What is marriage?! Everyone has a different answer in mind.

What is marriage?! Some people say that the post-80s are busy with divorce, but I am a post-80s generation, and I want to share my opinion.

Why are the post-80s busy getting divorced? Those with a low level of education get married early, maybe they are married in love, or they think they should get married because they inherit the arrangement of their parents, or they have to get married when they go around and around at an age......

After marriage, I went through a lot of running-in, and suddenly found that the other party was not what I wanted, and my life after marriage was too far away from what I imagined. By the time this is understood, most of them are approaching the age of forty.

There are old and young, and the work is not so wishy-washy, and you can't change jobs casually like the young and vigorous, because the mortgage and car loan, and the family economy do not allow for job changes, let alone have the courage to choose to end the marriage and start over.

However, I am unwilling!

However, it's tiring to think about it, change someone, and then repeat the life you have experienced: getting married, having children, running around......

Use responsibility and children to bind the heart that is not old but still fanatical about changing the status quo.

Some people want to go home and have a cup of hot tea, some people want to have someone who can share the economy, some people want to have a good chatter, and some people want to have a ......

The world of flowers tempts everyone, and they are inadvertently warmed by a warm word from others.

On the crossroads, men and women are wandering, hesitating, making trade-offs, and being in a dilemma.

A friend, she said that she had accumulated enough disappointments, and her heart was cold, and she waited until the child was eighteen years old, and she wanted to divorce. Although her husband started doing housework and would cook and wash clothes for her, she didn't need it anymore at this time. At the time she needed it, all she saw was indifference, alienation.

Divorce cannot solve everything, and divorce is not the solution to all problems.

Only by changing your mindset is to see what you need and want, and make a choice that is beneficial to you.

People will be divided into stages, for example: the age when you should go to school is to go to school, then, for a woman, what she pursues in her life is a love, pure love.

Women, all their lives, want beautiful love, and they always look forward to a beautiful yearning for love. This is destined for women to be either strong and incomparable after loss, or to be dependent on the birds of love, so women are only forced to value material things after deep disappointment.

An old woman, even if her hair is gray and her teeth fall out all her life, as long as she thinks of having such a pure love, she will smile very well.

It is often said that women have feelings, and it is often said that people who have feelings die the worst, but I don't think so.

People want to grow quickly, and feelings are the best and most comprehensive teachers, and all aspects can make you experience disasters and thrive, so don't just see the dark clouds of breakup, but also see the light when it blooms.

Chicken soup for the soul can scab over wounds most of the time: if you bear the beauty of love, then you should also be prepared for the loss of love.

Only when you bear it will you have the ability not to miss the next good thing when you turn the corner, manage all the good things for the rest of your life, and cherish the two words, it is not so easy to have an epiphany.

Regardless of men and women, when they reach the age of forty, there are very few people who want to toss, and the urge to want love is gone.

There are also those who can't be tossed up, forty years old, young, in this era, there are many people who are not married at the age of forty, and I can still have what I want.

You see, mentality, is so important, it all depends on your and my experience, what kind of life we live!

Looking forward to you and me, when turning at the intersection, whether it is going straight or going backwards, you can encounter beauty.

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