Winter in Changchun comes early, and everyone starts wearing down jackets in mid-October. The wind is also very strong, and there are willow branches that are blown off by the wind on the side of the road from time to time, and I don't know what is blown away by the wind?

A few days ago, Song Yingru saw Xu Jialuo post a circle of friends, "The wind in Changchun is about to away!" The picture shows her standing on the side of the road in a black down jacket in a strong wind. He wanted to comment, but he felt that the relationship was not so familiar, so he finally thought about it and just clicked a like.

In the beginning, we thought that we had to go to college far away from home. In this way, we can look at the scenery in the eyes of others, we can look at the different people from that small town, we can see if our lives are more possible, and we can leave the nagging mother......

But now, do we regret it?

New Year's Day was fast approaching, and considering that many of the students in the college could not go home, the counselor asked the grade committee members to plan a dumpling-making activity.

Xu Jialuo planned for the first time and didn't think about it a lot. Therefore, there were not many students who came that day, and there were more than a dozen of them plus the grade committee members. Moreover, everyone neither knows how to mix noodles, nor roll dumpling skins, let alone make fillings, and in the end, everyone wraps them, and they are really not in the mood, so they all go back.

Song Yingru has never been interested in these activities, and he won't participate if he can, so he didn't go, he stayed in the bedroom, receiving the holiday red envelopes from his mother, and was about to order delicious takeout, when he suddenly received a message from Xu Jialuo, "Yingru, am I really a failure?" ”

"What's wrong?" Song Yingru repeated a few words, and he didn't know what to send, so he could only ask what was going on first.

"The event was messed up." Xu Jialuo returned to the dormitory and wanted to tell his roommates, but his roommates were not there, he wanted to tell his parents, but he was afraid that his parents would be worried, and he told his former friends, but he felt that they could not empathize. It seems that only Song Yingru can say it.

"What do you think is the reason for the failure of the event?"

"I don't know." She really didn't know, she thought everyone would like this kind of activity very much, and make dumplings happily, isn't it? I can't go home anyway.

Song Yingru is very helpless, is she too confident, or is she too smooth, so she doesn't know how to observe people's hearts?

There are too many things to say, too lazy to type, Song Yingru sent her a voice call, maybe she was waiting for him to reply to the message, Xu Jialuo answered in seconds, "I'll say it first, this is just my personal understanding." First of all, there aren't many people going to your event because it doesn't attract much. Secondly, you chose the wrong time, today is New Year's Day, everyone is likely to hang out with boyfriend and girlfriend, or receive high school classmates, or hang out with roommates, how do you know if others have arranged it? The time should be set before the holiday, and last night was very appropriate; Again, you should figure out the situation before the event starts, count how many people come, how many people will do it, what everyone wants to do, etc.; In closing, I would like to say that there is nothing about it, no one can do something very skillfully in the first place. ”

It turned out that she was really not thoughtful, and she was not capable enough, "Song Yingru, why do you know so much all the time?" "The last time he was running, he was very analysed as well.

"It's not that I know a lot, Jia Luo, nothing is very simple, especially when dealing with people, you never know what other people really think in their hearts. We can judge others with the greatest kindness, we can believe that people's hearts are good, but we can't stop others from doing evil, you know? No matter how much he has been through, he believes that people are good, but he knows that everyone has an evil side.

"Well, this matter, it's true that I didn't think it through, if there is anything in the future, can I ask you for advice?" Xu Jialuo asked cautiously, it was already very abrupt to send him a message today.

Song Yingru was surprised that she would say this, in his eyes, she has always been excellent, "Of course you can, my opinion is just for reference, you need to ask others more what they think, take a look." "Perhaps, someone as good as her used to be too lazy to listen to other people's opinions.

We can be different, so that we can complement each other. The relationship between people is not a real sense of things gathering like and people in groups, but that we can get comfort from others. We are not so good, there will always be unsatisfactory places, and we always need the help and persuasion of others.