Zhao Ya nodded, "Today, the eldest princess and Princess Shuxian treat me very well, and the eldest princess also said that she would invite me to the banquet and get to know a few more clan contacts, and the princess also meant this, let me help Her Royal Highness a little." ”

"Well, that's right, if you want to go, just go, just choose a few weighty ones, it's not appropriate to go out too many times, it's not good for you to refuse to use us as an excuse to block it, after all, you still have to be reserved when you want to get married."

Mrs. Zhao agreed, but she couldn't run out every day, and the daughter to be married should be married with peace of mind, and when she entered the door, her mother-in-law and husband had the final say, so they didn't ask much.

"Yes, granddaughter listens to grandmother."

"Well, let's go, I'm tired after a day of playing, let's go rest, let's eat in the house later."

"Yes."

Zhao Xiaoya went back to the house, and after eating and washing up at night, Mrs. Zhao came over.

"Mother, why are you here, why don't you wear a cloak to block the wind when it's windy at night."

Zhao Ya helped her mother in to pay attention to the weakness of love, poured her a cup of warm white water, and was worried that she would be sleepy after drinking tea at night.

Mrs. Zhao pulled her daughter to lie down together and covered the quilt, and the mother and daughter hadn't slept together for a long time and whispered.

"Girl, you tell me the truth, don't you like Brother Qian?"

Zhao Ya pouted and shook her head, "No, really, there is no dislike of him." ”

"Then why don't you look interested in him, and your attitude is still very cold, this is not good. Your father and brother and I are worried about you.

You have to know that there are few royal princes who are patient, and he is a prince who is sure of everything, and your attitude is not good for a bad start.

The holy decree has been decreed that you have to marry if you don't marry, this is not only the royal will, but also the wish of the Zhao family, the clansmen need a chance to enter the court to have more opportunities to show themselves, and someone needs to marry into the capital, you know this.

Your sister's marriage will also be drafted in a few years, and the choice of the noble son of the capital has been decided, and it cannot be changed. ”

Mrs. Zhao paused for a moment and continued: "You have made a good start for our family, everyone in the family can find relatives in the capital, and it is inevitable that relatives will move around in the future, and the network will also be broadened, so that the opportunities for the masters can become more and more.

You see that your father and your uncle have been officials in the capital for many years, and their connections are still limited, and there are too many people who grab fat, so our family is more than one step weaker than the Yang family.

But in fact, in terms of heritage and ability, the Yang family is not as good as our grandfathers, and their qualifications are worse than our family, but their official positions are promoted faster than their own families.

If it's just for the official position, it's just for the sake of the official position, but this involves the marriage of the children and the future future, if it weren't for the draft, you wouldn't be able to say that the sons and daughters of the third-grade official family are relatives, and the family is not a lie.

Even though our family is a famous family, there is only this bit of fame left to support face, what can it be used compared with the network resources of the capital, do you think that the other party will not pick the woman's family background and ability. It's not that simple, and who doesn't want more benefits. ”

Zhao Ya also understood in her heart when she heard this, but no one had ever talked to her so deeply, and once it was torn apart, it was a little difficult to accept, with less beautiful expectations and more reality and coldness of equivalent exchange.

Mrs. Zhao sighed, "Don't think I'm talking badly, no matter how good you are, but your father and brother are only fourth-grade officials, why should the son of a first- or second-rank official marry you, you can't bring him more benefits."

Now that you have made a good start to your family, the clan is also very grateful and happy, and promised to be willing to support you, and never let you feel cold, whether it is money or connections, it will support you and make you feel at ease.

That's all your father can do for you, don't blame your father, he has to think more about the clan and the Zhao family. ”

"Look at what my mother said, without these, my father is a four-rank I will also be drafted, and there will be no change, now I am already high, and I have no resentment.

I just think he's a little bit good, huh...... There is a kind of panic that I can't grasp, like a dream, and there is nothing when I wake up. ”

Zhao Ya understands her responsibility and doesn't complain, but she is a little empty in her heart.

Mrs. Zhao smiled and patted her daughter, her face full of kindness, "I understand, it's that the poor family suddenly turned over and became a landlord, and they didn't know what to do, and they were a little panicked and afraid that their dreams would be shattered." ”

Zhao Ya nodded, "Actually, he is very good to me, and he is attentive enough, I know that I shouldn't be so cold to him, but I don't know how to express it, I told him today, and I am willing to be honest." ”

"Well, that's good, my mother doesn't force you to love him, take your time, but husband and wife always want to be together. As for the rest, it depends on yourself, I don't ask or care, and I won't ask you to take the initiative to love him, it depends on how you choose.

It is your ability to catch his heart, your road will be smoother, if you can't respect each other like a guest, it's also excellent, don't resent or be jealous, learn more from the queen, it is the only favor in the harem, then the former concubine and concubine room have not also been taken care of by her, this is the atmosphere of the style. ”

"Yes, I listen to my mother, I will treat him seriously, and I won't screw it anymore, in fact, he is really good, and he is willing to work hard, and his attitude is honest, since it has been decided, I will do everything I should do.

Even if the side concubine enters the door, I am not afraid of anyone, there will be other people without the side concubine, the mother did not have a good start for me, did not also fight for a splendid glory, husband and wife love, why should I give up so early, I am only fifteen years old, I am not willing to stay in the cold palace for the rest of my life. ”

Mrs. Zhao saw that her daughter had figured it out, so she nodded with relief, "Yes, you have to grasp your own happiness, and your father and mother can't help you." Make a few clothes and shoes for Brother Qian, you don't need me to remind you what to do, you know. ”

Zhao Ya blushed and buried herself in her mother's arms, "I know, I gave a purse today." ”

"Good girl, my mother will not let the clansmen give up on you, even if the clansmen give up on you, your father and mother and your brother and sister-in-law will never give up on you, you are not the daughter of the Ma family, and you will not fall into that situation."

Mrs. Zhao categorically reassured her daughter to eat.

"Mother, thank you and your father for planning for me like this, my daughter will not let you down, I will live my life well."

"Well, Niangniang let the side concubine enter a year late, which is already the greatest preferential treatment for you, and you must not be resentful. The affairs of the court are that even the mother of the country can't intervene. ”

"Yes, I know."

"Well, go to sleep."

Mrs. Zhao slept with her daughter tonight to soothe her panic and nervousness, worry about future responsibilities and worry about her brother's feelings, etc., she needed to give her own encouragement and affirmation.