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Since the old lady wants to do it, then it is better to hand the old lady a more powerful weapon and let the old lady be angry.

Therefore, Qin Ju found a bamboo whip, in fact, what he meant by doing this was that if she wanted to fight, she would be beaten, and she was not afraid. If you want to hit it, you can make a purchase. I'm here and waiting for me.

Although these words, Qin Ju did not dare to say them. But what did she think in her heart? Because when the child is older, it is better to persuade and educate.

Blindly serving with sticks will make children develop a rebellious mentality. After all, children also have to be face-saving when they grow up. The face is often bigger than anything else. And it hurts the child's self-esteem. It is easy for children to develop introverted personality traits.

Although, since childhood, I grew up under the stick of my mother. However, they don't think that this kind of education is really good.

Let's talk about Qin Ju's three elder brothers.

The eldest brother, Qin Sen, has been an obedient and well-behaved child since he was a child. However, he also suffered from the old lady's stick. Although the number of times he has been beaten is very rare. But in all fairness, the reason for the beating was not as the old lady He said.

When I was a child, I fought in order to educate Qin Sen.

In fact, the real reason is that the old man Qin Dalang went to war in the army at that time. He was a woman at that time, pulling several children, and life was not easy to do and cherished. Sometimes life is wronged. When there is nowhere to vent, you can only find trouble in your children, so as to anger your own children. Said that if the child hit the muzzle of the gun, then it would be just enough for him to drink a pot. He just took the opportunity to whip his child.

Of course, the second brother Qin Bao is different.

Qin Bao has been a naughty guy since he was a child. Sometimes he does not clean up. Most of the time, the old lady He beat him up, and sometimes it is indeed deserved.

However, the third brother Qin Ping is different. Qin Ping's body has not been as good as his two elder brothers since he was a child. At the same time, his thinking ability is also very different from ordinary people.

Let's be honest.

The old lady usually loves Qin Ping, more than her two elder brothers, and much more than her sister Qin Ju. Occasionally, it's just to scare him. To tell the truth, the old lady He's rolling rod has never hit the third son Qin Ping.

As for Qin Ju, she was originally a little girl herself, although she was only 13 years old. But next to the stick, it is more than the upper than the bottom. may not be as many sticks as the second brother suffers. However, it is definitely more than when the eldest brother Qin Sen was a child, and he was beaten with sticks.

Because, their old lady lives by one principle. That is, it is impossible to treat the education of children.

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Since coming to this unfamiliar world, not only the standard of living has plummeted. didn't even have the most basic decision-making power, and Tian Guifei felt that she was here to be angry. Instead of continuing to enjoy the blessings.

For this reason, she even wondered if it was in her previous life, in the struggle in the harem, she had too many grievances and entanglements, so she attracted the current world newspaper.

Sure enough, sooner or later, you have to pay it back.

Knowing that there would be today, she must be strict with herself, lenient with others, be a new person, do good deeds and accumulate virtues, and be a kind and rich lady with a true bodhicitta heart, rather than a scheming and vicious woman.

"Qin Ju, look at the vegetable leaves you picked, the dirty yellow leaves inside, why don't you choose to clean them."

Mother-in-law He, when she said this, gasped for breath, a face that had been through vicissitudes, it looked like rough bark, obviously aging faster than her age for a long time, and her face was obviously much older than her peers.

The little girl who was taught by the old lady He. It has just passed the year of the golden hairpin. In a few years, we will talk about marriage. She is now the sister-in-law of the sweet concubine. That is, the sister of several sons of the Qin family. It is said that this little girl still has to call Tian Guifei a sister-in-law.

This little girl named Qin Ju was born when Mrs. Chai was forty years old.

For the old lady Ho? Several daughters-in-law are women, and their daughters are also girls. It is said that for the sake of the family and the attitude of everything is prosperous, and generally try to achieve a bowl of water, and generally will not favor one over the other.

Even if you want to favor one over the other, often the old man will also favor his daughter. But the old lady He is just the opposite of the logic of normal people's thinking?

In all fairness, He's attitude towards these daughters-in-law is already relatively kind. She often teaches her sons like this that they must love their wives. As a man, you must pamper your wife. My wife is not an old mother, but a good partner who has partnered with you for a lifetime, and my wife is born to be pampered.

The old lady He's point of view is that a man who doesn't love his wife is destined not to be a mature man. Because a woman, once she follows a man, then she is betting her life on this man.

What's the point if men don't love her? The mother-in-law's attitude towards her daughter-in-law is also a truth. As a mother-in-law, if she can't tolerate her daughter-in-law in life, she will compare trivial things with sesame mung beans, and if she has to fight with her daughter-in-law to win or lose, this kind of sensitive relationship duel. In the end, there is absolutely no real winner, it is definitely a lose-lose effect.

Because the mother-in-law is the daughter-in-law's husband's mother-in-law, and the daughter-in-law is the daughter-in-law of the mother-in-law's son. Because the most disadvantaged of this kind of multiple-choice question is the son himself.

Therefore, once a girl is married into the family, the family should be gentle with this girl. Let this girl live at home without making her feel like an outsider.

At least let her feel the warmth of family affection and the care of humanity. In all fairness, the old lady He, in the past ten years, has handled the relationship with her three daughters-in-law relatively well. Although there are little problems in life. But the overall relationship is reasonable. At least the neighbors didn't blatantly watch the jokes and join in the fun.

Even if it was the old lady's third daughter-in-law, who had a high fever some time ago and talked nonsense. Ho is also careful with spices and takes care of her. At the same time, she also took part of the responsibility for eating and drinking. Assigned to her daughter. That is, on Qin Ju, the current sister-in-law of the sweet concubine. Let her take good care of her sister-in-law Ayu!

But for his daughter Qin Ju. There is basically no difference between the old lady He's attitude towards her since she was a child and her attitude towards her brothers. It's not because she's a little girl that you're a little more lenient with her.

Although a few brothers still love this only sister. However, the old lady He Shi, on the contrary, has high standards and strict requirements for her daughter, and works in the fields together when she is busy with the farm, and usually cooks and carries water. Especially to:

Mrs. He is a very far-sighted woman. She keenly feels that only parents try to be fair. Then when the children grow up, there will be a lot of friction between each other, and then the children will be more filial to their parents.