In fact, what Chen Hong said really made Bai Xuesong a little worried. In particular, he had heard of the form of the meetings they attended. He rents out every day, often pulls some guests to song halls or restaurants, and has witnessed too many ugliness, he knows that the impact on Chen Hong is very terrible, how can he not get his shoes wet when he often walks by the river? A simple woman like Chen Hong, Wang Jing, who has just divorced all day long, mixes together, and I don't know when there will be problems.

Although he was worried, Bai Xuesong didn't dare to persuade Chen Hong too obviously, he knew that Chen Hong belonged to the kind of character who didn't go away and went backwards, and the more she didn't let her do anything, the more she would do something. And Chen Hong didn't do anything excessive in front of him, and he was a little worried. Even if Chen Hong really meets a man outside, it is impossible for him to have any development, it has been more than ten years since they realized each other, isn't it still like this? He didn't believe that there was so much love at first sight in this world, and he didn't believe that his daughter-in-law could have such good luck. What's more, he still believes in Chen Hong, so he won't go astray casually.

So after Chen Hong and him filed for divorce again, Bai Xuesong thought about it for a few days, and finally attributed the root cause to Wang Jing. If so, then you must find a way to stop Chen Hong.

In fact, Bai Xuesong had long realized that Chen Hong was brought to a dangerous situation by Wang Jing, but he didn't take it too seriously, so he wouldn't have reached the point of divorce. It wasn't until Chen Hong gave an ultimatum that Bai Xuesong understood the danger of the situation and became more clear about Wang Jing's role in it.

Fortunately, there were still three or five days to go, and before they made an appointment to go through the divorce procedures, Bai Xuesong decided to have a good talk with Chen Hong.

"Do you plan to divorce because of Wang Jing?"

"What do you say? Wang Jing is a third party? ”

This sentence choked Bai Xuesong, and he didn't know how to talk for a while.

Chen Hong continued with a hippie smile:

"My divorce from you was deliberate, and I have nothing to do with anyone else. I know what you're thinking. ”

"What did I think?"

"Do you think that when I went out with Wang Jing to play, I was taken by her, and I even met other men. You think too much, that's not my style, I still have a bottom line. ”

"That's thinking too much." Bai Xuesong flatly denied it. "I mean less contact with people with negative energy."

"You can prepare for the past two days, I swear to the lamp, I haven't done anything to be sorry for you, so I don't need to explain. As for divorcing you, it's just my own thoughts, I don't think it's interesting to live with you, it's as simple as that. ”

"We've been going on for more than ten years, and you haven't felt bored, why do you think about divorce now?"

"It is precisely because it takes too long that the feeling of being bored does not appear in a day, and quantitative change is transformed into qualitative change."

At this point, White Cedar has nothing more to say.

Female girlfriends or good friends who are often together, many things will affect each other, and this influence is definitely more obvious than between men, and even some women's physiological reactions will be contagious, such as divorce. Divorce is like a disease, it is contagious between women. Once one of the female best friends and girlfriends is divorced, it will affect the other party to a greater or lesser extent.

In fact, as Chen Hong said, her decision this time was carefully considered. Her decision cannot be said to have nothing to do with Wang Jing, but Wang Jing's role is minimal. She knows very well that there will be two options in divorce, one is to find a better one, and the other is not to find one. She saw that those divorced people were living a chic single life, and she was extremely envious in her heart. But she imagined that it would be terrible if she really returned to living on her own, and she had hardly ever had such an experience, and since she met Bai Cedar in college, she had hardly left his care and companionship. Of course, she also thought of her parents and children, her parents are already seventy years old, and this life is peaceful and quiet. The two of them didn't cause any trouble to their parents. And now that she is getting old, if she makes something unpleasant because of their divorce, she will regret it, she knows that it is difficult for the old people to accept this sudden storm in their peaceful life. Divorce is definitely something that the elderly will not even think about. Although before this, she also reminded the old people on the side, such as when she encountered similar episodes when watching TV, she was always on the side of support. Although the two old men scoffed, she always found some excuses for the divorced heroes and heroines. The purpose of her doing this is to give some preventive shots to the elderly, in case she and Bai Xuesong come to an end one day, so that things will not suddenly bring unexpected blows to the elderly.

The reason why Chen Hong decided to let Bai Xuesong live at home temporarily even if she was divorced, so that her parents would not know the truth of the matter, including not letting her children know, she had her considerations, on the one hand, because Bai Xuesong had no house and no place to live if she left here; On the other hand, she also has a secret calculation hidden in her heart, that is, to go out for a while first, if she meets a better one, then she will completely break off with Bai Xuesong, if there is really no more suitable, keep Bai Xuesong can be used as a substitute spare tire.

In view of this situation, it is impossible for Chen Hong and Bai Xuesong to separate immediately after their divorce, and it is impossible for Bai Xuesong to leave the family immediately. But after all, they can only live in a three-bedroom apartment, as well as the elderly and children, and the only thing that can prove the status quo of divorce is that the two people are not sleeping in the same bed.

At first, the two or mainly Chen Hong didn't feel anything awkward, because their divorce did not have any quarrels and disputes after all, except for the change of a set of certificates, all their lives were no different from before. As for whether they sleep together at night or not, they are already forty years old, and these are no longer important. At least until Chen Hong finds a new boyfriend, they will stay that way. There is another reason, White Cedar does not have a home. This home is not only a place to live in the physical sense, but also a home on a spiritual level. Since Bai Cedar got married, he rarely went back to his parents. My parents live alone, and although they are also old, they are still able to take care of each other. The key is that Bai Xuesong's feelings are weak, and his choice has always been lingering in the hearts of his parents, especially his father, and has become an unsolvable knot, which has also caused them to become more and more unfamiliar. Bai Xuesong treats Chen Hong's parents as his own parents, although he is under the fence, but sometimes everyone feels that Bai Xuesong and the old man's relationship is closer than Chen Hong, and the two old people also treat Bai Xuesong as their own son.

This makes Chen Hong sometimes jealous, feeling like Bai Xuesong's daughter-in-law who married into the family. But none of this affected her in any way, and it was very satisfying for her to be in this harmonious environment.

The reason why Chen Hong dared to use divorce as a bet, thinking that she could find a better man, was because she thought she was excellent. There is no doubt about this, she was the class flower when she was in college, and although there are mostly girls in their normal college, she can still be said to be outstanding. Most women think that as long as they are beautiful, it is easy to find a good husband and be easily noticed by men, and Chen Hong is no exception. So after marrying Bai Cedar for so many years, she often feels that she is too much of a loss. When she first got married, Bai Xuesong was self-employed, but at that time, it was the early stage of reform, and people who went to the sea were still quite attractive. It's just that Bai Xuesong's small shop changed later, and Bai Xuesong originally wanted to find another place to continue working, after all, he was familiar with the road and could still make some money, but it happened that Chen Hong was pregnant at that time. Although they are with the elderly, they can take care of some. But the two old people are old and still need someone to take care of them, which puts a certain amount of pressure on them. Bai Xuesong was faced with the four people who needed to be taken care of, so he had to choose to take a step back and drive a taxi, which was not only convenient to use, but also made a lot of money, and the time was flexible, which was just right for their situation at the time.

Chen Hong was thinking about having children at that time, and she couldn't take care of so much, so she lived a normal life first. This situation has been in a state for more than ten years, the child has grown up, Chen Hong's work will not change, but although Bai Xuesong has not changed jobs, he has been driving around in the morning and evening, and he can come back at any time if there is something at home, but he is no longer the ambitious young man. The idea of doing a big business has long since disappeared, and he has become a chauffeur who wanders the streets. Although Chen Hong is still just a teacher, she is familiar with her work, and she can be regarded as a stable position in school, and only then did she realize that there was a gap between Bai Xuesong around her and herself. And the income from renting is not as good as before, and I don't run with the day all day long, and I think the handsome guy has become old-fashioned. And Chen Hong's job is to be with the children every day, and her mental state and appearance are young. Originally, she was a few years younger than Bai Xuesong, and now this gap is even more obvious.

In addition, Chen Hong is basically surrounded by female colleagues and girlfriends, and everyone occasionally sees each other's husbands, compared to Bai Xuesong, who is relatively shabby, and his work is also the most ordinary, which makes Chen Hong feel very faceless.

Since Bai Xuesong proposed Wang Jing's influence on himself, Chen Hong also thought carefully about whether there was a reason for this. After Chen Hong followed Wang Jing to several parties, she suddenly discovered her bright spot, which was a consciousness that had rarely appeared again in the past twenty or thirty years, or since she had known Bai Xuesong and got married. From college to work, there were never many men around, and the quality was not enough, and there were not even many opportunities to count on the quantity. What's more, Bai Xuesong revolves around her all day long, which makes her lose the conditions for knowing herself, and after giving birth to a child, she strives to develop in the direction of a good wife and mother, and sometimes forgets that she is still a beautiful woman. So when a bunch of men surrounded her like flies at every party, she realized that she could still be attractive. After having this idea, she became more confident, and thought that her divorce from Bai Xuesong was the right choice, and at the same time gradually ignored Bai Xuesong.