situation.

But today's brother doesn't know why, and he has been losing his temper all the time...... When I said these words, I felt a little embarrassed in my heart, but my brother on weekdays was never like this, so how could I feel good in my heart, I felt a little sad, I think why should my brother treat myself like this today, but my brother in the past has never been like this, does my brother not like himself now, and began to lose his temper with himself infinitely. 53 Chinese Net

In fact, as a sister or as a girl, no one wants to be vicious all the time, this feeling is not good at all, everyone likes the feeling of being pampered on weekdays, no one likes the feeling of being murdered, everyone hates it, no one will feel that it is a good thing to be treated like this, so sometimes if some people are too fierce to themselves, they will still be unhappy in their hearts, in fact, it is also very normal. Because it's a little girl after all!

The skin is still very thin! No one wants to be treated like this all the time.

So at this time, Hinata Hinata really didn't know what to do.

Because if you apologize, my brother may not accept my apology, but my brother's appearance today makes Hinata Hinata, feel as if everything is wrong, if that's the case, then the fear in my heart is self-evident, and that feeling is as if I will anger my brother with everything I say today, and my brother is unhappy today, as if he will always lose his temper with himself.

In fact, the little girl is not happy in her heart, and she also feels that she has done nothing wrong, it is clear that she is telling the truth, sharing her heart with her brother, but the brother treats herself like this, in fact, the little girl really feels very uncomfortable in her heart, especially unhappy, but there is no way, because the two brothers and sisters have always been very close to each other, and tell each other their feelings, so that the other party clearly knows what they are thinking, in fact, such a brother-sister relationship is rare.

And this kind of brother-sister relationship is also a very good relationship, because after all, sometimes you may talk to others about your feelings, but others don't understand and don't want to understand.

Looking at Hinata Hinata pitiful, he didn't know what to say there, and he didn't dare to speak, but he still sighed, as an elder brother, he should actually teach his sister some truths, not so fierce, and there is a little guilt in his heart towards his sister, but he was a little too excited just now, in fact, there is no need to look like this, forget it, my sister is still young now, and it is normal for some things to be confused and confused, why treat it like this, This appearance makes my sister feel uncomfortable, and the relationship between their brother and sister will also have some undeserved situations because of this.

"Actually, don't think about it, the reason why I say these things to you is just to hope that you can understand some truth, that is, the road you are going to take next is for yourself, not for anyone, so no matter what other people say or do, you don't care about them, because they are unlikely to change your life, no one can change your life, only you can change, So you don't have to care about what other people do, and you don't have to care. ”

I just hope that my sister can do a good job of herself along the way, and she can understand the path she is taking in the environment.

For my brother's words, I naturally understand very clearly in my heart that everything my brother does is for his own good, and sometimes, whether it's fierce, or whatever, isn't it already clear who my brother is for? In fact, I never knew in my heart, my brother has been working hard for himself all his life, after all, my brother has indeed been living for himself before, but now my brother seems to have begun to slowly understand that this heart should be opened, and then be kind to my sister and family, the relationship between their brother and sister is slowly getting better invisibly, but like before, I also like the way they get along every day, such a mode of getting along, after a long time, who will be unhappy?

"Actually, brother, I understand what you said, brother, don't worry, I'm not a child anymore, I'll try to do all the things you say, maybe sometimes I don't necessarily be able to do it, but it doesn't mean that I haven't worked hard, in fact, I've been changing, others may not be able to see it, but my brother has been practicing with me these days, and it should be the one who sees it most accurately,

I don't want anyone to see this effort, but at least it won't be denied, because no one will like the feeling of being denied, and I don't like it either, I don't want to be recognized no matter how hard I try, I hope that one day all people will be impressed by me, they will say that this child will also work hard, it turns out that this child is not what we imagined, nothing! I don't know when I'll get such recognition! I think it will be a long, long time before I get this recognition, right?

But that doesn't matter! I don't care when I can be recognized, all I care about is whether I can be recognized, as long as I can be recognized, it doesn't matter how long it takes, I can wait, brother, no one knows me better than you these days, am I really not working hard enough? ”

For Hinata's words, this heart is distressed and helpless, what hurts is just why Hinata's first day thinks like this, in fact, whether it can be recognized or not, is it really that important? It's just to go your own way and live your own life, whether other people's words or ideas, it's just other people, why care.

"I ask you, what are you trying for? Is it for who is working hard for others, or for yourself, sometimes one of the things you need to think about is why you are doing this, if you are just working hard for others, hoping to be recognized by others,