Chapter 7 Girlfriends' Marriage Changes
Wang Jing asked Chen Hong before, would it be annoying for the two of them to quarrel every day, what is there to quarrel about? How noisy? She and Du Qiang have never quarreled, so she always doesn't understand Chen Hong's marital status.
Chen Hong told her: "There is also a pattern for the two to quarrel, and if they quarrel often, they will form a tacit understanding, when should they quarrel?" What's the noise? How long is the arguing? How noisy is it? When it comes to what kind of proportion, etc., we are all particular, and we can't make noise, because it will hurt feelings. ”
Chen Hong said seriously, amusing Wang Jing. I didn't expect the two to quarrel and have so much knowledge, and they also quarreled with scientific theories.
"Doesn't quarreling itself hurt feelings?"
"The wrong way of arguing is more harmful than the quarrel itself."
Wang Jing didn't know if she and Du Qiang had a quarrel today, but this was the first conflict since they met. She thought that at least in Chen Hong's eyes, this was really not a quarrel, whether it was the content, form, tone of voice when speaking, voice size and other indicators were not at the same level as Chen Hong's quarrel. And Chen Hong said that every time they quarreled, the two of them would feel very happy, but Wang Jing felt very depressed, and no problems were solved, but she was more angry than before.
Although Wang Jing and Chen Hong's personalities are obviously one inside and one outside, one strong and one weak, but often people like Wang Jing will burst out in a short period of time at a critical moment Some energy that is not seen by others, which is different from Chen Hong, Chen Hong lives heartless all day long, and will not fight for anything, she and Bai Xuesong talk about divorce almost every day, but their marriage has lasted for more than ten years. And Wang Jing and Du Qiang never say divorce, the two of them respect each other like guests, and they almost raise their eyebrows, but once she feels that it is time to leave, then there will be no change, not even the second sentence, this kind of determination is like a bomb hidden in her weak body, rich in huge energy, once it explodes, it is irretrievable. Wang Jing's explosive power is something that outsiders can never see, and it is a completely different side from her appearance.
When the divorce was decided, Wang Jing didn't tell anyone, just locked herself at home and thought about it for a week. She thought about looking for Chen Hong, but dispelled this idea, she was afraid that once she told others, she would definitely be dissuaded, and the result would be to compromise herself, but compromise means that she will be burdened with this pressure for the rest of her life, which is too tiring.
Even if she can listen to Du Qiang's explanation, even if it is really a misunderstanding, it is difficult for her to forget this matter from her heart, this is a kind of emotional cleanliness, she knows that she is such a person with a cleanliness habit, and there is no way to change it. Their marriage came to an abrupt end like a sudden brake.
Wang Jing took a week to pack up her things and left a note for Du Qiang, saying that she had a good time to go through the divorce procedures. When she was packing up, she cut the photo inside Du Qiang's coat into pieces with scissors and threw it in the ashtray.
Du Qiang saw the note left by Wang Jing first, and he called Wang Jing and said that he wanted to talk again.
Wang Jing replied angrily:
"There's no need, since you're still thinking about others, I can't accept it." After saying that, he hung up the phone.
Du Qiang lit a cigarette and wanted to call the phone again. The moment he flicked off the ashes, he saw a pile of fragments of photographs in the ashtray, he poured the pieces of paper on the coffee table, and roughly put them together, and the girl's appearance appeared in pieces, and he was completely disappointed.
Their divorce procedures are also simple and fast, and they have been married for a long time, but because the two of them have no children, they don't have much to do financially, the original house is Du Qiang's, and the things are returned to the original owner, and she doesn't want to dispute with Du Qiang for these things, maybe the original plan to divorce is gone. The people from the Civil Affairs Bureau asked them if they had discussed the distribution of property, but they couldn't think of any property worth negotiating. She sometimes thinks that her marriage to Du Qiang is like two passengers on the same train, although the journey is not short, but there is not much communication.
After completing the divorce procedures, Wang Jing called Chen Hong. Chen Hong was completely stunned when she heard the news. She and Bai Xuesong have been arguing for divorce for about ten years, but they are still together, but she didn't expect Wang Jing, who was in love with her in her eyes, to divorce in an instant.
"Are you crazy? Just because of those tickets? That picture? Aren't you two pretty good? How can you say that you are leaving? I thought that everything you said last time was in the past, and that was the end of the divorce? ”
Chen Hong asked Wang Jing on the phone.
Wang Jing didn't answer her, and told her to find a place to meet after school and talk about it in detail.
The two of them found a small restaurant at random, and they used to eat together. Because although they can meet at any time at school, many things cannot be said in that kind of situation, and they are very busy with work, sometimes the two of them will find a nearby place after school to talk about the latest situation. They had been working here for a few years, and they had seen the evolution of the street with their own eyes, and they had eaten almost all of the restaurants, and the owners knew almost all of them.
They found a place that was most peaceful. Before Chen Hong could sit down, she urged Wang Jing to ask what was going on and what happened.
Before Wang Jing could speak, tears were already flowing down, which made Chen Hong at a loss, she had never seen Wang Jing like this.
Before meeting Chen Hong, Wang Jing had been hesitating to tell Chen Hong the details of the story. Don't say it, I can't explain the reason for my sudden divorce at all; But when she said it, she didn't think it was clear. On the surface, it may be because of the stack of tickets and the photo, but in essence, Du Qiang thinks that the woman is more important than his wife, and now she doesn't know who that woman is?
She knew that once she told Chen Hong about this, the other teachers in the school would also know, and Chen Hong's mouth would not be able to control it. But not to mention it made her feel aggrieved, and she also thought of making up other excuses, but those excuses couldn't hide her pain. In the past few days of divorce, she can't figure out her thoughts, is it pain, regret, hatred or what? Divorce has never been thought of for her, it is indeed like what Chen Hong said or everyone else around her, their marriage is absolutely loving and perfect in the eyes of outsiders, and it is impossible for divorce to be her turn. may also be because of such an unexpected ending that makes it even more abrupt, and it makes her herself even more unsure of what to do.
Wang Jing told Chen Hong the content of the conversation with Du Qiang.
After Chen Hong heard this, her first reaction was to scold.
"This bastard, how can you talk like that, who the hell is that woman?"
Wang Jing was still in tears, and she didn't know how to answer.
"Didn't he tell you?" Chen Hong continued.
Wang Jing continued to be speechless.
"If you leave, you leave, right? That's fine, he still thinks about other women in his heart, how will he live this day? If it was for other reasons, it was possible to forgive him, but this kind of thing really can't be forgiven. Don't be too upset. ”
Wang Jing calmed down a little, and then said to Chen Hong:
"I only told you, no one in the school knows, so I only ask you for one thing, keep it secret for me, it's not that the divorce is confidential, the divorce can't be hidden, but the reason I don't want others to know, you should be able to understand what I think, after all, I can't say this kind of thing. I only told you, others know that it must be what you say, you have to do it. ”
Chen Hong felt that Wang Jing on the other side was completely different from the person she had known for more than ten years, and the tone of her previous speech was also something they had never known for more than ten years, in her eyes Wang Jing was like a gentle little girl, she had never spoken to herself so decisively from beginning to end, so she understood the meaning and weight of Wang Jing's words.
"Don't worry, I swear to God, I won't say it, I know what you mean, how can you say this kind of thing casually? This bastard. ”
"If someone asks me about the reason for my divorce, someone will definitely ask, and they will definitely ask you, because we are good at school."
Chen Hong thought for a while and said:
"I'll tell them that Du Qiang is looking for someone else outside, this excuse is better, it can explain the necessity of divorce, and at the same time it will not make people feel embarrassed, there are too many such things now, and no one will say anything."
Wang Jing also thought about it, then nodded and said:
"That's all I can say!"
In fact, the situation in the school is not what they imagined, and they don't have as much time to pay attention to the changes in everyone around them, unless that person himself is too obvious and too obvious. At this point, Wang Jing can still restrain herself, although she is in pain, but when she arrives at school, she tries her best to pretend. She also took a period of time off to allow herself to rest and calm down. Usually her husband rarely comes to school, he is very busy, unlike Bai Xuesong, who often drives a taxi to pick up Chen Hong, so no one pays attention to whether she is divorced. That's how the matter passed, of course Chen Hong would keep it secret for her, and she did it.
For a woman like Wang Jing, who thinks carefully and acts carefully, the emotional blow has a greater impact. Their previous lives had always been peaceful, and both of them were able to accept this calm, unlike Chen Hong, although she was also calm, but she couldn't accept it, and she always made some trouble every once in a while.
Although Wang Jing's divorce was made immediately, the impact on her lasted for about half a year. At this stage, she thinks about why her marriage is like this, why Du Qiang is like this, and why her fate is like this almost every day.
Just like after a person is born with a serious illness, it is often possible to change her temper and character. Wang Jing made a decision after the divorce, she was ready to get out of the campus, get out of the previous predicament and life, and see what the outside world was like. Looking back on the past few decades, she felt very wronged, she originally wanted to live a peaceful life, but the trees wanted to be quiet and the wind did not stop. She is like a defeated leaf blown by the wind and has nowhere to hide, rather than being defeated in the end, it is better to let herself live happily.