Chapter 20: There is a long way to go in educating children

Due to the relatively small amount, Li Miaomiao and Aunt Wang completed it quickly. Today, another sum of money was recorded in the account, and Aunt Wang's whole person was full of happiness.

"Miao Miao, my aunt is so happy, I have never earned so much money for so many years. Although the life at home is still passable, but seeing your Uncle Li helping outside all day long, not seeing people in the busy farming season, my aunt is distressed", Aunt Wang chatted with Li Miaomiao while making Yanyan's clothes.

"My aunt doesn't have any skills, so she can only do some work at home, take care of the children, and can't help your Uncle Li. But in the past few days, following you, my aunt has already earned a tael of silver, which I couldn't think of before, you are the great benefactor of my aunt's family", Aunt Wang sincerely thanked Li Miaomiao, and she had no scruples at all when she spoke.

"My aunt tormented me when she spoke, you always helped us when my father and mother were there, and when my father and mother were gone, you helped us more. I won't say more thanks to you, what is unkind, we are a family, don't talk about this in the future" Li Miaomiao really regards Aunt Wang as a family, and she doesn't like to listen to these polite words.

The two of them chatted casually, and from time to time there were hearty laughter of a few children outside, and the warm and happy time was very pleasant.

After dinner in the evening, lying on the kang with the two children in her arms, Li Miaomiao asked softly, "Did my sister scare you today?" ”

Her appearance today is really a bit scary, but she can't leave any shadows in the child's heart.

"I'm a little scared, my sister looks scary with scissors," Yeon-yeon replied honestly.

Hearing the birth of Lei Lei on the other side, Li Miaomiao asked again, "What about Lei Lei Jue?" ”

"I was also scared at first, I saw my mother stab my father with scissors", as if recalling some bad memory, Lei Lei's voice stopped abruptly.

Li Miaomiao also remembered, it seems that there was a time when the two quarreled, and her mother took scissors to stab her father, and she didn't avoid their children at all, it seems that this incident left a shadow on Lei Lei's young heart.

Li Miaomiao was thinking about how to solve it, and heard Lei Lei's voice coming, "I'm only a little scared today, really only a little bit." I know that my sister is protecting me and my sister, and unlike my mother, my sister is my hero. Afraid that Li Miaomiao would not believe it, Lei Lei repeated it again.

Seeing such a sensible child, Li Miaomiao was relieved and sad at the same time, how could such a good child have to go through so much suffering, and he would be better to them in the future.

"Lei Lei did a good job today, protected his sister, and he was not impatient at all, he was still strong, and his sister will reward you tomorrow", of course, the children who do good deeds should be praised.

"Yanyan is also very well-behaved today", the little girl also wants a reward. Li Miaomiao touched the top of her hair and continued, "You have to remember that if your strength does not allow it, it is not harmful to yourself to be patient in everything, but if it reaches the point where you can't bear it anymore, you don't need to be patient anymore."

Seeing that the two children didn't seem to understand, Li Miaomiao still patiently finished speaking, "But we must also pay attention to methods, and we can't use our own safety as a price at any time, let alone hurt others." Everything my sister said and did in front of everyone today was to deter them, not to hurt them. Cutting Li Bai's clothes is just a way to resist, not a purpose, my sister just wants him to be afraid of us, not to damage his clothes, do you understand" Looking at their confused looks, Li Miaomiao knew that they didn't understand.

But she can't communicate with children, she has never gotten along with children before, and she doesn't know how to educate children. It seems that in the future, I have to be cautious in my words and deeds, otherwise the child will follow her crookedly, how can I do it.

Today's children are a blank sheet of paper, and adults will do the same what children do, just look at Li Bai, and follow Yao Xiuzhi to learn what to become.

No longer talking too much to the children, Li Miaomiao went down the kang and blew out the oil lamp to prepare for sleep, but the two children didn't follow, and asked what tomorrow's reward would be.

The three sisters and brothers laughed and made a mess, and it was not until they were tired that the two children fell asleep deeply.

Li Miaomiao is still a little worried about children's education, she has no experience, it seems that she has to send Lei Lei to the school as soon as possible, he is already seven years old, and he has to enlighten him as soon as possible.

If you are half-learned, you can also know a little bit about words, don't delay the child. And I have to find a notebook again and again, otherwise in the future, if the business starts, I can't even write my name, wouldn't it be a joke. Fortunately, the original mother is literate, otherwise it would be a big trouble just to explain to others that she can read.

After figuring out everything, Li Miaomiao is not entangled, as long as she works hard to make money in the future, after all, money is not everything, and it is indeed impossible to leave money.

After breakfast the next day, Li Miaomiao took her younger siblings to Changlin's house first, and handed over the little dolls she made yesterday to Aunt Changlin, and asked her to help give them to those who spoke early yesterday.

"Auntie, I'm not familiar with these people, so I have to trouble you to run"

"You girl is polite, just to help you say a word, it's not a big favor, why do you still give gifts, keep such a good thing and sell it for money", Aunt Changlin didn't expect this girl to be so generous, so she persuaded her.

"It's not a valuable thing, just a little thing to make yourself. I have said to Aunt Wang, yesterday everyone helped us out, thank you and thank you, after all, a village life, maybe when you have to help, there is no harm in coming and going, you say yes. ”

Knowing that this girl is doing favors, Aunt Changlin no longer advises that neighbors should move around more, after all, distant relatives are not as close as they are.

Saying goodbye to Aunt Changlin and going to Aunt Wang's house, Li Miaomiao took her younger siblings and opened her mouth to educate, "Lei Lei Yanyan must remember that the grace of dripping water should be repaid by the spring, and others have helped us, we must be grateful, and we must repay others when we can." Moreover, if you have a relationship, don't be stingy with things, others accept your kindness, don't say how they will help you in the future, at least they won't hurt you"

"I know my sister", Lei Lei replied helplessly. He found that his sister has been very preachy since yesterday. Even every time I do something, I have to list a bunch of truths to myself and my sister, why do I think my sister is a little nagging now.

But the little man only dared to complain a little in his heart, and did not dare to speak in front of his sister.

As for Yeonyan, she is a die-hard fan of her sister, in her heart, what her sister said is right, although she doesn't understand, but it sounds like it.

Li Miaomiao didn't know the inner changes she had brought to her brother and sister. I only feel that what I said is not good, and there is a long way to go to educate children, and I will have to teach by word and deed in the future.

If Lei Lei knew Li Miaomiao's thoughts at this time, he would definitely not be able to help but slander, so let's say goodbye.

Because she went to the town today to discuss business, Li Miaomiao felt that she would definitely have to bring a lot of things when she came back, so she didn't let a few children go with her.

Arrange for several children to play at home. So he set off with Aunt Wang to the town.

During this period, Aunt Wang also solved a question in Li Miaomiao's heart, why everyone called Changlin Niang and called Aunt Changlin. Like generally, everyone will call whoever is from who's house, or give her husband's surname and then give it a title, and there are also people like Aunt Wang with their own surname.

It turned out that Changlin's father died not long after Changlin was born, and his husband died from his son, and the juniors were all called Aunt Changlin, and they didn't care much about age when they got used to it, like Li Miaomiao, who should be called Uncle Sheng.

Listening to Aunt Wang talk about Aunt Changlin's difficulty, she pulled up three children by herself, her two daughters got married, Changlin also got married and had children, and the days just passed.

Li Miaomiao discussed with Aunt Wang, if the demand is large this time, she will ask Aunt Changlin for help, and for those who are good to her, she still wants to be able to help.

Aunt Wang made this decision with both hands, and she has been a neighbor for so many years, and she couldn't be more clear about this sister-in-law's personality.