Xiao Xia, every time my mother videos with you recently, I find that you are unhappy. Is it because you don't like mom anymore?

Mom guesses, do you think your mother doesn't like you because you haven't seen your mother for a long time?

Xiao Xia, if you ask your mother to say a favorite person, then your mother will not hesitate to say that it is Xiao Xia. Now that you stay with your grandmother, your mother won't be able to see you in the short term, and this mother can understand. Because now mom and dad still have a lot of money and financial problems to solve. Dad and Grandma will wait for the dust to settle and then bring Xiaoxia to Mom's city. Mom is also wondering if it is on your birthday to go to the city where you are going to see you.

Xiaoxia, your mother likes you very much and loves you very much, and the love and care you get from your mother is no less than that of other children.

During the time we didn't see each other, Mom wanted to play a game with you. This game is called, If Mom Isn't There. Natsu, do you know what you should do if your mother isn't there? This game can tell you.

Xiaoxia, if your mother is not there, you are with your parents and grandparents, please help your mother love them, and please help your mother love yourself.

How do you love yourself? Remember to wash your hands, eat plenty of vegetables and sliced meat, and drink plenty of milk. When you go out to play with your children, remember to be confident and share good things with your children.

When you encounter someone you don't like and something you don't want to do, say it out loud. When you speak, say it in a soothing tone and explain the specific and detailed reasons. Don't look away, just stare at each other's eyes.

When you meet someone you like and what you want to do, you must be brave and strive for it. When encountering people who don't support Xiao Xia, Xiao Xia also has to say out loud the reasons why he insists. Because if you want to convince others to support you, you need to say how you feel and give specific examples.

Xiao Xia, in fact, will live, don't do things you don't like, do what you like, that is, love yourself. If you have a lot of love, give it to your relatives and friends, to your dad and grandma, to help them live well, to help them do what they like, and to help them stop doing things they don't like. This is the power of your love.

Xiao Xia, if the mother is not there, and the mothers of other children are around. Don't forget to hug yourself for your mom. We are different from others, but it is not bad to be different. The world of children is sometimes very similar to the world of adults. People who live in the same environment like to get together and affirm each other. Sometimes, after recognizing themselves for a long time, they will start to reject people who are different from them. Natsu-chan, don't be sad if someone rejects you because you're different from them. Because the world is big, there are many different people living different lives, you have to relax your heart and accept different things and people in different parts of the world. People who reject others often do so because they don't consider the size of the world. Xiao Xia, as long as you open your heart, then the world is all yours. And when you have the world in your heart, you will accept the differences of others, and you will accept yourself.

Natsu, what should you do if your mother is not there, but you are sick. It's a terrible feeling, isn't it? You will cough, your nose will not pass, you will not sleep well, and you will not feel like you can eat. Mom still remembers how you used to be sick, and now when you think about it, Mom will cry in distress. In the past, when you had a cold, you just wanted your grandmother to sleep at night, and my mother really hoped that she could be needed at that time, even if she didn't sleep every day, her mother was willing. When you are sick, rest more, drink plenty of water, and don't be impatient. In fact, being sick is a very special thing, it will give you the opportunity to get along with yourself and understand your body. It is only when you are sick that the body talks to you like an individual and lets you know that it is uncomfortable. As long as you calm your heart, you can soothe your body with your thoughts when you are sick, which is also a different feeling.

Xiaoxia, if your mother is not there, what should you do if you want someone to play with you? Grandma and Dad are both independent and busy people. Mom hopes that you will take them as role models, and in the future, you should also know what you are doing, what you want to do, it is good to have someone to accompany you, and it doesn't matter if you don't have it. People who are seriously busy with their own business are very attractive. Mom's appearance is actually only average, but Mom is often categorized as a pretty girl. My mother didn't understand it before, but now it gradually understands that it's because when my mother works, she is very serious and hard-working, has no distractions, doesn't have a lot of femininity, and doesn't know how to be coquettish and twisted. Believing in one's own abilities and working hard to achieve one's own goals is a very beautiful trait. Natsu-chan, find what you want to do and dive into it. We don't necessarily need to be accompanied all the time. Speaking of this, my mother wanted to hold you in her arms for a long time. When you were so young, it was my mother's helplessness to call you independent and strong, and my mother loved you and hoped that you would not be sad and lonely. At any time, you can come to your mother, and she will be willing to accompany you. Mom believes that you can find your own hobbies that you focus on and immerse yourself in, and use them to accompany you.

Xiao Xia, if your mother is not there, you feel that you can't sleep, so what should you do? My mother was like this when she was a child, and she had endless energy every day, and her grandmother turned off the lights, and a few hours later, she found that her mother was still playing with her fingers. It doesn't matter, you're now a little motor full of electricity, and you have so much energy that it seems to be inexhaustible. How good, if you can't sleep, Mom thinks you can think of some things you like, and you can also keep some small question marks in your head, those things you don't understand very well, you can classify them and collect them in your heart little by little. After dawn, you can take them out and take your time to find the answer.

Xiao Xia, if Mom is not there, Dad and Grandma have new friends, and you don't know how to get along with her, what should you do? She may be very kind to you, but she may also be so kind that you don't get used to it for a while. Then mom wants to tell you, please get along with her. What does it mean to get along well? Getting along well doesn't mean that we just have a smile on our faces and cooperate with whatever happens. Xiao Xia, to get along well with friends is to treat others truthfully, and at the same time, to achieve common goals with others without going against their own wishes. For example, a new friend wants to watch a cartoon with you, and if Natsu wants to go downstairs to play at this time, then say, I won't watch cartoons with you today because I'm going downstairs to play now. If Xiao Xia also happens to want to watch cartoons, then actively cooperate, you can ask new friends, what cartoon do you want to watch, we can find a film that both of you want to watch.

Natsu, sometimes when faced with a new friend, we can easily refuse her to join our lives. But new friends and new things can actually bring us a lot of new experiences. Every day is a new day, and if there's a chance to try something new, it's better than every day, right? When embracing a new life, be kind to the people you meet.

Xiao Xia, if your mother is not there, will you be lost when you celebrate your birthday? You are in your father's hometown, that familiar suburb, familiar river, and you bouncing in that room, all of which are the thoughts of your mother. But what makes my mother different from before is that she can't just say she will go to see you, just do it right away. Mom will always be your mom, but mom is now Dad's guest. Guests can't suddenly come to the house without saying hello, right?

Natsu-chan, do you know what a birthday is? It is the day you came into the world. It's a day my mom will never forget. That big summer, your mother brought you into the world, and to this day your mother remembers the way you winked at your father when you were just born. At that time, my mother said, wow, the double eyelids are so beautiful. Mom is an authentic single eyelid. You inherited your father, who had big eyes and beautiful double eyelids.

On the day you were born, your mother was very hard, and your father accompanied your mother. He kept touching his mother's head with his hand, brushing her hair away, and then kissing her forehead. Xiao Xia, at that time, my mother gained a lot of power. That's the power of love. Mom will always remember the day she saw you, and your birthday is the most important holiday in Mom's life.

Xiao Xia, if your mother is not there, please don't be angry with your mother. Because there are many things in life that do not help themselves and backfire, but if you observe them for a long time, you will find that objective things and obstacles will not stop love and thoughts, and sometimes even enhance them. So you're going to get more than you think. Please let go of your mind, be with your mother, and feel it, and you will find that in fact, your mother's love has always been by your side.