Many people really have no pursuit of their own life.

In the eyes of Tian Guifei, many people around her now are Tie Hanhan.

Ever since I came to this unfamiliar world, not only the standard of living has plummeted. didn't even have the most basic decision-making power, and Tian Guifei felt that she was here to be angry. Instead of continuing to enjoy the blessings.

For this reason, she even wondered if it was in her previous life, in the struggle in the harem, she had too many grievances and entanglements, so she attracted the current world newspaper.

Sure enough, sooner or later, you have to pay it back. It is impossible to make everyone have good luck everywhere. It is impossible to make everyone bad luck for the rest of their lives.

That's right. Caused by a blessing in disguise. Blessings and misfortunes depend. Everyone's good luck and bad luck alternate with each other to some extent. It's just that sometimes, the flaws of bad luck mask good luck. Sometimes, the aura of good luck hangs over the luck. So we feel that good luck is very bright. When bad luck strikes, the mountains collapse and the ground cracks.

The sweet concubine can be regarded as convinced. Why toss her to this barren ghost place.

Knowing that there would be today, she must be strict with herself, lenient with others, be a new person, do good deeds and accumulate virtues, and be a kind and rich lady with a true bodhicitta heart, rather than a scheming and vicious woman.

"Qin Ju, look at the vegetable leaves you picked, the dirty yellow leaves inside, why don't you choose to clean them."

Mother-in-law He, when she said this, gasped for breath, a face that had been through vicissitudes, it looked like rough bark, obviously aging faster than her age for a long time, and her face was obviously much older than her peers.

The little girl who was taught by the old lady He. It has just passed the year of the golden hairpin. In a few years, we will talk about marriage. Her current character relationship is the sister-in-law of the sweet concubine. That is, the sister of several sons of the Qin family. It is said that this little girl has to call the sweet concubine sister-in-law.

This little girl named Qin Ju was born to the old lady He when she was forty years old.

For the old lady He, he is quite careful in educating his children, several daughters-in-law are women, and his daughters are also girls. It is said that for the sake of the family and the attitude of everything is prosperous, and generally try to do it, a bowl of water is even, and generally does not favor one over the other.

Smart fathers and mothers, usually educate their children, and treat their children will not be partial, perhaps even if they are partial, they will not do it particularly directly, because, when parents don't want to have too much estrangement between their children, after all, the palms and backs of their hands are their own flesh.

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Those confused parents are prone to partiality. Sometimes, favoring a certain child, or not seeing a certain child. On the contrary, he still thinks that it is his own ability. In fact, this is all a sign of confusion. Because every child is the continuation of the life of the father.

If the father and mother treat their children partially, it is easy to cause the relationship between the children to weaken; In many families with many children, parents will unconsciously favor which child is uneven, or involuntarily ignore which child;

A favored child may be a little proud of his character, while a child who is not pampered may have a little inferiority complex in his personality and is often bullied, which also leads to a little estrangement in the children's hearts and leads to estrangement in the relationship.

Even if you want to favor one over the other, you will often be an old man who will favor her daughter, after all, everyone is selfish in life.

However, the old lady He is exactly the opposite of the thinking logic of normal people?

In all fairness, He's attitude towards these daughters-in-law is already relatively kind. She often teaches her sons like this that they must love their wives. As a man, you must pamper your wife. My wife is not an old mother, but a good partner who has partnered with you for a lifetime, and my wife is born to be pampered.

The old lady He's point of view is that a man who doesn't love his wife is destined not to be a mature man.

As the saying goes, men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. Because a woman, once she follows a man, then she is betting her whole life on this man. She didn't just live for herself. She also lives for the man she loves. It is also for the sake of the family of the beloved man.

What's the point of a man if he doesn't love his wife? The mother-in-law's attitude towards her daughter-in-law is also a truth. As a mother-in-law, if she can't tolerate her daughter-in-law in life, she will compare trivial things with sesame mung beans, and if she has to fight with her daughter-in-law to win or lose, this kind of sensitive relationship duel. In the end, there is absolutely no real winner, it is definitely a lose-lose effect.

Because, the mother-in-law is the wife of the daughter-in-law's husband, and the daughter-in-law is the daughter-in-law of the mother-in-law's son. Because the most disadvantaged of this kind of multiple-choice question is the son himself.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is one of the most difficult relationships to deal with among all family relationships. For men, because one is the old lady who gave birth to him and raised him, and the other is the wife who accompanied him through the second half of his life. For men, it's really too difficult. These two women he loves the most, if they fight in the nest, then it is really difficult for a man to mediate and solve. It's like stepping on top of two eggs. Trembling and submissive. There are only not many solutions.

Therefore, once a girl is married into the family, the family should be gentle with this girl. Let this girl live at home without making her feel like an outsider.

At least let her feel the warmth of family affection and the care of humanity. In all fairness, the old lady He, in the past ten years, has handled the relationship with her three daughters-in-law relatively well. Although in life, there are little problems with stumbling. However, the overall relationship is reasonable. At least the neighbors didn't blatantly watch the jokes and join in the fun. Chew the base of their tongue after tea and dinner.

Even if it is the old lady's third daughter-in-law, Ayu, she had a high fever some time ago and talked nonsense. Ho is also careful with spices and takes care of her. At the same time, she also took part of the responsibility for eating and drinking. Assigned to her daughter. That is, on Qin Ju, the current sister-in-law of the sweet concubine. Let her take good care of her sister-in-law Ayu!

But for his daughter Qin Ju. There is basically no difference between the old lady He's attitude towards her since she was a child and her attitude towards her brothers. It's not because she's a little girl that you're a little more lenient with her.

Although a few brothers still love this only sister.