There is one thing that left a very deep impression on Xiao Fugua, that day Xiao Fugua was writing, there was a minister of grandfather age who spoke well, and I don't know what Kangxi ordered with a smile, the old man suddenly knelt down, slammed his head on the ground, smashed a head of blood, and smashed himself unconscious.

At the moment, the little brush that really scared Xiao Fugua fell off, his eyes were wide, and he wanted to cry.

Later, Kangxi came over, hugged him, and wrote with his hands and grandson.

Someone came in and dragged the man out, and someone brought buckets to mop the floor, and there were buckets of blood.

Everyone dealt with the scene calmly, and none of them showed the slightest expression of surprise on their faces, everything was there

It's obviously a terrible thing, but in the arms of the calm and even calm and powerful Kangxi, all this has become normal and firm.

This kind of thing is really important for the psychological growth of children.

For example, children are not particularly scared when they see mice.

If you are a damn person who sees the scream: "Rats help, ahhhhh

If a female man throws a slipper over, and the mouse runs away, everyone continues to watch TV calmly, turns around and takes a mouse cage, and destroys the mouse, the child grows up, and may also feel that the mouse is not such a dirty little animal, which needs to be eliminated, but there is nothing to be afraid of.

The same is true.

Although you don't need to stage extreme violence in front of your children, when emergencies come, such as conflicts and bloodshed outside, you can't control the situation, but when you take children, no matter what, adults should try to be calm.

Because, the child is imitating, learning.

Don't magnify your fear and let your child learn.

Because of Kangxi's strong and gentle teaching, it didn't take long for Xiao Fugua to go from fear at the beginning to indifference later.

Huang Mafa said that writing is to calm the mind, and if the mind is not quiet, it is useless to write anything.

This is a process that trains your mind and your brain.

Not to mention the buzz of Hongjin's level, even if it is a little more exciting, Xiao Fugua can also send a few to control the sending.

Hongjin said a few words, Xiao Fugua didn't react at all, he was a little annoyed and angry: "Some people say that you are smart like a goblin, I don't think you look like you, goblins are not as stupid as you!" ”

Little Fugua draws and draws symbols seriously.

Xiong Cixu thought to himself, hey, I now know why Lord Banzai likes this child, this child's serious little appearance is too painful.

He can also be regarded as a brother who has taught a handful of emperors, to tell the truth, almost all of the emperor's brothers are smart, and there are individuals like Lao Shi, and they are compared with whom.

Most of them are very good at etiquette, and there are really not many people like Hongjin in class.

I'm afraid that if it's the prince, he won't speak in class.

I'm afraid that the gentleman invited by the prince is a little too accustomed to children, and it is also a bad problem that is easy to develop in small classes.

Hongjin is at home, Mr. is used to holding him, he is even a little afraid of him, he is the same as the prince in his heart, and he feels that Mr. is a senior minion.

But this set will not work in Xiong Cixu, because this old man has a problem