Do your own homework, but the level we came out today is high-risk, and it may not be suitable to enter in the form of mediation, and how to help the victim woman out of the community in the counseling model.

No more silence.

To curb domestic violence, early detection and early intervention are emphasized.

However, the effective information grasped by the outline of the public procuratorate and law is relatively insufficient, social organizations such as the Internet of Things community do not have the right to enforce the law, and the institutional measures of the civil affairs and education departments are also lacking in pertinence.

This is a common problem in traditional counter-advisory work.

The long-term and complex nature of counseling issues makes it all the more worthwhile for victims to need not only personal safety protection, but also professional help in psychological and life aspects.

How to solve these problems, Changsha City Company in Southern Province has made useful explorations.

The first is the multi-agency joint meeting system, and we are multi-departmental cooperation to carry out preventive safeguards, which is the judicial inspection of the office.

Civil affairs, let's think about how to innovate and solve this problem of this family to the bud.

The second is the team's Gong family Feng Zili, and then civil servants plus such employees and cadres, such a cooperation method.

Organize professional people to do professional things to increase zero tolerance, and endure all consulting companies, always stand up and speak, and always intervene like this.

Yan Cangtao is one of the many counseling victims that Shashi has helped in recent years.

In 2016, when he came to Shashi Company for help for the first time, he hesitated at the gate for a long time, and after several struggles, he finally made up his mind.

He was received by Zhang Xiaoshi from the Shashi Unknown Children Legal Assistance Center.

"Actually, I am also very calm, because people have suffered a lot of domestic violence in such a marriage, but I have never thought about how to deal with it, what can I do to resist this matter."

One of the ways in which he is domestic violence should actually be particularly severe is the one that is so big in time and then every time when you are in this escalation.

Well, the latter words feel that his whole person is that kind of gloomy, that is, the kind of long-term domestic violence against him that you don't think you can see any hope.

There was also an unhappy experience, more than half a month ago, she was beaten by her husband again, and then Yan Yini, who couldn't bear it, chose to run away from home.

But because he didn't have an independent source of income, he quickly spent his savings again, and he already made a lot of things by hand, and then learned about his uh sales.

But we are born with a high level of risk, including the situation at the time, and the leaders will feel that he may not be suitable for mediation.

And, uh, this party's request for divorce at that time was relatively strong.

He just expressed his unwillingness to mediate, so we can only help him through legal matters.

Shashi Company organized a joint meeting of the company's institutions, and representatives of the company, courts, offices, civil affairs and other departments discussed and formulated a solution strategy for the matter.

Then we wanted to apply for such a life protection for him first, because the first idea at that time was to ensure that his personal safety could be guaranteed.

What we prepared at the time was that if the material was to include Yan Yini during this period, then there was special evidence of domestic violence that helped.

For example, his product appraisal and his pitching record, and then including a survey transcript from the house, and then including some photos.

Then we all gave that Chen Dabao that we can communicate like this, except that the applicant is in addition to the victim himself, and for the nameless, it is the mother's certificate.

There is also the person whose life has been intimidated or threatened and does not have to file a lawsuit.

However, it is possible to apply for nursing care on behalf of the relevant emails such as surrender and neighborhood committees, and a nursing staff is an important unit for the rights and interests of nursing care.

Their application is more experienced in terms of organization.

In the end, the Kaihu District People's Court of Shashi City issued a personal safety protection order to Yan Yini, and the office issued a domestic violence against Feng Zihong.

makes Yan Yini have a treasure at the legal level for personal safety, but her husband Feng Zihong's past atrocities are still a lingering shadow in finance.

Because Feng Zihong once threatened to take revenge on him and his family, because you never dared to go home.

Even always worried that his husband would come to the door, he was afraid of his own technology for this activity, so he gave him an uh.

At that time, he had no financial resources of his own, so he was provided with technical help.

Because in the area of counter-counseling, we have a case, especially for the victims of counseling, if there is any difficulty, we will not do it, with the help of the two levels of companies and organizations in the urban area and the relevant civil affairs departments.

Yan Yini took her children and lived in the Yuelu District Anti-Counseling Shelter Center.

Not only did they get free food, shelter and daily necessities, but they also felt full security and freedom for the first time in many years.

Alas, the one you help yourself may be different, well, that warmth and a sense of home, anyway, it's relatively isolated, and people can't be different from each other.

These people have to go through this investigation and treatment, so they can only enter this central hospital after temporary registration.

But compared to this civil aviation system, this one of us who is back to school is relatively the most interesting woman, that is, when she can only let her out when she goes in, you need some activities of this staff.

I am going to work now or I am going to supply, in order to be able to let the victim completely out of the haze of counseling, and at the same time, out of confidence in life, the company is helping Yan Yini to handle the divorce lawsuit at the same time.

She was also given psychological guidance and help.

In this process, tomorrow's professional anti-consulting agency also plays an important role, this social organization, Xincheng Marriage and Family Service Center, is also a social organization created by our provincial and municipal three-level companies.

Specializing in this and counter-consulting from such a one.

Well, it's a little bit of a thing, we're such professional social workers, psychological counselors, lawyers, and our family, at this stage, are all volunteers in the civil service.

The main reason why he is so professional in dealing with things in this way should be good is not because he is in the process of a procedure.

I might think about something sometimes.

Well, what you may be looking forward to for this test is that you still have a certain affection for this husband.

And then there will be worries about the child's side, so maybe we are in the process.

Sometimes he will hesitate, at this time you will help him analyze some of the situations he is facing now to respect his own decision, and more often we will have this kind of guidance from them.

But one guide to this change in his life was with the help of social workers and volunteers at this professional counter-counseling agency.

Yan Yini rekindled hope for her future life.

Because he is a staff member who has worries about life, he was also introduced to the corresponding work according to his experience, and he learned related to it in one day.

So at that time, we thought that the best way was to have a private kindergarten, and then we went to contact him to communicate, and then he said, well, that happens to be what we are thinking about here.

We're going to come back and explore this time, and we saw the park and went to work.

In June 2017, with the joint help of Changshi Company and relevant social organizations, Yan Yini ended Feng Zihong's nearly 20-year marriage through a legal lawsuit.

At the same time, she also won the custody of the child with the help of the awareness of legal assistance, and now the mother and daughter have started a new life under the protection of all social forces.

I came back early for such a process, but probably should uh this uh domestic violence exist thing.

It may have such a repetition.

So it may be a little longer determined, and we will also learn about its recent situation from time to time, including the difficulties it may have encountered in the process.

We provide support for the protection of victims, such as doctors' protection orders, divorces, etc., and are not the only way to solve counseling problems.

More often than not, the degree of counseling is not serious, and the victim is mostly reluctant to do so, and is also in the style of a divorced family.

We're talking about a family where everything is going on a lot, the wife of the family, who wants violence to grow up and be restrained.

But she didn't want the public to know about it.

He doesn't need the family to lead it, and after such a stage, how should companies and social organizations intervene in this situation to effectively help the victim?

This feature, this mediation, they may be this, and it is also an innovation for us, we have a misunderstanding, we think that mediation is reconciliation, I don't want to divorce, we are persuasion, and not persuasion.

So in fact, the adjustment, it is divided into this scene of reconciliation, we first let ourselves be able to be peaceful, because the peaceful student union, this relationship between husband and wife.

Correctly recognize this intimacy with the mother for a degree of this teacher.

Holding a cousin, this and this violent, he is a wrong behavior, so we will talk about this from this level.

I have to play a big part, because after all, not all household trade is extremely bad.

In the process of mediation, the staff of companies and social organizations are not limited to stopping violence and condemning the perpetrators.

Feng Zili said: "Instead, analyze the causes of family conflicts from the actual situation of both husband and wife. ”

Find a workable solution Well, if the victim should not benefit well, he hopes to be able to restore the family's current situation.

Yan Cangtao said: "We will bring the two sides face to face together, and that is first in this family." ”

We, the victims, have to apologize to the victims, and if we don't have the ability to express the mistakes enough, there may be some problems in the family on the other hand.

Yan Cangtao said: "In some schools on both sides, there may be something that the wife is dissatisfied with her husband, and the husband thinks that there is something wrong with his wife. ”

Both parties of the opposite sex, such communication and then the two parties, the communication between each other to improve, in the end, after the occurrence of our marriage, we must dissolve the marriage.

Feng Zili said: "Or, it's just blindly for the right to demand, it's not right." ”

Yan Cangtao said: "First of all, the principle we insist on is that the regulations are wrong, and they must be needed. ”