Chapter 045: Persuasion Succeeds
After dinner, Song Jin tinkered with the Hualou loom in the house for a while, and briefly familiarized herself with the operation of the Hualou loom, which was convenient for her to do things in the future.
The original owner's Hualou loom has the best style in the loom, and it is the best to weave brocade.
Bai He walked in from outside the house with a lantern, and his face was a little bad, as if something had happened.
Before Song Jin could ask, she said.
"Girl, Mama Tan came over and said that there are some things to explain to the girl."
"Mama Tan heard about the marriage between the girl and the son of the Chen family, and listened to the little maid below, what happened in the lady's house today, Mama Tan felt that the girl had done something inappropriate."
Bai He said cautiously, raising his head from time to time to look at Song Jin in front of him, for fear that he would say something wrong and annoy Song Jin.
Mama Tan has served in the palace, and she attaches great importance to rules and etiquette, and the words she said to Mrs. Chen in Zhao's house today, in Mama Tan's opinion, are indeed inappropriate, and they should not be made by a girl's family.
But since she has come over, is it possible to ask someone to stop her outside and not let her in?
"Go and invite Mama Tan in! Listen to what she always wants to explain to me! Song Jin was still sitting on the loom of the flower building, swinging the shuttle, and commanded the white lotus beside him.
Bai He got the order, and immediately invited Mama Tan, who was waiting outside the house, in, and specially moved the embroidery stool out of the house and put it under the porch.
The octagonal palace lamp hanging under the corridor swayed with the wind, and the firelight also swayed, and the firelight reflected on Song Jin's body, making her more and more petite and charming.
Mama Tan sat on the embroidery stool brought by Bai He, and Song Jin gave him a blessing according to the rules.
"I don't know if Mama came to visit late at night, what do you have to explain to Jin'er?"
"Please Mama, but it doesn't hurt to say, Jin'er doesn't shy away from it."
Song Jin gave Mama Tan a preventive shot in advance, and Mama Tan dared to say with peace of mind.
"The girl should know that as a woman, the most important thing is virtue, as the saying goes, a woman is virtuous if she is not talented."
"If the girl wants to cultivate her sentiments, she should work female red embroidery, so that even if she marries into her husband's family, her husband's in-laws will not be able to find anything wrong with you."
"If a woman is not virtuous, she speaks without scruples, and she dances her teeth and claws, just like the shrew scolding the street. What man would marry such a woman and toss back?"
Mama Tan's words seemed to imply that Song Jin said to Mrs. Chen in Zhao's house today was something that should not be said, and it was not the virtue that a woman should have.
It's just that if you don't straightforwardly scare the Chen family's mother and daughter back, will it be difficult to let them show off their power in their own homes?
She couldn't do such a thing! I can't do it in a lifetime!
Looking at the light reaction on Song Jin's face, it seemed that she didn't care much about what she just said, Mama Tan's originally peaceful face suddenly became a little more stern, and she deliberately put on a score of raising Mama in her palace.
"Second girl, I also praised you before, saying that your temperament is very good, and your words and deeds are excellent, but today, in front of Mrs. Chen, the words you said really made me unbelievable."
"Since the Song family intends to divorce the Chen family, you can sit down and have a good discussion, and the two parties can sign the divorce letter, but what the girl did today is indeed time to discipline and discipline well."
"No matter how bad Mrs. Chen is, she is also the elder of the second girl, and she really shouldn't contradict the elders!"
What the!
Mama Tan actually said that Mrs. Chen is her elder?
With Mrs. Chen's virtue, what kind of bullshit elder is it?
She Song Jin doesn't have such a shameless elder!
Such a woman, she sees it once!
Song Jin stopped what he was doing, turned his head and glanced at Mama Tan beside him, with a shallow smile on his face, and replied.
"Mama, that Mrs. Chen is not my elder. If Mrs. Chen is my elder, everything should be for my sake, she knows that the divorce will cause a lot of criticism for a girl's family, but she still came over with the divorce letter and asked me to sign it.
"Can such a person be considered my elder?"
"And I want to tell my grandmother that a woman's lack of talent is virtue, this sentence has been used by men to bind women since ancient times, and it should not be true. Mama has been serving in the palace for many years, and she also has some knowledge, so she can't even understand this. ”
Living in the world, both men and women, rely on their ability to eat.
Only when a woman has no ability will she think about relying on a man.
And men, will use virtue, etiquette, rules to restrain women's thoughts, she is not a native of the Ming Dynasty, she will naturally not be bound by these pedantic thoughts.
Mama Tan originally wanted to preach Song Jin, but she didn't expect to ask Song Jin to teach her.
What Song Er said is indeed reasonable, a woman's lack of talent is virtue, and it is indeed a man's words to bind women.
But if a woman has no virtue, is she still a woman?
How else do you gain a foothold in the world?
She has also been a female official in the palace for decades, and it is the first time she has met a girl with such advanced thinking, she is right, but she is too advanced, if it is passed out, it must be an unprecedented theory.
Seeing that Mama Tan lowered her head and was silent, as if thinking about what she had just said, Song Jin was about to wake up this Mama Tan at one time, and continued.
"I know that Mama was invited by the eldest sister from Yingtian, and I also respect Mama very much, and I will also respect Mama."
"It's just Mama, if a woman learns so many rules and etiquette, and can gain a foothold in the world without relying on men in the future, I will be honest and follow Mama with all my heart.
"If it is useless to learn so many rules and etiquette, Jin'er can only learn things that will be useful to him in the future, and put your rules and etiquette aside for the time being. Mama understands people and knows what to do, right?"
Mama Tan was a little surprised, she didn't expect that the second girl of the Song family in front of her still had so many heartfelt words.
Dare to love her this time to come to the Song family to teach the girl rules and etiquette, is she here to go through a formality?
The second girl of the Song family in front of her has already made it clear that she doesn't want to learn rules and etiquette with her, is it possible that she still wants to force her to learn it?
If she did, she would be exhausted.
This old bone, I don't know if I can stand such a toss?
Originally, she had heard others say that this second girl of Song had become different from before since she woke up from the collision.
It's really different, she speaks clearly and every word, so she doesn't know what to say to deal with.
Mama Tan sighed regretfully and replied.
"Second Miss Song, I originally thought that Second Miss Song was a motivated person, and she would learn everything I had learned all my life, enter the palace, and get a good errand to do in the palace."
"But since the second girl said that her heart is not here, I am not reluctant, but since Lord Shangyi invited me to come, I still go through the motions, and the class will be held as usual, it depends on the meaning of the second girl whether I come or not."
"Madame, please don't worry about it, I'll explain it to Madame. If the girl wants to learn what to do to make a living, go ahead! ”
Song Jin didn't expect that this Mama Tan could still agree to her, which shows that she still agrees with herself in her heart.
After all, a woman who plans to live in the Ming Dynasty without relying on a man is a rare among the rare.