Chapter 5 The Love History of Girlfriends

Among Chen Hong's best friends, Wang Jing is the one who has been together for the longest time and has the closest relationship. The two of them were classmates in college, lived in the same dormitory, and after graduation, they were assigned to the same school together. At that time, there was a rule that all undergraduate students studying teacher training should return to their own district to teach at a junior high school or above after graduation, and Chen Hong and Wang Jing's homes were very close, so they naturally became colleagues. As for becoming a girlfriend, it is no longer a problem, it is imperative.

The two of them have been working together for more than ten years since they entered college at the age of eighteen, and they will continue to be together in the future, and it is not surprising that they may never be separated in this life. The two of them shared the same view that there would probably never be anyone else in their lives who could spend so much time with the two of them, whether it was the elderly, children, or husbands. There is still the possibility of a husband, but after retirement, maybe only I can get along with my husband a little longer. It was the result of a conversation between the two of them in the dormitory after the graduation assignment plan was decided.

There are many similarities between the combination of girlfriends and the combination of husband and wife, the most important of which is to complement each other, it must be an introvert and an extrovert, a strong and a weak, a quiet and quiet, and a busy chatter, only in this way can a fit be achieved, and the combination of Wang Jing and Chen Hong is like this. Chen Hong belongs to the kind of person who is more impatient and flamboyant, when she was in school, she was the head of the girls in the class, and she was top-notch everywhere. And Wang Jing, just like her name, is calm, quiet, and has no quarrel with the world.

Chen Hong knows Wang Jing best, they have been together for more than ten years from college to work, and have become the best friends, Chen Hong sometimes jokes with Wang Jing that it would be nice if the two of us were two. And Wang Jing is really like Chen Hong's little daughter-in-law, always silently by her side, obedient everywhere, and back down everywhere. In the past ten years, the two of them have never quarreled, not even excessive contradictions, and it is this kind of two extreme people walking together that makes them seem extraordinarily harmonious.

Chen Hong and Bai Xuesong got married in the second year after they graduated, because she and Bai Xuesong have been together for a long time, and there is no need to wait any longer. After getting married, Chen Hong once persuaded Wang Jing to find one quickly, after all, after finishing college and starting to work, their jobs are very stable, and there will not be too many changes in the future, for women, the most important thing left is to get married and have children.

But Wang Jing's personality is more introverted, and she doesn't have much contact with the outside, even when she was in school, few boys chased her. Unlike Chen Hong, if Bai Xuesong hadn't chased after her, maybe Chen Hong would have let others run away a long time ago. Wang Jing is not as beautiful as Chen Hong, everything is like a foil for Chen Hong. But when Chen Hong and Bai Xuesong got married, she suddenly felt lonely, unlike before when she could be with Chen Hong at any time, so she also put marriage on the agenda.

Just like the combination of Chen Hong and Wang Jing, it seems that Wang Jing is destined to find a strong man to make up for her shortcomings. In fact, she knows herself very well, and there is always a force in her heart that urges her to do better, for example, she has always been better than Chen Hong in learning. It's not that Chen Hong is not smart, but she is too playful and too beautiful, and these extra ingredients take up too much of her time.

They all know that they don't have much development in their careers, and they can only mix day by day in the environment of school, mix to a certain age, and mix to a certain position. But finding a husband is different, as long as you work hard, you can still achieve different results, for most girls like them, the sign of success is one, find a good husband.

Although Wang Jing is reluctant to compare with Chen Hong, she is still secretly competing with her husband in this matter.

Chen Hong and Wang Jing's personalities directly affected their emotional journey. Chen Hong fell in love relatively early in their class, and at that time, the university school did not allow students to fall in love too clearly and directly, although the school also turned a blind eye, but there were corresponding regulations. And Chen Hong doesn't care about this, she can do what she wants. Fortunately, Bai Cedar is not their classmate, and no one can control anything outside the school.

Love in college is often an experience, not just needed, sometimes even the result of comparison, seeing other classmates in and out of pairs, always inevitably have envious thoughts, but also want to experience it for yourself. Spending time at school is the best time to fall in love, and there are many people to choose from. Once you enter society, it is difficult to find such a large range of people of the same age and opposite sex. That's why everyone wants to be able to determine their life's events while they're in college. Especially with a role model like Chen Hong by her side, she not only inspired Wang Jing to fall in love quickly, but also constantly urged her in words. But words and deeds didn't help, and in the end, Chen Hong could only take a rough way and directly became a matchmaker for Wang Jing. There are many suitors around her, or male classmates who have a good relationship, and she starts from the resources around her, and helps Wang Jing introduce objects. Despite this, after four years of college, Wang Jing still found nothing, Chen Hong always sarcastically mocked Wang Jing as incorrigible, Wang Jing explained that she was too introverted and didn't know how to communicate with male classmates.

In fact, Wang Jing is much more picky than Chen Hong in the choice of love and marriage, although she is not as flamboyant as Chen Hong on the surface, but she is extremely strong in her heart. She set herself an extremely ambitious goal, she must find a man who is better than the boyfriends of other classmates. It is this kind of request that has become an obstacle to her love.

In terms of choosing objects, Wang Jing is actually much more thoughtful than Chen Hong, because behind her quietness means more introverted and thinking, she thinks more about what she encounters, unlike Chen Hong, who is always confused. Wang Jing also took this approach when she was in love, she borrowed from what Chen Hong said, you must find a complementary person, find a person who is very different from her own personality, not only personality, including work, attitude, way of doing things, etc., you must not find a man who is too dull, because Wang Jing herself is too boring, if both of them are the same, then there will be no way to live in the future.

When they graduated, it was just in time for the beginning of the reform, so Wang Jing's goal was very clear, to find a man who was capable, roaming outside, and had the potential and ability. Wang Jing plans to be a teacher for the rest of her life, and this job should be very stable if nothing else. So she wants to find a lover whose job is not necessarily stable, which is also in a kind of complementarity. Of course, people like Bai Xuesong also seem to belong to this category, but the level is too low, and they can't enter Wang Jing's eyes at all, the lover she wants is far higher than Bai Xuesong's level in all aspects, of course, she will never say these words to Chen Hong.

Wang Jing is different from Chen Hong, she is more attentive than Chen Hong, and has her own careful design and thinking about love and marriage. Seeing Chen Hong's love marriage, she summed up her experience and lessons from it and reminded herself how to choose. She is not in a hurry, because she feels that the person she wants does not exist in an environment like a college campus, and those male classmates themselves don't know what the future will look like, it's too uncertain, and if you find a random person now, it will be a waste of time if there is a change in the future. She set her goals high, far, and beautiful. With Wang Jing's various conditions, it is not difficult to find such a person.

Sure enough, after graduation, Wang Jing began her marriage plan.

The biggest difference between love in college and love after going to society is that it lacks a bit of romance. It may also be because when you go to college, you have time and don't have anything else to think about other than your feelings.

Wang Jing is very envious of Chen Hong and Bai Xuesong in her heart, although she doesn't think they are so compatible, but the combination of female college students and social gangsters is also a very interesting state. In Wang Jing's eyes, Bai Xuesong has always been a gangster.

But when I go to work, I don't have much chance to meet that simple and pure feeling. She knew she had to face reality, so she chose a shortcut and found someone to introduce. This most primitive way of deciding marriage is backward but effective. Soon Wang Jing met a Lang Jun who made her very satisfied.

Du Qiang, a middle-level manager of a state-owned enterprise, is five years older than Wang Jing, and his career is smooth, young and promising, and he looks good. After graduating from university, I focused on my work for a few years, and now it's time to get married.

After they were introduced to each other by relatives, they soon entered the state of talking about marriage, after all, Du Qiang was almost thirty years old.

Wang Jing's love process naturally has to be reported to Chen Hong at any time. Chen Hong defined Wang Jing's love as love at first sight. Wang Jing said:

"It's not a big boss, what kind of love do you like, just make do with a down-to-earth one, you can't compare with you, it's just the beginning of love."

"Aren't you also in love?"

"Nonsense, it's just that there's something missing in this introduction. It's unnatural, like Lalang matching. ”

"It's going to be natural. When are you going to get married? ”

"Soon, there's nothing to think about."

"His conditions should be good, much better than the Xiangzi in our family."

Ever since Bai Xuesong got into a taxi, Chen Hong always referred to him as "Xiangzi", which means Xiangzi of camels. Bai Xuesong didn't mind this, not only did Chen Hong call him that, but he himself sometimes called himself that. I didn't think there was anything inferior. Sometimes he laughs at Chen Hong, no matter how he looks at it, he looks like a tiger girl.

This is also the first time that Chen Hong has shown a performance that is not as good as Wang Jing in front of Wang Jing.

Wang Jing still maintains a low-key attitude towards this to avoid embarrassing Chen Hong.

Although Du Qiang is indeed better than Bai Xuesong in all aspects, Wang Jing is still very envious of the combination of Chen Hong and Bai Xuesong, she envies their purity, it is she who has witnessed the two people from young love to marriage, like two innocent and pure children, turning their dreams into reality. This kind of story probably only comes up when I was in college. So Wang Jing feels that it is a pity that she did not fall in love during college, and because of this, she hopes that her marriage can be like Chen Hong, although time has passed, but the result will not change, she still longs for an innocent relationship.

So when he first met Du Qiang, Wang Jing asked him a question, had he been in love before.

Du Qiang replied vaguely at the time that she hadn't talked about it decently, but just knew each other. Wang Jing didn't take it too seriously, she talked to Chen Hong about it, and Chen Hong persuaded her.

"After all, Du Qiang is almost thirty years old, how can he still be emotionally blank at this age, as long as it is not a broken thread, these are not problems."

"Why isn't it a problem? I just want to find someone like you and your family, pure. ”

"You have a habit of cleanliness, a habit of emotional cleanliness."

"Are you clean? Originally, why should I be a second-hand. ”

"Who's on this? When you go to school, you will be urged to find one quickly, where is there any purity now? ”

"I just want to have a childhood sweetheart."

"Forget it, it's too late, you missed your childhood sweetheart, you can only count on love at first sight."

"Why does this sound so helpless."

This matter is over, Wang Jing's age is increasing day by day, and there is no time to worry about this. After a short time of preparation, she and Du Qiang got married.

Although they are married, Du Qiang has been very busy, he is a young and strong middle-level manager in the unit, and he is very promising to be promoted in the future, Du Qiang is a very enterprising person, and he also wants to mix a half-official position in the future, which is considered to be a success, so he takes his work very seriously and goes all out. In the first two years of marriage, they discussed whether they were going to have children first, and Wang Jing also agreed, and she also wanted Du Qiang to have a successful career and look glorious herself.

Compared with Chen Hong's life, Wang Jing and his family live more easily, their economic conditions are good, their personalities are also very compatible, there is no interference from the outside world, and there is no burden of children and the elderly, the two of them respect each other like guests and love each other, it can be said that there is nothing unsatisfactory.