Chapter 152: Liu Fang's Difficulties
Liu Fang's house was very lively, and several ladies in the yard sat around laughing, and they didn't know what happy things they were talking about.
In addition, there are two old men sitting next to each other bragging about each other, their voices are high and low, noisy and shouting, and they are a little disturbing when they are far away.
When the two of them carried something to the door, someone saw it but didn't see it, and no one said hello or handed a word inside or anything. Glancing at it, he said that they had gone.
The two looked at each other and walked in with their things.
"Brother Chen."
After walking in, the two of them should not be able to see those people in the courtyard, and shouted directly to Chen Kui, regardless of whether he was there or not, anyway, they shouted that someone would come out.
People did come out, but the people who came out surprised them.
Looking at Liu Fang, who could be said to have moved out step by step, the two were so shocked that they hurriedly went up to support her.
Du Chun was very angry, and while carefully helping her to go inside, he scolded her: "What are you doing when you come out, you just gave birth and you don't stay in the house for confinement, and run out to blow the wind." What's the matter, is there no one in the Chen family except you? ”
When a woman gives birth to a child, it is almost like going to the ghost gate to walk around, and confinement is the second difficulty for women. If you don't sit well in confinement, you will easily fall into various diseases and it will be difficult to cure them in the future.
The first month after giving birth is basically to stay at home, not touching cold water, not blowing wind, and not working. After sitting well in confinement and recovering your body, you will suffer a lot less sin in the future.
"Oh, who's there? Now the whole house is just me and the child. Liu Fang was helped back to the bed by them, and the little baby next to her was lying in swaddling clothes, sleeping soundly with her eyes closed.
Du Chun was full of anger and asked her how she just went out, was there no one in the house?
"People? People go out after lunch, and when they come back, it's probably time when dinner is ready. As for the ones outside, you have seen them, so don't mention them. ”
I don't know if it's because I haven't recovered after giving birth, or because I haven't rested well. Anyway, listening to her, I felt that her voice was very empty. Looking at his face, he was also haggard and bloodless.
Seeing Du Chunzhi's anger, he asked her what about Chen Kui? What about his old lady? Where did she go, no one cared about her, leaving them to fend for themselves here.
Liu Fang shook his head: "He has something to do, as for his mother...... You know that character, and it would be better to expect her to serve me, than to do it myself. ”
"If you have something to go out, I think it's to go out and hide and be idle." Du Chun sneered: "I really gave birth to a daughter, and one or two of them have become inhuman?" ”
"What can be the way, my body is difficult to conceive, I finally have one, I hope it will be a son, and it turns out to be a daughter." Liu Fang looked at the ignorant child on the bed, and a bitter taste spread in her mouth.
"That's what you think too?" Evening Song looked at her.
Liu Fang touched the tiny hand, smaller than her own palm: "It's all the meat that fell from my body, and I have been looking forward to it for a long time, what does it matter if it is a man or a woman." It's just that what's the use of me thinking so, disappointed and always disappointed. ”
She is not the one in charge of the Chen family, she is the only one who says, what role does it play. It's just that her children are miserable, just because they are of different genders, they were born to be treated like this.
Her heart hurts, and she feels cold.
"Ugh." Du Chun sighed.
The idea that men are inferior to women is deeply ingrained and difficult to pull out. It's just that I'm mentally prepared to miss it. I thought it would be different, but now it seems that everything is just wishful thinking.
I used to think that Chen Kui was okay, which was pretty good. My daughter-in-law protects herself, heh, now that I have a child, I have begun to change.
In fact, boys and girls are not always so important. It's all the same importance, the same distress.
"So what do you do now? You can't just go out and greet someone every time they come. You are still in confinement, and your body is weak. It's also a good day when the weather is good, if it's windy and rainy one day, you can go out and try it. ”
Confinement disease is not a joke, if it really falls, it will be a lifetime to regret it in the future, and regret will not help.
It's all women, even if I didn't know it before, I've heard about what the consequences of not doing well in confinement will be.
"I can't help it, others won't know much about you. Come all the way to see you, carrying things, a piece of heart. But after arriving, no one came to greet him, and the mood can be imagined. ”
If that's the case, I'm afraid I won't be able to deal with you in the future. Even if you explain it, you will feel guilty in your heart.
"I don't care about their relatives and friends, but I can't care about my side." I can't count on them to help, so I can only bite the bullet myself. Anyone who could stand up and say hello would have nothing to do with her.
Unfortunately, it was the wrong payment.
Thinking of these, I can't help but feel wronged. Liu Fang lowered her head and pinched her sleeve to wipe her tears, and Du Chun saw it and hurriedly asked her not to cry.
The more I cry, the more bad it is for my health. And in the future, the eyes are easy to trachoma, and they can't see the wind, and they will shed tears when the wind blows.
But everyone who has come here knows that this time is the most vulnerable, and emotions are easily affected. Sometimes it may be just an unintentional action of yours, or an unintentional word from you, and she will want to get hurt more.
During this time, the people in the family need to be extra patient, extra tolerant, and tolerant. When the month is over, the person himself will recover.
However, seeing that Liu Fang was hanging like this, relatives and friends did not come to greet her, but hid outside. Let the person who has just been born for a few days get out of bed and go out to greet him, alas, it is difficult to ......
"Where's your mother? Why didn't you call her over to help. Either way, you're going to have to recuperate this month. You'll have to wait until you're well enough to say no. If you go out to blow the wind while you are still in confinement, how can you do it and greet people. ”
If this is the case, I am afraid that she does not know how many confinement diseases she will fall in a month.
Liu Fang said that her mother was angry when she was sent back by Chen Kui last time, and she hadn't come to see her baby this time. I don't know if I don't know, or for what reason,
It's also quite funny to say, originally the Li family was very tidy. Cook the meal every day, clean up and down the inside and outside of the house, and tidy up, and tidy.
As a result, as soon as Wang Yufang came, Chen Kui was going to send her away. Suddenly, the Li family was angry, and it led to Liu Fang giving birth to the child for a few days, and no one came.
They don't know what to say anymore, so they can already say it. After all, it is Liu Fang's family matter, and they ...... It's not good to say much.
"Sit down, I, I won't pour water for you, if you are thirsty, pour it yourself, and our three families will not have so much emptiness."
Liu Fang stabilized her mood and leaned on her back, her eyes fell directly on the child, and the two of them were angry, angry, and unworthy and sad for her.
No matter how you say that the relationship between the three families was there, it didn't say that there were any major contradictions that made it unpleasant, and they turned into enemies.
Moreover, looking at her current appearance and situation, you can't get up like that, so you feel quite pitiful.
They sat in the room for a long time and talked a lot, until the child woke up and fed, and the two of them avoided going out, leaving time for their mother and daughter.
When I went out, there were fewer people sitting outside, and the chattering uncle was gone, and I didn't know where he went. The other ladies were still sitting, and their mouths were chattering. When they were inside, the voices outside were clearly audible.
In this environment, it is really a fool's dream to want to recover your body.
For a moment, Du Chun really wanted to rush over and drive everyone out. The territory is so big outside, you can put it wherever you like. Don't be here chattering like a sparrow, it's worrying to be noisy.
In the end, Du Chun still held back, she was afraid that if she did so, Liu Fang's situation would be even more difficult.
Originally, I said that I would come and take a turn, but now this turn is over, but it doesn't seem to be good to do so.
If you don't see it, forget it, and now that you see it, you have to help say something.
They didn't care about the others, they moved chairs from the house and came out to sit, and even asked Liu Fang where the melon seeds were, and grabbed some of them. Chatting while knocking, he completely took the people next to him as air.
Those people also seemed to lose sight of them, each talking about his own, and no one cared about anyone.
This was until late in the afternoon, when every household began to light a fire to cook, and Chen Kui and his old lady Wang Yufang came back.
The other people sitting in the courtyard had already dispersed, and the people who went to work on time left when they arrived, and only the two of them were still left.
When he saw them, Chen Kui was obviously stunned, and after reacting, he still said hello to the two and asked them when they came.
"Oh, we're early, and there's no one in your house." Du Chun sneered at Chen Kui and said that there were many people sitting in the courtyard, but no one responded to them after shouting outside for a long time, and no one was pretentious. In the end, Liu Fang, who was in confinement, came out to greet them.
"It's not that we're people who have a big scene, but we finally came, with a heart."
Before Chen Kui could speak, Wang Yufang next to him spoke first: "What do you mean, I think you have bad intentions." I didn't see you coming, I didn't see you coming, I chose to come when someone was not there. ”
After speaking, he snorted coldly, and his eyes fell on Wan Ge. The hatred in his eyes is not hidden at all.
"Hey, you old lady is so funny. If you don't come early or late, oh, we have to ask someone to ask you in advance, and we can only come with your permission. ”