"The large population of Gu Mansion means that there are more rights and wrongs, there is no absolute truth at all, which is something you can't imagine now. Looking at 1 Mao, 2 lines, 3 Chinese nets, have you ever thought about the difficulties in the future? ”

Hua Qingchen didn't know how grateful she was to the few people who really stood in her perspective and thought about her, they would ask so much, representing not only care, love but also the meaning of fulfilling her: "Ancestor, grandfather, ninth sister, I know you are all for me."

I have already discussed with him that if he wants to serve in the Hanlin Academy after the palace examination, we will buy a small house in the capital, and when he is released, he will take me with him wherever he goes.

The two rooms had been given to him by his mother earlier, but he had never touched them, and he had pointed them to their homes not long ago. The reason why he accepted it was also to bet on his mother's mouth, his inner room, his study, which had never been allowed to enter by any woman, were all small servants.

As for the future, if he is really negative, I will give it up. ”

Hua Xun: "You are so disrespectful of etiquette and shame, the other party will not cherish you!" ”

"Grandfather, he is not married, I am not married, the man should be married, the woman should be married, how can I not be ashamed. Look at 1 Mao 2 lines 3 Chinese net flower family training, marriage autonomy.

The family is strong, relying on in-laws, and it is just a papier-mâché tiger. ”

Hua Pei Qingyu: "Say it lightly, give it up?" A woman who has a child is no longer yourself! You only have your children in your eyes, and for their sake you will choose to endure many grievances and have to go on the road of compromise.

Because you have no shame to face your mother's family, all the hardships you have suffered are the price you have paid for your stubbornness today. ”

"Ninth sister, what the future holds, I don't know.

But I'm going to try to live my life well. Nothing is static, let alone people's hearts, how can we expect people's hearts to remain unchanged for decades? Change if you want, but I can guarantee that Qin Se will be harmonious when he is pleased with me.

If he changes, I will not insult the Hua family, teach my children well, and fulfill the responsibilities of the main mother. ”

The responsibility of the main mother is to take charge of the middle feed in the house, and the backyard is peaceful, and at that time, she no longer has affection for him.

Hua's teaching to children is never "The Legend of the Daughters", but they must know the details of the "Legend of the Daughters", "The Female Ring" and so on, take this as a precept, stick to their hearts, live well, do not respect their husbands, and understand their most important truths.

Hua Pei Qingyu couldn't help but think every time she saw the rules of the Hua Clan, could the ancestor of the Hua Clan also be a time-traveler with a pair of butterfly wings, otherwise how could there be many clauses that contradict the common sense of this era to protect women.

The children of Huafu, marry freely, live unhappily, and the family comes forward to reconcile and divorce the woman, and uses all means to take away the children.

When a woman in Huafu gets married, the man has to sign a contract and the official seal is stamped by the government, saying: prenuptial agreement.

"You are the eldest sister, and you are the first woman in our branch to get married, so it is very important whether you marry well or not.

No matter where you are or what kind of situation you are in, you must remember that you are a flower girl, even if you are married, you are still a flower girl.

Huafu is your backer, and the door of Huafu is open for you at any time.

You should also keep in mind that when your in-laws and your mother's family have a conflict of interest, you should take care of your in-laws' family, because that is where your future children will settle down, and you will receive Gu's ancestral hall and incense after a hundred years. ”

"Yes, Ancestor."