Bonnie felt that she might need to re-audit the person on the other side of the WeChat account. Although it is true that I did not have much interest in him in my youth, maybe some of the processes they have experienced over the years will make each other grow.

Shouldn't he be given a chance? Or give yourself a chance? For the first time, Bonnie had doubts about her decision.

"Did I scare you? I'm sorry, but I'm a little excited to think that I haven't been able to contact you all these years."

The other party sent a message in a timely manner.

"Smile Expression"

This was the only expression Bonnie could think of without hurting the other person after thinking about it.

"If I wanted to ask you out to dinner, would you refuse me?"

"My work is a lot of work, and I often have to travel around the world. However, if you happen to be nearby, you can make an appointment for afternoon tea."

"No problem. I've been around the center lately and looking for a new office. We're always in touch."

「ok」

"Then you go home and be careful, rest early, and I won't bother you. Smiling emoji"

「ok」

Bonnie felt that she had taken a big step forward by not completely rejecting the other party this time. Maybe it's because I'm growing up and becoming more sleek, which is the way to survive in modern society.

When Bonnie got home, it was past 10:30, and the lights were still on in the living room, but there was no one to be seen.

She habitually took off her shoes, turned off the lights in the hall, and walked towards her room in the dark.

"Coming back? Want something to eat? ”

When I passed the door of the first room, my mother pushed it open.

"No, don't be hungry."

"I don't know what you're busy doing outside all day, and you don't bring a boyfriend home."

"Work, Mom. I also need to work, and my boyfriend can't support me for the rest of my life. ”

"Can work stay with you for a lifetime?"

"My husband may not be able to support me for a lifetime, okay? With my character, I have to leave even if I get married. ”

"Look at what you're talking about!"

"Besides, shouldn't you want me to come home later? Maybe I'll just bring you a grandson back. Bonnie quipped boredly.

"You're just trying to me off."

"Why am I willing to be angry with you? Isn't the purpose of your second elder just to bring your grandson? ”

"Your father and I are both retired, our family is not short of money, and your only task now is to give yourself an account."

"If you're so unreasonable, I'll too..."

"How are you?"

"I can't help it..."

"I won't get away from you, when do you plan to meet the person your aunt introduced?"

"I don't even know what the other party looks like, how can I make an appointment?"

"That's okay, I'll let you add WeChat tomorrow, don't make any weird things for me."

“……”

"Okay, aren't you going to the bathroom? Isn't there a hurry? And so much nonsense. ”

Suddenly there was a powerful voice in the room, which made Bonnie breathe a deep sigh of relief.

"I have found that every mother has the ability to provoke her child at any time. No matter how difficult a client I encounter at work, I don't know how to communicate with them like this. ”

Bonnie casually spoke into the door.

"Do you know why?"

"Why?"

"What is a customer? Leadership is key. You may question the wrong decision of your leader, but you can never change that decision. Unless one day, you become someone else's boss. ”

"So you mean, I'm going to have to have a baby to understand?"

"Before I got married, I also thought that your mother was gentle, virtuous, understanding, and knowledgeable. After getting married, I found out that she would also haggle with vendors in the vegetable market for a few dollars, and would be hysterical in the middle of the night to clean up my vomit, or run to fight with the other party's parents because the child was being bullied. ”

"Does this have anything to do with my mother urging me to get married? Are you trying to get me married? Or are you against me getting married? ”

"That's life, maybe it's going to be very different from what you think."

"I don't think it's fun at all. So I don't really understand why it seems that you have to go through this step to be considered a complete life. Dad, do you know? In these years, divorced women are more relaxed than older young people like us.

At our age, if you have a slightly stronger ability to work, it is the norm for you to get divorced anyway, as if everyone can understand it very well. If you meet an older girl who is unmarried, or even has no boyfriend, she will be treated like a rare animal. ”

"Silly boy, why do you want to do so much. Your mother introduced you to you, you can go if you want to, and if you don't want to go, you can just deal with it. Anyway, we don't need to rely on others to support us, so let's be happy. ”

"If my mother hears this, she may make trouble again."

"It's okay, she's afraid of me... Ha ha. ”

"Ouch. Then next time, can you please come out and save me earlier? ”

"Okay, okay, depending on the mood. Hurry up and take a shower, your mom is coming back. ”

"Hee-hee."

Bonnie quickly retreated to her position with her bag in hand.

It's a meaningless conversation that happens almost every day, and going home is becoming more stressful for Bonnie than work, or a pressure that she can't get rid of.

Most of the pressure at work is that you have high requirements for yourself, but you can't achieve the goals you set, so you feel pressure. But the pressure on the family is because I have too low requirements for myself and can't meet the pressure that my family expects from me.

We tend to be more aware of ourselves under pressure, but do we really need to know ourselves so well? When you first enter society, you will indeed suffer some setbacks because of your naïve experience, but after the age of 30, naivety is a manifestation of great wisdom and foolishness.

So, pretending to be deaf and dumb to his boss at work, and pretending to be crazy and stupid to his parents when he came home, this is a summary of Bonnie's new life in his thirties in recent years.

The WeChat sound of the "Didi" mobile phone sounded again.

"Lanlan, are you free this weekend?"

"If you are not available, can you be more free than you? It's rare for you to ask me out, even if it's a natural or man-made disaster, I have to be free."

Bonnie sat on the couch in her room with her phone in one hand and smiled.

"Isn't this a holiday, my parents-in-law took the child back to their hometown for a few days. I'll be gone in two days. My husband is also going on a business trip this weekend, and suddenly I am left alone at home."

"That's good, you're finally free. What do you want to do? I can accompany you. Sing K?"

"You can do anything. I just want to go out and have some drinks, so I can find a coffee shop with a good environment to have a drink."

"I don't have a special request, just wait for you to summon at any time."

"Smile Expression"

"Time flies, your kids are about to start elementary school, right? When we first met, it was elementary school."

"yes. Watching children grow up makes me feel really old."

"Shouldn't I be glad then? Snickering emoji"

"Well, there always will be."

"It's okay, I'm not in a hurry, really. I didn't even think about how I was going to live my life, and I really didn't have the heart to worry about other people's lives."