Just because of that confiding on the Internet, just because he was understood, Banzhuan regarded Spiegel as a bosom friend.

That night, Banzhuan asked for an exchange on WeChat again.

Brick: Hello, are you still so busy?

Spiegel was moved by his dedication to bricks.

Spiegel: You're fine, it's going to be busy.

Banbrick: It always bothers you, don't you mind?

Spiegel: It's okay, I appreciate your sincerity and simplicity.

You may not believe it, but it's the first time I've heard people praise me when I'm so big.

Spiegel's heart trembled: Really? You have a lot of good things about you!

Banzhuan: But in the eyes of others, I can neither speak nor communicate.

Spiegel: Just be yourself, why care about other people's opinions.

Slab Brick: yes, I know.

Spiegel knowingly asked: Has anyone introduced you to someone recently? Did you go to meet?

Brick: My mother's matchmaker at the marriage agency introduced me to another one, but I didn't go to meet him.

Spiegel: Why? You don't want to please a wife anymore?

Banzhuan: Today's girls, whether rich or poor, handsome or ugly, are too materialistic and too difficult to socialize, and I have no confidence.

Spiegel: But you must know that mourning is greater than death, you must not lose confidence, you must rekindle your enthusiasm, you must not be alone for the rest of your life.

Banbrick: I can only take this step when I meet a woman like you who can understand me.

Spiegel: Some women who are better than me are that I am not suitable for you at all, and in fact, I am not worthy of you.

Brick: Why?

Spiegel: Aside from that, is your auto repair business okay now?

Banzhuan: Since the epidemic has passed, more and more people have come to repair cars in my shop, and they are almost too busy.

Spiegel: Didn't you say you wanted to go into advanced equipment? What's going on?

Bricks: The money is not in place, and I am hesitating to lend usury.

Spiegel: How much is missing?

Slab brick: There are still 30,000 or 40,000 yuan left.

Spiegel: That's not much, can't you just earn it with hard work?

Slabs: Four or five more months will be enough.

Spiegel: Can't you borrow it from relatives and friends first?

Banzhuan: My relatives still asked my mother to borrow money, and some of them have not been repaid for several years. As for talking about friends, I told you before that I have no friends.

Spiegel: Do you consider me a friend?

Banzhuan: In reality, I wish I had a friend like you, but we've only been communicating online so far.

Spiegel: What if I lend you money?

Banzhuan: How is it possible, in reality, it is so difficult to find someone to borrow money, let alone that you are just a netizen.

Spiegel: What if!

Slab Brick: If it's true, then I don't even know how to thank you.

Spiegel: Can you guarantee to make your auto repair shop bigger and better?

Banzhuan: If I get advanced equipment, I can repair more advanced vehicles, and I will definitely make more money.

Spiegel: Okay, give me your bank card number, and I'll lend you 50,000.

Brick: Sister, don't tease your brother!

Spiegel: What a joke, give me the card number!

Brick: Ahhh How do I feel like I'm dreaming? So how much interest do you want? How long is the repayment period?

Spiegel: The interest is the candy that you can marry my wife after your auto repair shop grows bigger, and the repayment period is after you are generous.

Brick: Wait a minute, I'll tap my finger with a hammer.

Spiegel: What for?

Brick: My fingers hurt, I'm not dreaming. I'll give you the card number.

Spiegel: Did you get it?

Banzhuan: There is a text message from the bank, you really transferred 50,000 yuan to me! It's true!

Spiegel: You didn't break your fingers, did you?

Slab Brick: It's fine. Sister, you are my angel and my nobleman!

Spiegel: I am neither your angel nor your nobleman, I am just a woman who has been divorced five times and has had two children.

Slab Brick: So what? Those high-minded women, except for snobbery and indifference, you are much nobler than them.

Spiegel: Okay, let's not talk about it, you can concentrate on your auto repair shop in the future, I'm still waiting to eat your candy!

Banzhuan: I'll work hard, sister, you can rest first, I'll be happy.

Spiegel: Good night!

Slab Brick: Thank you! Good night!

Having done something noble and generous, Spiegel was very happy, but after a while, he couldn't help but feel a little worried. This 50,000 yuan, although it is not too much, but it is all my current savings, what if the brick shop does not do well in the future, what if it can't be repaid? Or what if you don't want to pay back the bricks like many other people in the society in the future? But why do you support him like this? Why did you get hot-headed and send money to others? Intuition tells me that Banbrick is not the kind of person who has no conscience, and since the money has been beaten, he believes that others will be with him and will not regret it.

Lying on the bed, Spiegel couldn't sleep, his thoughts were chaotic. I think about the victim of cold violence for a while, and I think about the ups and downs of my past, and I am always worried about the two children I gave birth to. Are the two children okay in their respective homes now? What do their respective fathers and stepmothers do to them? Especially the daughter who was born later, so thin, is she getting fat now?

A WeChat prompt on his mobile phone interrupted Spiegel's thoughts, and a netizen with the online name of Yao Ke asked to be added as a friend.

Guest: Good evening!

Spiegel: Good evening!

Guest: Are you single?

Spiegel: Why do you ask?

Visitor: Because I saw your contact information on the marriage website.

Spiegel: If you weren't a scammer, you would be single.

Guest: Do you think it's easier for a woman to get married than a man?

Spiegel: Definitely.

Stranger: But women are more critical than men, aren't they?

Spiegel: It's a common phenomenon.

Guest: What kind of are you looking for?

Spiegel: Kind-hearted and hardworking.

Guest: But most girls want to find good conditions.

Spiegel: Who doesn't want to find a good one? But first of all, he must have a good heart, otherwise he will not pay no matter how rich he is.

Guest: You're right! I wonder if my conditions are right for you? But I myself feel that I am kind

Spiegel: What are your qualifications?

I am from Taiyuan, 31 years old, divorced, and have a daughter with an ex-wife. I work as a salesman in a private company, and I have a car but no house.

Spiegel: And where do you live?

Guest: Currently renting.

Spiegel: How tall and how much do you weigh?

Visitors: 180/160

Spiegel: Wow, you're very tall and weight, you're handsome, right?

Guest: Anyway, it's thick eyebrows and big eyes.

Spiegel: There should be a lot of beautiful women chasing you, why do you have to look for them on the Internet?

Guest: There are a lot of people who are willing to be my girlfriend, but no one wants to marry me.

Spiegel: Is it because you don't own a house? Or no money?

Guest: Yes!

Spiegel: Haven't you been married and divorced?

Guest: I was married, and I was divorced because I had no money or a house.

Spiegel: Then why did she choose you in the first place? Why do I have to divorce after marrying you?

Guest: The child has no mother, so it's a long story.

Spiegel: Then you just say slowly, I'll make a backup of your memory.

Guest: I used to behave in a chic manner and speak wittily and humorously, but now I am not in the mood for this.

Spiegel: Hit? Not confident anymore?

Guest: Now it's mature and it's landed.

Spiegel: You're not much more mature at your age.

Guest: I used to say that I would never regret what I had done, but now I ......

Spiegel: Do you regret it?

Guest: The intestines are all repentant!

Spiegel: What makes you regret being like this?

Visitor: When I was 23 years old, I worked in a workshop in a private company that processed and installed iron fences.

Spiegel: It seems that you don't have a high degree of education.

Guest: There is a female worker named Xiao Zao who is the same age as me, and she always likes to listen to me, and her eyes are always fixed on my face.

Spiegel: Got a crush on you?

Guest: But she has a small nose, a small mouth, and small eyes, and she is not tall, and she is always without makeup, which is quite inconspicuous.

Spiegel: It's like grass, it's not like flowers, it doesn't attract you, does it?

Guest: Although my family conditions were not very good at that time, and my education was not high, I was a little arrogant because of my good looks and was favored by many beautiful girls.

Spiegel: A small person, just because you are handsome, is arrogant, it means that you were immature at that time.

Guest: In the summer of this year, my mother was hospitalized with breast cancer and was about to have surgery, so I took a leave of absence to serve my mother.

Spiegel: Where's your dad?

My parents are divorced, my dad has remarried, I live with my mom, and my dad only gives me 15,000 a month for living expenses until I get married.

Spiegel: Oh, that's right! You didn't go to college, was it affected by your parents' divorce?

Guest: No, my parents divorced when I was 18 years old, but I hate my dad so much!

Spiegel: Hate your dad? Why?

Guest: Hate him for divorcing my mother.

Spiegel: What right do you have to hate your father? If you hate him, why do you want his money?

Guest: That's what he should have given.

Spiegel: How should it be? If, according to the law, her obligation is to support you until you are 18 years old, if according to morality, even if he has not raised you for a day since you were born, he is also your biological father, and you can only honor him and repay him, this is human morality, don't you understand?

Visitor: Your words are like those of an old man.

Spiegel: We young people can't be unreasonable, right?

Guest: Actually, it's not that I don't understand what you're saying, it's just that we post-90s and post-90s people are like this, don't say anything about anyone. For example, are you earning money now? Do you want your parents' money? Do you pay your parents every month? Have you served them?

Spiegel: I'm ......, don't talk about it, I'm going to talk about it.

Guest: That time my mother was hospitalized for surgery, it was the first time I was waiting for a patient, I was tired, tired and bored, and it was inconvenient for my son to serve his mother, I was really annoyed. But at this time, Xiao Zao, as my colleague, bought a lot of fruit to visit the hospital.

But I was very embarrassed by her arrival.

Spiegel: Why?

Visitor: Because none of my own friends came to visit except for my relatives and my mother's friends

Spiegel: Aren't there a lot of pretty girls who appreciate you?

Guest: I often sing, dance and play games with those beautiful girls, and the relationship is usually very hot, and I have told them about my mother's hospitalization, intentionally or unintentionally, but who knows that they will hide when I encounter something.

Spiegel: Explain that they are not your real friends.

Guest: So when Xiao Zao came to visit, I felt so embarrassed.

Seeing that no one was helping me, she helped me serve my mother, and now I was much more relaxed.

Spiegel: It's so nice to have a girl like Xiao Zao! I heard another handsome guy mention that he had also met such a kind girl.

Guest: My mother is very grateful to her, always supports me in my relationship with her, and I try to be nice to her out of gratitude, but I don't like her very much in my heart.

Spiegel: Is your mother's illness cured?

The operation was successful, but I spent more than a month in the hospital and spent all my family's savings.

Spiegel: Anyway, your mother's recovery is due to Xiao Zao, and you should be sincere to Xiao Zao.

Visitor: But I ......

Spiegel: Did you like other girls at the time?

Visitor: I actually liked a girl named Gulu at that time.

Spiegel: Oh, isn't this beautiful gulls? But why didn't her mother come and take care of you when she was hospitalized?

Guest: She is beautiful, plump and charming, and runs a small clothing store.

Spiegel: Can she take a fancy to you?

Guest: We like each other and are good playmates, but we don't want to be in a relationship, and that's why she won't help me take care of my mom.

Spiegel: Playmates?

Visitor: Hmm!

Spiegel: To what extent?

Guest: Let's go karaoke together, go swimming together, and do that.

Spiegel: Isn't that a relationship?

Guest: I also think it's love, but she always says we're just good friends, playmates, not love partners.

Spiegel: She's so avant-garde!

Guest: I understand that he likes to play with me because he likes me as a person, and she doesn't want to treat me as a romantic partner because she is not happy with my conditions.

Spiegel: So what do you do?

Guest: In order to make her look up to me, I quit my job as a worker in my former unit and went to work as a salesman in a trading company.

I wanted to impress her with sincerity. I always say sweet things to her, and I always care about her, and I buy her chocolates and birthday cakes for her birthday, and even when I do that, I always try to be gentle and considerate to make her happy.

Spiegel: Just because she is attractive, you are so good to her, and if you can do this to Xiao Zao, she will definitely be very moved.

Guest: Even though I was like this to Gulu, she still didn't want to marry me, and in the end she chose the son of a big boss to marry.

Spiegel: You deserve to fail!

Guest: After being dumped by the gull, it didn't take long for me to come out of my frustration, and I started to pursue a female teacher named Li Jie again.

Spiegel: Oh, what about this teacher?

Guest: Average appearance, but polite and polite.

Spiegel: Do you like it too?

Visitor: How so? She was a year younger than me. I admire being a teacher at such a young age. When I first dated her, he said that I was handsome, very chic, handsome, and cool! But when I communicate with her, I seem a little ignorant and vulgar, while she seems to be cultured and substantial, and he pays special attention to taste.

Spiegel: That's the case with a lot of teachers.

Guest: She even pays attention to subtlety and process in doing that kind of thing.

Spiegel: Hmm! Hum!

Guest: But there's one thing she's not as good as the gull.

Spiegel: Which point?

Guest: I think she's too hypocritical!

Spiegel: Hypocrisy?

Guest: She only interacts with me secretly, never openly. She didn't even allow me to pick her up at the entrance of her school, nor did she allow me to tell anyone about her relationship with me.

Spiegel: She's too much about her reputation, isn't she?

Guest: Because she doesn't want to marry me either! I just want to be a playmate in private!

Spiegel: Oh, how long have you been in a private relationship with her?

Guest: When I dated her for more than three months, I once opened a room with her in a suburban hotel, and when I walked out of the hotel, she turned her back to me.

"This is our last time, don't look for me again!" Her voice was low, but her tone was resolute.

"Li Jie, what's wrong? Am I sorry for you? "I felt a little sudden.

"You're not sorry for me, you're very nice, you're so handsome, it's just ......" she lowered her head.

"Just what?" I asked.

"My parents introduced me to a partner, it's a public institution, it's not good for me to date you privately!" She said why.

Spiegel: It seems that she is the same as the gull, and people still think that your conditions are not worthy of her.

Guest: I pretended to be very chic at the time and gave myself a face: "I won't contact you again in the future, there are many beautiful women who like me, and their conditions are very good, thank you for giving me a chance to choose again!" ”

She sneered: "I wish you happiness, goodbye!" ”

Spiegel: You've been kicked again, hehe!

Guest: After breaking up with her, once I went to the karaoke hall with a few friends in the society, and a big brother talked to me about "Pickling Girls Dafa!" ”

Spiegel: What a mess, and "Pickling Girl Dafa."

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Guest: He had a cigarette in his mouth, squinted his eyes and said to me: "Little brother, it doesn't matter whether your conditions are good or not, if you want to find a good wife, you must first understand the psychology of women." ”

"Can Big Brother give me some pointers? What is the psychology of women? "I asked him for advice.

"When a woman sees a rich or powerful person, her eyes will glow, and she will naturally be envious, and she will naturally no longer squint at you, even if you don't spend money on her, she is willing to follow you, if you dump her in style, she will suffer for a lifetime!" The eldest brother pouted and spat out a smoke ring and continued: "If a woman sees that you have no money and power, he will naturally squint at you, and that vision is cold, even if you lend her money to spend, he still looks down on you!" ”

"Big brother, you're so right! So what should men do? "I'm humbly asking.

After the eldest brother took a sip of beer, he put the goblet on the coffee table: "Give her a hot can and hold it, and she will be honest when she marries and gives birth to a child!" ”

"Is this possible? She won't blame the man for lying to her in the future, right? "I have some doubts.

"Silly boy, you have to think like this, it's the woman's own greed first, and the honest poor can't marry a daughter-in-law, what should I do? This is the way of the world. Besides, women always look down on those who don't have money, have they ever been soft-hearted when they let men spend money to eat, drink, and buy things? Don't worry about that, marrying a daughter-in-law into the door is the last word, otherwise you deserve to be a bachelor! ”

Spiegel: Your so-called big brother is not a good thing!

Guest: But I think what he said makes sense, and people who have no money and are honest really don't want to be looked down upon.

Spiegel: You don't study well!

Guest: Why don't you learn well, who doesn't want to marry a wife with good conditions and a beautiful life to live a good life?

Spiegel: But that little jujube is so good to you, can you bear to abandon it?

Guest: But I don't feel for her, I can't force myself, right?

Spiegel: What about you?

Guest: I have another civil servant named Wang Xiang, who is two years younger than me.

Spiegel: Oh, and a private playmate, too?

Guest: We also play together in private, but this time I just want to marry her as a wife.

Spiegel: Your handsome virgin girlfriend seems to be very easy, can Wang Xiang accept it? Are you lying?

Guest: At the beginning, I told her that my dad had several old houses to be demolished in Beijing, and he could get 50 million after the demolition! When the time comes, my dad will give me half of the money.

Spiegel: Don't you dislike your dad? Does he really have a house in Beijing?

Visitor: I don't like my dad, but that's all I can say. My dad is now in Beijing, where he drives for a former coal boss in Shanxi who owns several houses in Beijing, where my dad and his remarried wife live.

Spiegel: That means your dad doesn't have a house in Beijing! Did she believe you if you lied like that?

Guest: She was very happy and looking forward to it! But at first she didn't fully believe it, saying that she would not marry me until I got the money my dad gave me.

Spiegel: She's afraid you'll lie to her, right?

Guest: In order to get her to trust me and marry me, I used a little trick.

Spiegel: By what means?

Guest: I called my dad beforehand and asked him to cooperate with me, and then I took Wang Xiang to Beijing.

In Beijing, I took her to live in the coal boss's house where my dad lived for one night, so she really believed that my dad had a big house in Beijing, and my dad also said that there were several more houses, waiting for the demolition, and when the developer gave me the money, he would give me half of it.

I said to Wang Xiang: "When I get the money, I will buy a villa in Taiyuan, if you marry me, I will write the names of the two of us as the owner of the villa property in the future, I will also buy you a luxury car, and I will also take you on a global tour." ”

Spiegel: It's such a big hot jar, girls will be tempted when they hear it.

Guest: She's looking forward to it! But she fluttered her eyes and asked me, "Would you change your mind if you had money?" ”

I deliberately said, "I love you very much now, but there are other girls who like me too, and if you are afraid that I will change my mind when I am rich, then you should marry me now!" ”

Spiegel: You're about to become an old fritter for a pickled girl!

Guest: She also knew that I did have a woman's relationship, and she was really afraid that I would change my mind if I was rich, so she agreed to marry me.

Spiegel: Did you buy her anything? Did you give her a bride price?

Guest: She knew that my mother had undergone major surgery, and my family had no money for the time being, so the result was ......

Spiegel: How?

Guest: I only spent more than 1,000 yuan to marry her!

Spiegel: How did you get married?

Guest: She posted 200,000 yuan to me for the wedding I could prepare. I used the money to buy her diamond rings and clothes, etc., and used the money to have a decent wedding for me. And the new house is also her house, and I used the money to renovate it. Didn't give her a penny as a bride price!

Spiegel: She's so stupid!

Guest: She's not stupid, he's willing to pay because he thought I would get that huge sum of money in the future.

Spiegel: Didn't her parents see anything wrong?

Guest: Her parents inquired about demolishing an old house in Beijing, and the owner could indeed get a huge amount of money, but his parents didn't expect that my father didn't actually have a house in Beijing. In addition, his parents were very satisfied when they saw that I was tall and handsome.

Spiegel: How did you get married?

Guest: I was quite affectionate in the first half of my marriage, but the second half of the year was dull, and the next year she gave birth to a daughter.

I thought that with my daughter, my relationship with her would be stable, even if she knew that I was lying to her before that I could get a huge amount of money, she would step down and live with me, but ......

Spiegel: You can't hold the fire in the paper, can you?

Guest: It was clear after the snow that day, the sky was blue and the ground was white. I just entered the house humming Jay Chou's song, and saw her and her parents sitting on the sofa in a rage, and they all glared at me with their eyes!

I understood right away, and they knew!

"What's wrong with you? Angry with whom? I asked knowingly.

Wang Xiang scolded for the first time: "You villain, liar!" ”

I couldn't get angry in front of her parents, and besides, I did have a reason: "I don't have anything to be sorry for you after I get married!" ”

Usually Sven's Wang Xiang's scolding suddenly raised an octave: "What about your father's room?" What about the huge sums of money? How long do you want to lie to me? You lack virtue and do not lack virtue! ”

Her mother also began to argue: "Ask yourself, why did my daughter, a civil servant, marry you, a poor bastard who is nothing!" If you hadn't lied to her, would she have been able to marry you? ”

I still called her mother: "Mom, I will always be good to Wang Xiang in the future!" ”

Wang Xiang didn't seem to eat this: "I don't need you to be a liar to me!" ”

Listening to her mother and daughter count me one by one, I was a little angry: "Wang Xiang! If you didn't like me in the first place, why did you go to open a room with me, aren't you kidding me?! ”

didn't wait for her mother to scold again, her father spoke: "Don't quarrel, if you want to blame it, blame my daughter for not having long eyes and not seeing who you are!" If I hadn't gone to Beijing two days ago to meet your father's remarried wife, we would still be in the dark, still holding hot jars! Needless to say, you guys get divorced! ”

Spiegel: It seems that his father is scheming.

Guest: I clearly told her and her parents on the spot that my daughter is not yet half a year old, and I do not agree to divorce!

Spiegel: Speaking of which, she and her parents are also ruthless enough, thinking that you will marry you when you will have money in the future, and as soon as you know that you are fake, you will divorce, and you will not talk about the relationship between husband and wife at all!

Guest: In order to divorce me, she went to the court to sue, and just after half a year of the lawsuit, the court ruled that we were divorced!

Spiegel: Oh, how?

Guest: Because the property and other property were bought with her money, and it was pre-marital property, it all belonged to her. Since her daughter is not breastfeeding, the right to support her also belongs to her!

Spiegel: So you're out of the house?

Guest: This marriage left me with nothing but a beautiful dream, and when I woke up, there was nothing but making me a father!

Spiegel: Marriages obtained by deception will not last long after all!

Guest: But money, status, and conditions have taught me the most real lesson!

Spiegel: Originally, if you don't have that level, don't go to Gaopan.

Guest: After the marriage failed, my work in the unit did not go well, so I changed to a small company as a salesman.

Spiegel: By the way, did your mom know that you were divorced?

Guest: She knows, she is anxious but helpless. I also tried to keep her from worrying about me, and I told her that I would find a better wife. She asked me to go back and live with her, but I knew she was getting along with an old man who cared about her and I didn't want to disturb them, so I rented another apartment for myself.

Spiegel: It may be more difficult for them to remarry than we are.

Visitor: Just the other Sunday, I went to the shrine with my friend, and I wanted to ask Our Lady to bless me with good luck, but there I saw ......

Spiegel: Which beauty is it?

Guest: Jujube! Zao and her husband are leading their four or five-year-old daughters out of the main hall after worshipping the Virgin!

Spiegel: Regret it?

Guest: Originally, Xiaozao's husband should have been me, and I should have had this ordinary but warm family!

Spiegel: It's late, it's late!

Guest: Kneeling in front of the statue of the Virgin, I cried, I couldn't help crying......