25. Be a peacemaker
"As soon as I came over, I saw my aunt choosing toons, and then my grandmother and my third aunt came back." Qin Xiaoling, who had just turned ten, looked at her grandmother He with a cute face.
"Ling Wazi, you shut up for me, you dare to talk back to grandma at a young age, right? I think both of you aunts and nephews should be beaten. The old lady He Shi was about to carry the stick as she spoke.
The sweet concubine was also shocked by the loud scolding of her mother-in-law He, her mother-in-law was like a king in her previous life, as if she really said the same, and no one could disobey him.
Qin Xiaoling had seen the picture of her grandmother He, who used to play her aunt Qin Ju, and she felt that her grandmother was too ruthless at that time, and the sturdy stick really hit her aunt's thigh.
At that time, Qin Xiaoling didn't dare to follow her at close range, but only dared to hide from a willow tree in front of the house. watched from a distance the process of my aunt being beaten by my grandmother.
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However, the chattering of their aunt and nephew suddenly angered Mrs. He, who was very hot-tempered when she was young. After all, the next generation! It is impossible for the He family to really slap his granddaughter Qin Xiaoling. In a hurry, she had no choice but to spill her anger at her daughter Qin Ju, she raised her palm and slapped her daughter Qin Ju.
After all, Qin Ju is an elder. Qin Xiaoling is her niece and a junior.
Old lady He, if she wants to beat someone, she will definitely beat Qin Ju, who is an elder. Qin Ju, as an aunt, really played an exemplary role for her niece Qin Xiaoling at all. On the contrary, there is a little bit of disrespect. It's full of swearing. It's not going to look like it.
The old lady He took a step forward, slapped Qin Ju's elbow, and then said excitedly:
"Everyone can bury your third brother, but you can't. You're brothers and sisters. If people judge your third brother. Supposedly, you should learn to refute. How can you say that Ling Wazi is like your third brother. Obviously, you also know that Ling Wazi is the daughter of your second brother and your second sister-in-law. Is it really good that you bury your brother, sister-in-law and niece like this? “”
The old lady He is a little crazy, and it is normal for people to be a little crazy.
Don't say that Ling Wazi is a smart and clever little girl. Even if she was really stupid, Qin Ju shouldn't bury her. After all, Ling Wazi is Qin Ju's own niece and nephew. Even if Ling Wazi is really stupid. Qin Ju should also be compared with outsiders. How can Ling Wazi be compared with Qin Ju's third brother?
Qin Ju's third brother, Qin Ping, although he looks stupid. However, after all, they are born from the same root, so why not be in a hurry. Anyway, he and Qin Ju are brother and sister! How can you bear to talk about him?
Just now, Qin Ju really didn't look like it when she spoke. knows that his third brother is an iron man. Just now. When burying her niece Qin Xiaoling. actually compared the niece with the third brother. Besides, her niece Qin Xiaoling is obviously the second brother's daughter. , Qin Ju actually said that the second brother's daughter looks like the third brother. It's not like a human being at all. Let outsiders hear. If you don't get it right, it will become a topic of chewing the root of the tongue of those three aunts and eight women after tea and dinner. Because it's a joke to say that. However, after all, Qin Ju is also young. I don't know what it means to say that.
Since coming to this unfamiliar world, not only the standard of living has plummeted. didn't even have the most basic decision-making power, and Tian Guifei felt that she was here to be angry. Instead of continuing to enjoy the blessings.
For this reason, she even wondered if it was in her previous life, in the struggle in the harem, she had too many grievances and entanglements, so she attracted the current world newspaper.
Sure enough, sooner or later, you have to pay it back.
Knowing that there would be today, she must be strict with herself, lenient with others, be a new person, do good deeds and accumulate virtues, and be a kind and rich lady with a true bodhicitta heart, rather than a scheming and vicious woman.
"Qin Ju, look at the vegetable leaves you picked, the dirty yellow leaves inside, why don't you choose to clean them."
Mother-in-law He, when she said this, gasped for breath, a face that had been through vicissitudes, it looked like rough bark, obviously aging faster than her age for a long time, and her face was obviously much older than her peers.
The little girl who was taught by the old lady He. It has just passed the year of the golden hairpin. In a few years, we will talk about marriage. She is now the sister-in-law of the sweet concubine. That is, the sister of several sons of the Qin family. It is said that this little girl still has to call Tian Guifei a sister-in-law.
This little girl named Qin Ju was born when Mrs. Chai was forty years old.
For the old lady Ho? Several daughters-in-law are women, and their daughters are also girls. It is said that for the sake of the family and the attitude of everything is prosperous, and generally try to achieve a bowl of water, and generally will not favor one over the other.
Even if you want to favor one over the other, often the old man will also favor his daughter. But the old lady He is just the opposite of the logic of normal people's thinking?
In all fairness, He's attitude towards these daughters-in-law is already relatively kind. She often teaches her sons like this that they must love their wives. As a man, you must pamper your wife. My wife is not an old mother, but a good partner who has partnered with you for a lifetime, and my wife is born to be pampered.
The old lady He's point of view is that a man who doesn't love his wife is destined not to be a mature man. Because a woman, once she follows a man, then she is betting her life on this man.
What's the point if men don't love her? The mother-in-law's attitude towards her daughter-in-law is also a truth. As a mother-in-law, if she can't tolerate her daughter-in-law in life, she will compare trivial things with sesame mung beans, and if she has to fight with her daughter-in-law to win or lose, this kind of sensitive relationship duel. In the end, there is absolutely no real winner, it is definitely a lose-lose effect.
Because the mother-in-law is the daughter-in-law's husband's mother-in-law, and the daughter-in-law is the daughter-in-law of the mother-in-law's son. Because the most disadvantaged of this kind of multiple-choice question is the son himself.
Therefore, once a girl is married into the family, the family should be gentle with this girl. Let this girl live at home without making her feel like an outsider.
At least let her feel the warmth of family affection and the care of humanity. In all fairness, the old lady He, in the past ten years, has handled the relationship with her three daughters-in-law relatively well. Although there are little problems in life. But the overall relationship is reasonable. At least the neighbors didn't blatantly watch the jokes and join in the fun.
Even if it was the old lady's third daughter-in-law, who had a high fever some time ago and talked nonsense. Ho is also careful with spices and takes care of her.