Chapter 236: Thinking about the past
The proposal here also pays attention to visiting the door two or three times, just because the girl's family has to inquire about each other, and some people marry daughters, even those who know the roots will refuse once or twice, in order to show the preciousness of their own daughters.
So usually the second time to come to the door can be regarded as a real talk can be made, of course, there are also difficult women's families to push until the third time to let go, it all depends on the patience of the man's family.
It's an unspoken rule.
On the Wen family's side, Wen heard that the matchmaker's wife said that it was the Yuan family, and then heard that it was the young man who worked in the village that day, and his smile was as burning as the scorching sun in July.
She blushed at the moment, so she took her mother back to the boudoir and said in detail, indicating that she was willing.
Wen's father and mother listened to the matchmaker's mother's mouth and boasted, saying that the Yuan family was a dart runner in the past, the family was well-off, the house was big, beautiful and clean, the family was very particular, and the land was all paved with stones.
When Wen's father and mother heard this, the life of a family who can run the family so clean must be not bad, but they still politely refused the matchmaker's wife, saying that they wanted to understand again.
When Yuan Tian is not busy farming, he will go to do small jobs, and Yuan Dashuo often follows him, so the nearby villages know about their father and son.
As soon as Wen's father and mother inquired in the village, they knew that the matchmaker's wife was good, but at the same time, they also knew that the two heads of the Yuan family who proposed marriage were not good.
But Wen's father and mother are very reasonable and know that the rumors are terrible, so they are still investigating carefully.
The people of Wenjia Village also said that there was no ambiguity, some said that Yuan Tiandi and Ge Shi were a cruel and difficult person to get along with, and some said that they were not so frightening when they actually saw them.
According to the relatives of the Wen family who invited them to work, the father and son worked very diligently and neatly.
Although his father's temper is a little anxious, he doesn't feel as fierce as the rumors, and I have to say that his kid is very good, not to mention his handsome appearance, not to mention his age, and his personality is calm.
So Wen's father and mother planned to go to Qingshan Village to see it again.
Wenjia Village and Qingshan Village are separated by two villages, in order to rest assured that their daughter will be married, regardless of the distance is a little far, the couple also secretly went to see the Yuan family, and saw that the house was wide, at that time the dragon and phoenix fetus had not yet been born, and there were three brothers in the family, and one main house and two side rooms happened to be one brother could divide one.
When Wen's father and mother saw this, they felt that the Yuan family's family background really had nothing to say.
Although Ge Shi is a good person, he is still quite good at things when he is young.
When she came out of the hall, she found two people poking their brains out of the door.
is as shrewd as her, and now understands that it may be the girl in the second son's picture, after all, there are many people who come to see the future in-laws first.
Although he hadn't seen anyone yet, Ge was quite satisfied with Wen, so he hurriedly beckoned them to come in and sit down, and personally poured them brown sugar water.
Wen's father and mother didn't say what they meant, they said that they were here to visit distant relatives and were looking for someone.
Ge Shi hurriedly greeted warmly, and said that he could take them to find them, but they politely refused, she knew what was going on, so naturally she was not reluctant, but she kept smiling.
When Wen's father and mother saw that this woman was so young, they thought that she was the eldest daughter-in-law of this family.
As a result, I learned from Ge's mouth that she was one of the leaders of the family, and I was amazed again and again.
Looking at Ge's birth so amazing, they are not surprised that her second son is handsome.
Look at her polite attitude, rich in dress, and you can also use brown sugar water for hospitality.
Ge's is already good-looking, and then she says good things with a smile, not to mention how rare it is, Wen's father and mother feel that the rumors are not credible at the moment, look at how good people are, even if the rumors say that she has a poisonous mouth, then who has a time to get angry!
Wen's father and mother sat patiently in the Yuan family for a while, and saw other children coming back one after another.
Yuan Dashuo also came back from farm work, and Ge introduced them again, and when the couple saw this child handsome, they were very righteous between their eyebrows, and they said two more words, and the more they looked at it, the more satisfied they became.
In the end, the Wen family and his wife were ready to leave, and Ge led the children to send them off politely.
So as Ge expected, the Yuan family came to the door for the second time.
The Wen family has a gentle personality, otherwise they would not have been able to give birth to a daughter of Wen's character.
When I got married, I didn't deliberately make things difficult, and the dowry was also as usual, and I married a lot of things.
The most valuable thing is, of course, the loom, and then the barrels, the wooden plates, and the new clothes and fabrics.
As soon as Wen married into the door, her personality was really gentle, and she knew how to cook and weave to make money.
Ge's was really satisfied with Wen's at first, but Liu didn't seem so good in comparison, so she looked down on Liu more and more.
So she didn't let Wen do any other work, just took care of cooking and weaving.
Wen did not wash his clothes from the first day after entering the door to the time before the separation.
Liu's work is relatively dirty and tiring, so he is naturally dissatisfied, but for various reasons, of course, he doesn't dare to say much.
The old Sanyuan Daqian also married Su from a neighboring village in the east, and the three-room couple met in the town, and the Su family's mother's family was already doing small business in the town, and basically did not live in the village anymore, and Yuan Daqian also started business naturally after knowing her, of course, the silver money came back to coax Ge's to ask.
Ge Shi saw that Yuan Daqian had courage and ability, and was coaxed by him sweetly, saying that he wanted to make a lot of money for her and let her live a good life in the future.
Of course she willed.
It can only be said that Ge's marriage does not have to worry about the marriage of the latter two sons, and she is quite satisfied.
But so it is.
It's one thing for a daughter-in-law to marry back, and it's another thing to get married and enter the door.
First of all, the sons gradually began to be alienated from themselves because they grew up, and then looking at their courtesy to their daughters-in-law, what did Ge feel in his heart?
Even the most honest Yuan Dashi didn't care about Liu when he was newly married?
That's impossible.
Newlyweds only know what it tastes like, and they can't wait to stick together all the time.
In the past, in addition to doing farm work, he had to come over all day to stick to his eldest son, and he began to discuss things with his eldest daughter-in-law, and no longer came to discuss with her.
I haven't seen the second son and second daughter-in-law who have seen a smiling face for a long time.
It just so happened that the third son began to go out often again, and not long after he got married, he immediately said that he was going to the town to do business, and he had to take his three daughters-in-law with him.
The child no longer circled her.
Ge gradually felt empty, and it was sour to see them like that.
My heart began to feel uncomfortable.
Therefore, watching the daughters-in-law gradually become unpleasant, I feel that the son in the mouth of the long-tongued woman has forgotten that the mother's matter has actually fallen on her own head.
Ge Shi began to become irritable and irritable, and then began to pick on his daughter-in-law's thorns from time to time, and then the successful couple of the big house were no longer so good.
The second room is more difficult, because of the thorn in Wen's family, Yuan Dashuo began to be dissatisfied with her, and when he saw that he didn't talk much, he would actually defend his daughter-in-law, and Ge's was even more unhappy.
But she happened to be pregnant again at that time.
The success of conceiving two children again comforted her a little, and after the birth of the child, she was busy taking care of the child, and the appearance of the dragon and phoenix fetus at this time brought her comfort in her heart, which was destined to make her value them more and regard them as treasures.