Chapter 465: Self-inflicted affection
When the children came back, it was Shen Linglong who rushed to send the three little ones to school, and Xiaofu took the lead and refused to go.
Shen Linglong asked: "You said it yourself, if you promise someone else's things, you have to do it." I don't ask you, I'm respecting you, and now you're upset because of this, and you don't go to school. ”
Xiaofu didn't know how to refute Shen Linglong, he was very aggrieved: "But mother, you, you, you don't care about your brother and them like this?!" ”
Shen Linglong was just about to ask this kid, 'Didn't you make an inappropriate promise under inappropriate circumstances, and you still wanted to help others without breaking your promise?' At that time, the little sister suddenly shouted: "Dad-"
The mothers reflexively looked in the direction of the little sister's shouting.
Chen Chi returned, followed by all the children in their family.
Even Zhong Rong and Zhong Kai were no exception, they all followed behind Chen Chi with their heads down, they didn't know what lesson they had learned, they walked all the way, and after seeing Shen Linglong, they also shouted.
After shouting, they all honestly set up their horses under the trees in the yard.
Xiaofu was stunned for a moment, and called dryly: "Dad? ”
Chen Chi glanced at Xiaofu condescendingly, and said, "Follow Zamabu." ”
Chen Chi, who has always been soft-hearted to girls, even asked Xiaomei and Aixia to punish Zamabu.
Shen Linglong was shocked by Chen Chi's behavior, followed Chen Chi into the house, glanced at the situation outside, and asked, "Is this a big problem?" ”
While asking, he served Chen Chi rice and vegetables.
Chen Chi was probably hungry, so he ate happily, and after eating two bowls quickly, he slowed down and said: "In the past few days, our hospital has been tracking down a suspect, and they are all eyeing it, thinking about when he will make a move to erase the clues, our children...... What kind of 'catch/rape', scared the suspect away, didn't contact the clues at all, and directly grabbed the eldest sister and wanted to escape as a hostage. ”
Shen Linglong's whole body trembled: "How can this be?!" How did they come back?! ”
If the eldest sister is a hostage, this is a dangerous thing, Erfu will not be stupid enough to let Xiaofu and them come back, and he will not tell her.
This is obviously something that children can't handle.
However, in fact, Erfu is so stupid. No, to be more precise, Erfu is arrogant to that point.
Chen Chi said: "Xiaofu, Xiaomei, Aixia, the three of them are too young. When Erfu was threatened and forced to retreat, he let the three of them come back to avoid the suspect catching the three small ones...... Then they secretly followed and 'fight' the gangsters together! ”
Bang Dang –
The bowl in Shen Linglong's hand fell down and smashed on the wooden table, and the rice spilled on the table, and rolled down under the table with a grunt, slamming on the ground, and the bowl was shattered.
"What do you say? Fight the gangsters?! Shen Linglong was so angry that she didn't care about breaking the bowl when she fell to the ground, so she stood up directly, intending to teach the little ghosts outside a lesson, but reason forced her to sit down.
She clenched her fists and asked, "And then?" ”
First of all, we have to understand the situation, blind scolding is useless, and it may cause children to rebel.
Moreover, Chen Chi has already punished the children, and looking at the appearance of the children, they are not injured, so she can temporarily suppress her worries, understand the complete situation, and then prescribe the right medicine.
Chen Chi watched Shen Linglong sit down again, a little surprised: "Why did you teach those boys a lesson?" ”
Although Shen Linglong usually spoils children very much, he is actually a little strict at the same time, and when it comes to real things, Shen Linglong is more severe than Chen Chi, and he can even teach children a lesson without corporal punishment.
Shen Linglong was very calm and rational, suppressed his anger and asked: "I have to understand what happened, I know what level of lesson to give and let them be honest." ”
Chen Chi was stunned for a moment, Shen Linglong at this time was completely different from usual, in an instant, Chen Chi seemed to see the commander who was planning accurately on the battlefield and controlling the battle situation.
After a pause, Chen Chi quickly came to his senses, and continued to elaborate with Shen Linglong: "Because I am not responsible for the matter of stalking, but a young man who is not good at fighting, we don't plan to arrest people back today...... So, the young man's first instinct was to keep watch, he tried to get Erfu and them to leave, and told them about the suspect, and asked them to come to the hospital to find me, but-"
Chen Chi suddenly turned around, and his expression became a little cold: "Erfu deceived that young man. He asked the young man if he had been worried that he couldn't get the suspect to be roped according to the law, and this time he was startled because of his poor watching, and after he went back, he was afraid that he would be persuaded to retire from the probationary period, and he would even be recorded in the case, about the uselessness of this time. ”
Shen Linglong: "? ”
"You probationary boys, is there something wrong?! When a child says this kind of thing, he believes it?! Don't he have any brains of his own? ”
Chen Chi shook his head: "No, it's Erfu, he captured the young and vigorous nature of the young man, he told others that if there is a way, even if you startle the snake, let people in, as long as people go in, there is time to check." ”
"They set up a bunch of ambushes, and when the other party tried to rush into the train station and leave the place, Erfu ...... Hehe, there was a nationwide hunt, and when the gangsters were holding a knife, they relied on the fighting skills they had learned for several years, and besieged them with Dafu and Yin Shi. ”
Shen Linglong was terrified when he heard this, and felt that Erfu was simply going crazy!
One person directed all the situations!
Although Shen Linglong tried his best to stay calm, he was still trembling with anger: "In other words, they outwitted the gangsters and fought the gangsters bravely, this kind of behavior has not repented at all, and they still feel that they are not wrong?!" ”
Chen Chi won't say anything.
Shen Linglong took a deep breath and asked, "Is there anything else?" ”
Chen Chi thought for a moment, and said a little helplessly: "I think, it may not be of any use to punish Zama Bu like this, they-"
Shen Linglong sneered: "I know my mistakes, but I don't change them." ”
"No, maybe you won't be wrong." Chen Chi even denied the word in front of Shen Linglong, which was enough to see how difficult their children were.
Many children, afraid of pain, parental control, stick is a very effective method.
There's an old saying that talent comes from under the stick.
But this kind of is really useful for children who are weak and have a clear view of right and wrong, and can be taught with sticks to beat the bad points back, so that children can remember what to do is wrong.
can deal with their children, this kind of stick education, corporal punishment education, will not work.
Because for a long time, Shen Linglong has cultivated their independent/independent personality, and he is unwavering in what he believes in.
Beating and scolding cannot make them submit.
Only by making them feel that what they are doing is wrong can they correct it, and even the speed of correction will be more effective than scolding.
Shen Linglong was silent for a long time and said, "Have you eaten enough?" Come out with me when you're full and cooperate with me. ”
Chen Chi: "? ”
He didn't know what Shen Linglong was going to do, but he still got up and cooperated with Shen Linglong.
Walking out of the hall, Shen Linglong stood still in front of Erfu, because she was standing straight, and the child was squatting again, and her whole person seemed to look down on Erfu condescendingly.
Erfu frowned, and an instinctive reaction after being oppressed appeared.
Shen Linglong laughed, but didn't make a sound, but turned his head and dragged a chair in three steps and two steps, and sat down one meter away from Erfu, so that his eyes were level with Erfu.
No one understood this behavior, only Erfu, who looked at Shen Linglong just now.
This is respect, Shen Linglong's respect for Erfu. For Erfu, a child who has an independent personality and does not like to be subservient, Shen Linglong treats him as an adult, and he is not his own son.
Shen Linglong looked directly at Erfu: "What do you think is the punishment for letting you take a horse step here?" ”
Dafu didn't know what kind of attitude Shen Linglong faced Erfu just now, he muttered in a low voice: "Doesn't it mean that we went to fight with the bad guy with the knife?" ”
The eldest sister was about to cry, she walked on the horse and said, "Mother, mother...... It's all my fault, I, I'm going to be careful...... I'm the one who has caused the Great Fortune to them, and I-"
"Erfu, you come on." Shen Linglong listened to them admit their mistakes, but she didn't wait for Erfu, she was a little impatient, and asked Erfu directly by name.
Erfu was stunned, he knew that his mother wanted him to recognize his mistakes, and it was the kind that convinced him, but he didn't think he had any problems, and his mother should also know this, since he knew why he asked him so?
There are traps. Erfu was very sure that he didn't feel that he was wrong, and he also knew that if Shen Linglong made a move, he might deny his current self, but he was still curious about what kind of method Shen Linglong would use to make himself feel that these actions were wrong.
So, he walked into this trap and said the answer in his heart: "I don't think I'm at fault, in that case, I didn't do the slightest problem, mother, you can't just because we are a child, I think it's wrong and reckless for me to do such a dangerous act, in fact, the final outcome proves that I did better than you adults." ”
Chen Chi twisted his eyebrows, a little displeased with Erfu's conceited attitude.
But Shen Linglong said before that he would cooperate, but he held back and didn't do anything, standing with a straight face.
Instead, Shen Linglong sneered: "Am I asking you this?!" Yes, I have always treated you as an independent personality, and I agree with all your choices, but how can you repay me? Self-righteous, think I'm thinking about it, what are you going to do 'catching rape'?! ”
"What? If I don't treat you as a private child, are you going to treat me like your private 'mother'?! ”
A different kind of questioning stunned Erfu and everyone.
Saying this, Shen Linglong didn't think it was enough, and showed displeasure on his face and said: "My man, there are no people outside, I haven't said anything yet, why are you doing anything for me?!" Did I ask for your help?! ”
Daifuku: "...... Mother, mother, we are, we are to help you! ”
Shen Linglong called Xiaofu out and asked, "When you came back, you said that you promised Erfu, a man, one person does things and one person does things, when you don't let me take care of it, when you don't tell me what happened, do I take care of it?" ”
Xiaofu shook twice.
"No, no......"
Shen Linglong asked again: "In that case, why do you care about my business?!" ”
"Do you need to be amorous?!"