Just had a simple lunch, and received a WeChat message from Fei Ya: "Are you busy now?" ”

Xiao Han dialed Fei Ya's voice.

Fiya: Hello, the guests came yesterday and didn't bother to talk to you. There's no one in the store, so if you have something to say.

Xiao Han: Your son's colleague said that before his departure, your son left a message that he can now stand on his own and does not need you to earn money for him abroad. He wants you back, and she wants you to reconcile with his father! He hopes to see your family reunited when he returns!

Fia: What did you say? Did my son's colleague tell you that? My son knows that his dad is not dead?

Xiao Han: Yes, Zhong Fei's colleague told me.

Fia: Remarry his father?

Xiao Han: This is Zhong Fei's wish, and I think this is also the best result.

Fia: After all these years, I couldn't accept his father before, and I don't know if I can accept it now, and besides, even if I could, his father might have remarried.

Xiao Han: If his father has not been looking for another woman, if his father has been waiting for you, can you accept him?

Fia: Is there such a man now?

Xiao Han: What if that's the case?

Fia: He cheated during his marriage, let alone after the divorce.

Xiao Han: What if you misunderstood him?

Fia: That can't be!

Xiao Han: Think about it first, if you misunderstand him, if he really hasn't remarried, can you accept him and wait until you think about it before replying to me?

Fia: Okay, let me think about it.

Xiao Han hung up the voice.

Perhaps because of the epidemic, many people have to stay at home, and there are naturally more people who are single to seek marriage online.

Another lady named Pear Blossom in Bijie, Guizhou Province asked to be added as a friend.

Xiao Han: Hello!

Rika: Hello, are you really asking for marriage?

Xiao Han: I once asked others about this, and I must be asking for marriage.

Rika: Can you tell us a little bit about yourself?

Xiao Han: To get married, you have to understand each other, and my information is true.

Rika: I've seen it, you're in pretty good condition. Are you responsible for your family?

Xiao Han understands that divorced women mention "responsibility," generally taking care of children requires the other party to pay, and then will use "love the house and Wu" as the reason.

Xiao Han: There must be a sense of responsibility.

Rika: I brought a son, would you dislike it?

Xiao Han: The key depends on why you are married, if you are just to help you raise your children, this kind of marriage is a kind of use. Besides, look at whether your son understands the Grace Map, many children now are not filial to their biological parents, and only know how to ask for it, let alone to their stepfather.

Pear blossom really said: Men should have a sense of responsibility and responsibility, and they should know how to love the house and Wu.

Xiao Han: If you don't have children and the other person does, maybe your view will be the opposite.

Rika: If I find a husband who can help me raise the children, I will serve him wholeheartedly. Don't forget, it costs money for a man to hire a babysitter, right?

Xiao Han: Doing housework at home is like being a nanny, and this idea is spreading in society just like the current epidemic. Because of this view, a large number of young women do not even know how to cook.

Rika: Needless to say, if you can accept my child and raise him, we'll talk, otherwise we'll stop here.

Xiao Han: Shouldn't we know more?

Rika: Absolutely.

Xiao Han: My intuition tells me that your previous experience was very bumpy, right?

Rika Blossom: Anyone who is divorced, whether male or female, must have experienced ups and downs, but I have more ups and downs.

Xiao Han: Oh, it's more sad, right?

Rika: Absolutely. I can't sleep now when I think about the past, and I can't forget it. It's a pity that I'm not highly educated, otherwise I would have written a book for myself.

Xiao Han: But you're still young, not old enough to write an autobiography.

Rika: I'm young, but I've had experiences that no other woman has.

Xiao Han: Then you can tell me, maybe it can increase my perceptual understanding of you.

Rika: I know it's unlikely that I'll be with you, but maybe it's a comfort to me to have someone who can listen to my memories.

Xiao Han: I can understand what you say.

Lihua: I was originally from the countryside, my ex-husband's name was Xin Shun, and his family gave my family 80,000 bride price to marry me.

Xiao Han: Is his family wealthy?

Rika: At that time, his parents were still alive, he was an ordinary farmer, and he had an 18-year-old brother.

Originally, his family only had a small courtyard and three brick houses, but in order to marry his daughter-in-law, he built a small courtyard and two brick houses, and then borrowed money from my mother's family as a bride price, so after I married into his family, his family was already poor.

Xiao Han: Evil bride price!

Rika: Although his family is very poor, I have a good relationship with him, and his family is very good to me, and my life is stable.

Xiao Han: It's not bad.

Ewha Blossom: I gave birth to my son the following year, and his family took great care of me.

But! His younger brother is not young, and he will need to spend money to marry a daughter-in-law in another two years, and the family's debts have not been paid off, and those who want debts often come to the door.

Xiao Han: It's so difficult, what should I do?

Ewha Blossom: That year, just after the Spring Festival, Xin Shun came back from the town, and the family was having dinner, Xin Shun said that he had thought about it, and he was going to Shanxi to dig coal to make money.

His father objected at the time, saying that digging coal was dangerous, and her mother disagreed.

But Xin Shun said: "What if I don't go out to earn money?" How can you pay off your debts without earning money? How can I marry my younger brother Xin Shuo after I don't make money? ”

Hearing him say this, the whole family was speechless.

At night, I looked at his face,......

The next day, when he was leaving, my father-in-law sat on the threshold frowning and smoking a cigarette pouch, and my mother-in-law wrapped him in tears.

His brother said, "Brother, why don't you let me go?" ”

I took the child to the entrance of the village, and he only kissed my son's face, and the son cried. All he said to me was, "Take your son!" Then he turned around and walked away.

Xiao Han: How long have you been there?

Rika: So far, he hasn't come back.

Xiao Han: Is it?

Rika: He hasn't heard from him for more than half a year since he left, and his family is going crazy. I handed the child over to my mother-in-law, and I asked his younger brother Xin Shuo to go with me to a coal mine in Shanxi to find someone.

When I got to the mine, the people in the mine said that Xin Shun was missing!

Xiao Han: Missing?

Rihwa: The man said that three months ago, just after the wages were paid, there was a water leakage incident in the mine, and there were seven miners who were going underground at the time, but only five bodies were recovered later, and Xin Shun and another miner were not found, and it is estimated that both of them were buried in the collapsed roadway.

When I heard that, I collapsed in the ground!

In those days, I took Xin Shuo to the mine every day to cry, and in order to appease me, the mine gave me 50,000 yuan to settle the matter.

When I got home, my mother-in-law passed out when she heard it.

Xiao Han: Unfortunately!

Rihwa: I finally paid off my debt with the money from the mine, but Shin Suk is also old enough to marry a wife.

Xiao Han: Difficult!

Rika: During this time, Shin Shuo always came to my yard and often brought food to my son, and my son always liked to play with his uncle.

Xiao Han: It's normal for an uncle to hurt a nephew.

Rika: But I noticed that he looked at me more and more like that.

Xiao Han: Which one?

Rika: It's hard to say. And he always likes to touch me intentionally or unintentionally, and when I breastfeed my son, he always pretends to work and does not want to avoid it, which makes me very embarrassed.

Xiao Han: Did he want to?

Rihwa: Once my son had a high fever, he rode a motorcycle to take my mother and my wife to the town health center, and when he came back, it was raining heavily, so he had to stop halfway and go into a small well house on the side of the road.

The small well room is only the size of a tabletop, and there is an uncovered wellhead in the middle.

He squeezed me inside and hugged me from behind, while I couldn't push him while I held the baby.

Xiao Han: He intended it? Uncle shouldn't be like this.

Rika: Since then, I've been thinking about finding another family to remarry.

My parents-in-law saw that Xin Shuo was interested in me, but instead of interfering, they supported Xin Shuo to be good to me.

One day my mother-in-law came to my house, called me over, and sat with her on my kang and watched the sleeping child.

She said to me: "Xin Shun is gone, it is not easy for you to take your son alone, and it will be even more difficult in the future." You are still young, and it is impossible to be widowed for the rest of your life, but if you want to marry an outsider, then my grandson will have to take someone else's surname, and if my family doesn't let you take the child away, then you will definitely not be able to let it go. ”

Xiao Han: What do you mean by your mother-in-law?

Rika: My mother-in-law asked me, "What do you think Xin Shuo is like to you?" ”

My face was feverish, and I said, "My brother is very good to me and the child, but she is the child's uncle after all!" ”

Xiao Han: yes, how can this work?

Ewha : My mother-in-law said, "Shin Shuo has also reached the age of starting a family, and he also likes you very much, if the two of you have been together, it will be good for the children and the family." ”

Xiao Han: Can it be done?

Rika: I refused my mother-in-law's request right then.

Xiao Han: Yes, it should be refused!

Rika: But instead of restraining me, Shin Shuo became more affectionate to me. He came to me every day to tease my son and bought me new clothes from the market.

I really can't hide from him.

I remember that in the winter of that year, when the kang was just starting to be hot, the big stove in the side room lit a fire, and the chopping wood was damp, and I couldn't light it, so the house was full of smoke.

Xin Shuo brought a handful of dry firewood and lit a fire.

At night, he reached out and touched my mother's bed, and he said that the kang fire had not yet heated the kang thoroughly, and the bed was still cold.

I said it didn't matter, just burn it for a while.

Xiao Han: He?

Rihwa: He said that he was young and strong, so he warmed the bed for me first. With that, he took off his coat and hugged my son into my bed.

Xiao Han: What about you?

Rika: I watched from the side and was stunned, not knowing how to drive him away.

Then my son fell asleep and he pulled me up......

Xiao Han: Ahhh

Rika: I didn't dare to open my eyes that night, my mind was full of Xin Shun's shadow, and I even hallucinated that this was Xin Shun and not his brother Xin Shuo!

Xiao Han: Finally let him ......

Rika: That's how Shin Suk and I became a fact.

Xiao Han: If you spread it, aren't you afraid of other people's discussions?

Rika: At first, there was a lot of gossip, but after a while, the people in the village understood.

Xiao Han: Actually, people who understand can indeed understand.

Rika: But I'm getting more and more psychologically unbearable, every time I'm with Shin Suk, I think of his brother, my son's father, and every time I cry in the corners of my eyes!

Xiao Han: Will it be okay after a long time?

Rika: No.

One night half a year later, it was thundering outside, and Xin Shuo turned his face again. Suddenly, lightning shone into the house, and I saw that the face in front of me was Xin Shun! It was miserable and white, and his eyes were wide, as if they were about to fall out! I was so scared that I screamed and pushed Xin Shuo to the ground!

Xiao Han: Illusion.

Rika: I told Shin Shuo that I have the shadow of his brother in my heart, and we can't be together again!

Xiao Han: When you're with him, you always think of his brother, right?

Rika: Yes! No matter how good Xin Shuo is to me, and I am not happy, as long as I am sad.

Xiao Han: Leaving him?

Rika: yes.

I've got something to do, and I'm going to deliver food to the old thing.

Xiao Han: Old thing?

Rika: yes.

Xiao Han: Later you?

Rika: That's all for today, but I'll talk about my experience another day. Good bye!

Xiao Han is impatient: Okay, see you another day!