Fate is sometimes fair, although the friends around him at that time repeatedly advised the snail, but in the snail's heart, Wang Qi is still not a scumbag who can cheat himself. Even snails sometimes have a trace of expectation, hoping that on the day of their birthday, they can wait for Wang Qi's sentence: Happy birthday!

With this expectation in his heart, the snail survived the two months just after breaking up, hoping that he could give Wang Qi time and let him think about it carefully. The IQ of girls in love is low, although the snail will recall Wang Qi's unusualness at night, but at that time he really chose to believe him unconditionally.

Perhaps in this relationship, the snail is only touched by himself, although he is not in the same school, but the snail will still find a variety of times to bring different fruit snacks to his campus to hand over his heart. In this relationship, the snail plays the role of a man, who has to answer the other party's phone calls anytime and anywhere, follow the other party's instructions and not have too much verbal communication with the boys in the class, and even when they go out to dinner together, they are suddenly ordered to go back to school by a sudden video call, don't stay outside, and regularly video check if they are on the way back.

At first, the snail thought that there would always be all kinds of contradictions in love, and they could be resolved as long as they gave in, not to mention that those forbidden behaviors might indeed be in the performance of loving themselves, so they were more immersed in such thinking logic. Until recently, Snail learned something about the name of the boy who uses means to flirt with his sister - PUA man.

Although Wang Qi has never been exposed to this kind of knowledge, he has seen all the specific operations above, and he is really similar to such a man. The snail can't figure out why the relationship between people is going around like this, and since when we will use cold violence in order to so-called not hurt people's hearts and achieve our own goals. For a girl like a snail, it's better to have a good time.

In the past, snails didn't understand why two people who clearly loved each other and liked each other would say that they didn't like it, why two people who clearly loved each other would choose to break up for reasons that didn't exist, and why they couldn't stick to each other since they loved each other.

In the reflection of a few years after the breakup, the snail looked at the examples around him, and finally realized a trace of theory: reality is the world, all people from croaking to growing up are surrounded by the conventional environment of the world, from childhood to adulthood, we are really like: "at the beginning of man, nature is good", gradually guided by the surrounding things, family, growth environment, and grow into different independent individuals. What will our parents give us? What does the environment tell us? What kind of individuals will we be led to become?

The answer is imminent, parents teach us to be positive, study hard, become a useful person, and become what people call "other people's children", which also means that parents will bring us different life values, different concepts of marriage, different concepts of money and so on.

Thinking about the snail sometimes smiling helplessly, in the dormitory I am used to listening to Yuanyuan's mother's teaching to Yuanyuan, it is not difficult to find how much parents guide their children, Yuanyuan often calls her mother to tell her ex-boyfriend what computer, mobile phone, etc., her mother is very happy, and thinks that the child is very powerful, and some boys are willing to spend money on the child, so as to meet their material needs. Sometimes even if it's just a small mirror for two dollars, Yuanyuan will be coquettish on the other end of the phone and ask her boyfriend to buy it, and often the answer everyone hears is to say with a nonchalant and mocking tone, "If you want to buy it, you don't have two dollars?" ”。

Yu Xinxin, under the influence of the original family, has probably lacked some sense of security since she was a child, and if she has a younger brother at home, she may not be favored, and the manifestation of her excessive desire to protect herself is very likely to develop in the direction of selfishness. If you can sell everything to others, you can sell it well, but you don't want to do anything. The specific performance is: During the sophomore year of college, Bai Yiyuan's boyfriend at home came and wanted to spend Valentine's Day together, but the aunt in the school dormitory was more strict, but it happened that the girls in their dormitory were assigned to intern early in the first year, so when the sophomore year started, the fingerprints of the five people in the dormitory were not recorded in the school system, and the aunt was always named.

Bai Ji couldn't let her boyfriend spend the night outside, and jumped in the middle of the dormitory, but she had no choice but to escape first. When the snail knew, the bedroom door had been closed, maybe he had always been a master of the arts, and the teacher came to take the roll call at the critical moment, and the remaining four people in the bedroom were speechless for a while, and the teacher ordered Bai Yin, the bed was empty, and no one answered, so the snail had to tell the teacher: "Teacher, she may be washing and going to the toilet." Yu Xinxin nodded on the side of the upper bunk, and then turned over and played with her mobile phone to call the object.

The teacher saw Bai Yin's bed that the snail had arranged in advance, and left only one sentence, "I'll go to the bathroom to have a look later." ”

The snail breathed a sigh of relief, fortunately, he made Bai Yin's bed messed up in advance and pretended that someone had been lying down, and then the snail got out of bed and ran to the toilet next to the bathroom, and when the teacher turned around and entered the bedroom next door for roll call, he closed the door and pretended to squat inside, and sure enough, after a while, the teacher really came to the bathroom and called Bai Yi after calling the names of a few people, and the snail answered for him with a trembling voice, and answered, and finally the night was spent without danger.

Wu Mei, Yuan Yuan, and Yu Xinxin all said that the snail was very handsome, and they all liked it, and then everyone went to bed to play with their own mobile phones.

The next morning was Saturday, and everyone was used to getting up late, but early in the morning she was woken up by Bai Yi, who came back from outside, and she carried a big bag of food, saying that she was back to get some cosmetics. Just when Wu Mei got up early to go to the toilet, the snail alarm went off, and she woke up with it, everyone saw Bai Yin and said hello, by the way, how was the gossip playing, after a few simple jokes, Bai Yin thanked Yu Xinxin in front of everyone.

"Big brother, here you go, I bought this bag of food for you, thank you so much, if you hadn't answered me yesterday, I would have been miserable." As soon as these words came out, Wu Mei, who was standing on the ground and preparing to go to the toilet, couldn't help but glance at the snail on the top bunk, her eyes were meaningful, and Yuanyuan on the bottom bunk of the snail was also speechless for a while, not knowing what to say. The snail and Wu Mei looked at each other and opened their mouths, "I'm a little hungry, do you want to buy breakfast?" All of a sudden, Wu Mei and Yuanyuan responded and acted one after another.

Only Yu Xinxin, who was on the top bunk, lowered her head, avoided the eyes of the three people and Bai Yin's various words of thanks, and simply accepted it with a simple thanks. At first, the snail just thought that Bai Yi would buy things to thank him because he had a good relationship with Yu Xinxin, and he didn't think of it so much, until he was in his junior year and Bai Yi worked out together, and the two talked about the past, and some things were solved.

Regarding Yu Xinxin, there are too many examples of snails. What I want to talk about today is not Yu Xinxin's past, but just an example. Yu Xinxin's parents and family really responded to a popular sentence on the Internet: Parents are true love, and children are accidents. It's just a family of four, only Yu Xinxin seems to be the accident, so she desperately longs for love. This can also explain why Yu Xinxin would believe it because of Cao Yu's casual "I like you" before, or longing for others' feelings for herself, eager to be loved, cared for, and cared for.

Fate is sometimes very willing to play tricks on people, and often the more you desire something, the more difficult it is to get something. Yu Xinxin didn't understand why the men she said she liked before stopped loving her in such a short period of time, but what Yu Xinxin didn't know was that these men didn't take her to heart at all, so it was very easy to retreat.

Yuanyuan's situation is better than Yu Xinxin's, at least the boys around her have indeed paid a lot for Yuanyuan. Of course, Yuanyuan's past experiences also exist. She also hurt the boy who held herself in her heart at the beginning of her love, and she was also heartbroken by the men in society.

Girls are eager for someone to love a boyfriend who understands someone, but so far, several girls have a bumpy love road except for Snail and Bai Yin. Snail and Mu Shichen have been separated for many years because of their previous suspicion and uncertainty before they finally came to the end of their hardships, but now they are inevitably provoked by others to calculate, although Bai Yin is about to enter the palace of marriage, but she and her boyfriend have also been separated once, and they have experienced the positive results of long-distance running.

Once the snail watched a TV series, and Fan Xiaomei in it said, "People in the city are very practical." This is true. Bai Yin and her current boyfriend have similar family situations, and they are relatively familiar with each other. It is said that the union of two people is the union of two families, and this is also true. The combination of two families who are quite evenly matched, of course, their future lives are thriving, not to mention that the two really like each other.

It is not easy to meet all the conditions, for example, a girl moved to the dormitory, her boyfriend and Bai Ji They are a city, both are economic development zones, it is difficult to enter the first-tier cities with a household registration and a house to buy. Originally, the girl thought that she would marry her boyfriend after graduation and marry far away for love, but gradually we found that the truth is not like the love that used to be very slow, and the man's parents naturally look down on the girl, the reason is very realistic, that is, the household registration, region, habits and family property, although it is very realistic but it is indeed very normal. It is said that it is normal, but now everyone basically measures it like this, and it has long been used to it.

In the end, the snail's thinking blossomed and bore fruit in the process of other people's growth, understood the definition of the world, and also explored his own bottom line and future life in the middle.

Snail believes that as long as he does not violate laws and regulations, moral atmosphere, does not harm others, and fulfills his responsibilities and obligations, the rest is to have peace of mind. That's how life should be.