When Mu Anli completely calmed down, Father Mu opened his mouth again. "If you want to choose to go abroad, you have to make some things clear to you in advance, which will help you in the future."

Mu Anli nodded, indicating that she was listening.

"Growing up so big, Mom and Dad have always been decentralized in their management of you, don't interfere too much in your affairs, and respect your opinions. But if you ask for our opinion, we will try our best to help you analyze.

As a result, you now have the habit of not being able to distinguish what you want, and you already have the answers to many things in your heart, but you must let others point it out.

Not only that, but your personality is too gentle and kind, and you are prone to overflowing with compassion, and a little thing will be moved. ”

Mu Anli was stunned, she didn't expect her father to know her so well, even her mental activities.

But her father never said anything about her once, and suddenly pointed out her shortcomings so directly, Mu Anli was a little unacceptable. Mu Anli's expression was a little stiff, but she nodded silently again.

"Lili, don't think that your father is accusing you, if you don't go far, he may never say these words for the rest of his life."

Mu's mother looked at Mu Anli's expression was wrong, and hurriedly explained, "You may feel a little unacceptable to point it out so suddenly, but you must know that these problems really exist in you, so you must listen carefully." ”

Mu Anli did not speak.

However, Dad Mu didn't pay attention to it and continued to speak. "Other than that, we don't know what causes your low self-esteem. Learning not to say no to all people and everything is actually a sign of low emotional intelligence.

Don't be so humble, the more humble you are, the less respect you will get from others. Only when you are truly strong will others look at you squarely. Mom and Dad have always taught you to 'be kind to others', but you also have to know that there is a saying that 'people are good and are bullied'.

There are many kinds of kindness, and indiscriminate help can be for the sake of the tiger. The premise of helping a person is that he is capable enough, in other words, strong enough.

You have to remember that no matter what time you are, don't lose yourself, understand what you want, don't be moved by other people's words, and don't lower your bottom line too much.

In addition, learn to refuse, you have nothing bad to refuse, you have to distinguish between friend and foe, and as an independent person, you have to have your own ideas.

Keep your head high, you're really good, and you deserve more. ”

Mu Anli didn't know how she got back to the bedroom, but she knew that her father's words had a great impact on her.

Maybe the previous self was really too bad, so it seems that he is really going to go on a trip with Gu Yucheng...

Mu Anli thought in a daze, and fell asleep like this.

In the living room, Mu's father and Mu's mother looked worriedly in the direction of Mu Anli's bedroom.

"Lao Mu, you say, can Lili accept so many things at once?" Although she said this, Mu's mother's eyes never left the direction Mu Anli left for a moment.

Hearing this, Father Mu sighed heavily, "If you can't bear it, you have to bear it, she is no longer a child, she will have to leave her life one day, and we can't be by her side for a lifetime." It's better to figure it out early, long pain is better than short pain. ”

"But what if this kid can't think about it and does something stupid, I'm worried about her." Mu's mother stared in the direction where Mu Anli was, refusing to leave for a moment, and the worry on her face almost overflowed.

"What do you say?" Father Mu drank it suddenly, and the worry on his face was no less than that of Mother Mu. Immediately realizing that his reaction was too aggressive, Mu Dad softened and said,

"Actually, thanks to Lili's temperament, I dare to say this, because with her extremely soft character, she will definitely not do anything too drastic, because she can't think of it, and she doesn't dare to think of it.

Okay, you just don't know about it, don't stimulate her now, let her be quiet, she will definitely be fine. ”

After Dad Mu finished speaking, he pretended to smile happily and got up to leave. "It's your mouth." Mu's mother said in her heart, but she knew that Mu's father was not wrong, and she didn't move and just quietly looked at Mu Anli's direction.