Chapter 346 refusal
After sending Li Datong away, the Yuan family began to clean up the table and prepare to wash and rest.
Yuan Dashuo looked at Ju Ju, the child was helping to wash the dishes and chopsticks over there, and he was very diligent.
He sighed inwardly.
I am also disgusted with the things that people talk about in the village, and it is rare that this girl is willing to speak for their family.
Seeing this, Wen also knew what Yuan Dashuo was thinking, and he also told Ju Ju about it, so she also understood, so she comforted: "This girl can't do this, otherwise, let's take her as a goddaughter." ”
It would be reasonable to take her goddaughter to live in their house, so that no one would be able to speak ill of her.
Otherwise, the reputation of a little girl is either said to be willing to degenerate into cattle and horses for others, or it is said that she wants to marry into the Yuan family with a foolish father.
How ugly it sounds.
And I will marry someone in the future.
Besides, this is not good for the reputation of the Yuan family.
But this child is really sensible, for fear that their family doesn't want her to fight for work every day, and usually forces her to rest for a while, and she also runs home directly to work on her own land.
This made Wen really feel distressed and helpless.
Yuan Dashuo thought that this method would be successful, but he had to ask the children's opinions.
So he immediately took Wen Shi and turned around and went into the west wing, and then beckoned the children to come over.
Yuan Dashuo said this matter with a serious face and asked their opinions.
The goddaughter here is not verbal, it is really a family member.
is the closest person except for his father and mother.
When the children of godfathers and godmothers celebrate the New Year and birthday, they have to give things to red envelopes.
In the future, children will have to add a dowry or help with a little dowry when they get married.
But there are relatively few daughters, most of them are godsons, after all, I don't know if my daughter has turned back after marrying, and my godson is like having one more son.
The elders are good to the juniors, and the juniors will have to return it in the future, just like if the godfather and godmother have few heirs or if they are extinct, they have to be sent to their deaths.
And if the goddaughter returns to the door, she has to walk around as a family, and she has to seal red envelopes to the elderly during the New Year's holidays.
That's why Yuan Dashuo is so solemn, if they agree, they will have an extra sister or sister.
A few children, you look at me, I look at you, they all feel a little awkward.
There are only two fathers and mothers.
They naturally don't want anyone to rob them of their father's love, and that's a goddaughter, unlike cousins and cousins, the two can't be compared.
First of all, Yuan Cheng first whispered: "Then my father and mother accepted Sister Ju as a sister, will I still hurt Ah Cheng as much as before?" ”
Yuan Wu also felt awkward and said: "Why do I think it's so wrong, why did Daddy and Auntie suddenly say this?" ”
Yuan Xiu also raised her eyes to look at her father, she also felt that it was okay to help the people in the same village, but she still had to be cautious about taking care of her daughter, and they were not familiar with it, and she also felt uncomfortable for some reason to have one more relative.
Yuan Man also said pertinently: "I know that Daddy and Auntie feel sorry for Sister Ju, but this is too sudden, you let us accept her as a relative, we naturally can't treat her so quickly at first as good as our own brothers and sisters, and Daddy has never thought about it, now Sister Ju is pitiful, which brother and sister will be pitiful tomorrow, and Daddy and Niang want to take them all as godsons and daughters?" ”
The children's attitudes have been fed back to Yuan Dashuo and Wen, which surprised them a little.
I thought that the children were sensible and kind, and I thought they would choose to be tolerant.
But they don't know that children are also possessive, and they can tell which is lighter and which is heavier.
Like them, even if they are better with the children of the big house, they will not be better than their own four brothers and sisters.
But they just came back and didn't know that Ju Ju was angry to defend their family.
Yuan Dashuo first said sincerely: "Daddy and mother also came to ask if you are willing, if you don't want to, forget it." ”
After explaining, he told Ju Ju about maintaining their family today.
After listening to this, Yuan Man understood why her father and mother suddenly had this thought, it turned out that it was because she was moved.
It's not that it's incomprehensible, but it's really too fast, and suddenly you have to accept someone as a goddaughter.
Yuan Man saw that her brother and sister were a little ashamed, but they didn't want to be entangled.
So she said: "Forget it, everyone is uncomfortable like this, Daddy and Auntie want to help Sister Ju and her father have other ways, don't rush this, and we don't know the people in the village, listening to the wind is the rain, we are not afraid of the shadow, what are we afraid of?" Caring too much makes us seem to be empty-minded. ”
Yuan Man's words also made Yuan Dashuo and Wen wake up, and they were a little embarrassed, they were indeed a little too hasty, and they were glad to ask the children first.
Now this matter is to be patient.
Yuan Man only said again: "It's inconvenient to live together now, when the new house is built, we will live separately, there won't be so much gossip, at present, it is still how long their father and daughter will help, and the father and mother will look at it and give some wages, and when the time comes, they will take the silver money and let them go home and rebuild the house, we can help with some efforts, and the material cost of repairing the roof of the mud block house is only a few taels of silver." ”
There are not a few people in the village who have collapsed their houses, and everyone is thinking of various ways.
Some borrow relatives' houses, which is the most common, and most people are dissatisfied with a large family, but they have to accept it because of their clan blood.
In this way, there must be ordinary friction, as can be seen from the recent resentment in the village.
After a long time, there will definitely be a quarrel.
There are also some people who have few relatives or have no place to go at all, so they can only rent old houses abandoned by others to live, at least they are still sturdy and have not fallen.
The other part is to build a wooden hut with stakes and thatch, which is barely enough to live, but it is also very dangerous in case of heavy rain and strong winds.
But it can't be helped.
Of course, there are also people who start a new house, and there are also people who don't have enough money to earn while making money.
In short, there are different ways, but they are all difficult, and they also need a buffer in time.
Then Ju Ju is no problem to live in their house for a while, the important thing is the follow-up problem.
The things proposed by Yuan Man were similar to what Yuan Dashuo and his wife thought at first, they originally thought that they would wait for Ju Ju's father and daughter to help save enough money and let them go back to the house, but today Ju Ju helped to speak, and saw that she was usually really well-behaved, so the couple got up, or just accept it as a goddaughter.
As a result, the children refused, so forget it.
Yuan Man understands that her father and mother are kind-hearted, but she also has to have a degree, where can she provoke people casually? People's hearts are fickle, and it is difficult for their own family members to talk about it, and they bring others into their homes.
If you want to help her, you can start with something else!
Yuan Man was also glad that her father and mother were not hopeless, and knew to listen to their opinions.
It's bad to meet the kind of father and mother who still insists on going her own way!
Anyway, today's events also give the second-room couple a vigilance, and it won't be like this again next time.