Volume 2 The Sorrow of Human Nature Chapter 170 True Love
"Xia Qing ......"
Mu Feng was so moved that he almost couldn't help crying, he hugged Xia Qing's warm nephrite-like body, Xia Qing's words made Mu Feng suddenly relaxed, he had already prepared for the worst, but he got Xia Qing's understanding, how could this not make him feel excited?
"Today, I swear by Mu Feng here! In the future, I will not marry anyone but you, no matter who the other party is, if I break my oath, I will die with five thunderbolts! Mu Feng gritted his teeth and said seriously.
With such a person who understands that he still likes himself, Mu Feng no longer needs to have other love, just like a sentence in the book; Your gentleness is only for one person, and the rest will be given to the person you love the most, and the one who is gentle with you is not necessarily the one who loves you the most, but the one who loves you the most must be the most gentle to you.
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The love between two people is not the payment of one person, if there is no emotion and money to be together, what is the difference between it and prostitution? There are always many people who think that they are the one who was hurt after breaking up, and think that the other party is a scumbag and a scumbag.
And they have never empathized with each other, whether they have done something wrong, the most common mistake men make is to ignore each other's feelings, dare not say anything to each other, and bear it silently by themselves.
And the mistake women make is that they never think about the feelings of men, they think they are giving, but in fact they don't understand what they want at all, they only see their hurt side, but they can't see the hurt side of themselves.
Love is never a person's thing, if you don't know how to understand each other, blindly conceal and lie, blindly think that you are right, then sooner or later you will separate, in fact, there are not so many scumbags and scumbags in this world, but they never thought that they were the scumbags and scumbags.
There are always people who complain that their wives don't do anything, and they work hard to make money for the family, but in exchange for not understanding, which makes them think that they are hurt for a while, and they don't think about the other person's feelings.
However, they didn't think that the wife was not like this, she worked hard at home to take care of the housework, and she had to take care of the children, and her husband never told her the reason for going out early and returning late, and he wouldn't even tell herself his hard work, how could she understand?
This is concealment, thinking that you can carry it alone, but forgetting that the other person is worried about him, if you don't even tell others about your pain, how can others know that you are in pain? Not everyone in the world is an expert in mind reading.
If it's painful in my heart, why can't I say it boldly?
Many people no longer believe in love, in fact, love has always existed, but they ignore it themselves, some people say that women love money more than love, and some people say that men prefer beautiful women, and they have always liked their first love, but they don't treat themselves sincerely.
In fact, there is no comparison at all, it is true that women love money, but what is wrong is that they even abandon the people they like for money, life does need material, but the material needs do not mean that you will become the richest man in the world, can't you live without tens of millions? Material is material, and money worship is money worship.
There are also people who compare men like beautiful women with women who like money, saying that women worship money as long as they like money, but no one says that men like beautiful women, in fact, this is just a change of concept, which is very simple and easy to explain.
Compare with each other, if a man likes money, then he will be said to eat soft rice, and if a woman likes handsome guys, then will someone say it? There is indeed no way to compare money worship with this, everyone likes to be beautiful and handsome, and women like money and men like beautiful women are two different things.
So love is not like what is said on the Internet is composed of lies, it's just that those people don't dare to face their true hearts, love is sacred and pure, but some people use material and reality to defeat it.
What is the so-called reality? In fact, it is everyone's heart! Isn't it because of the twisted human heart that the world has become like this?
Some people have always been nostalgic for the past, they have never really treated their wives and husbands at all, in fact, falling in love with someone is very simple, but if you are not willing to do it, you are not willing to love, then how can there be love?
Men always ignore women's feelings, and women always don't understand men, this is the marriage now, why do so many people complain? Because they don't empathize, why can anyone live happily together? That's just because they try to imagine themselves as the other person, to understand the other person, to feel the other person's emotions.
If they can exchange their thoughts and imagine themselves as the one who hurts others, then they will gain a lot, in fact, the same is true when falling in love, falling in love is to learn how to understand a person, and finally treat him well, this is the purpose of falling in love.
What he falls in love with is his appearance, as long as he can find the good of the other party and ignore the bad of the other party, then there will be a result, no matter whether the result is good or bad, it can make a person grow up to the point of truly having love, but if he has not found it all the time, he does not deserve love at all.
It is precisely because Mu Feng understands this, so even if he may be abandoned by Xia Qing, he still has to tell the truth, he doesn't want to deceive her and hide her, because lies are always packaged with another bigger lie, and sooner or later they will be unwrapped.
In fact, there are really few people who want to listen to the truth, since the teacher told them to tell the truth, but when they told the truth, he didn't believe it, he told them that as long as they told the truth, then everything would be fine, but after telling the truth, they found that they were more painful.
What does the truth represent, the truth is like tearing the hand of those people's disguised masks, some people they value the dignity of face more than life, if his disguise mask is revealed, they will naturally not say anything like, let alone accept reality.
For example, the love mentioned before, in fact, many people break up because of their own fault, but they don't want to think about it, or they think about it but deliberately ignore it, this is human nature, always looking for reasons and excuses for their failures.
But if a person can accept himself and speak out about his mistakes, and say them from the bottom of his heart, then he will get a whole new world, and the world really doesn't like it to tell the truth, and it is not good, but this is the most effective way to improve himself.
Dignity is indeed important, sometimes more important than life, but dignity and finding excuses are two different things, how can you succeed if you are unwilling to face failure? Laugh out loud when you should be proud, burst into tears when you are sad, and don't hide yourself, then the person will live happily.
Everyone understands these truths, but no one is willing to do them, because the truth is used to speak, not to do. Everybody says yes, but who's going to do that?
When people grow up, they reject what they learned when they were young, but they don't know that those things are the most valuable experiences, but they think they are mature, and they regard these experiences as childish jokes, but they don't realize that these are the really precious things of human beings.
Anyone who makes a mistake will make a mistake, and anyone who fails will fail, but why are humans called human beings? Human beings are human beings who can correct mistakes in making mistakes, find mistakes in failures, and find solutions to difficulties when they are difficult.
The world is very big, it's not just a little bit, instead of complaining, it's better to accept and accept the reality! This reality is not talking about darkness, standing under the sun, if you only pay attention to your own shadow, of course it is darkness, and those who ignore the sun will naturally not see the light.
Love someone, the best way is not to blindly maintain him, but to help him correct his incorrect mistakes, if he can't even accept his own mistakes, then what's the point of being together? If those people don't listen, they think they see the whole world, so why should they be attached to them?
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"Mu Feng, I believe in you!" Xia Qing said with a smile.
"Don't worry, I will make Xu Yaya change her mind, and you will be the only wife in the future!"
Mu Feng took a deep breath, after solving this matter, his heart was much more comfortable, he would care so much about Xia Qing's thoughts, because he really liked Xia Qing, and liked Xia Qing who had lost his relatives like himself.
Although Xia Qing's personality seems to have some flaws, it can even be said that sometimes Xia Qing's personality changes quickly, but the only thing that remains the same is that Xia Qing has never wanted to hurt Mu Feng since that time, and she has been helping Mu Feng.
If it weren't for Xia Qing's help, Mu Feng wouldn't be able to get to where he is today, for Mu Feng, Xia Qing is indispensable, except for Mu Yu, she is the person she trusts the most, the closest person! It is precisely because of Xia Qing's help that Mu Feng can fight with peace of mind, and no longer have to worry about Mu Yu's safety.
"Thank you!" Mu Feng stroked Xia Qing's face and said.
Finally solved this matter, Mu Feng and Xia Qing also walked out, Xu Yaya was still standing at the door at this time, because Mu Feng didn't let her in, so she refused to go in, even if Qi Yang persuaded her next to her, she didn't listen.
For Xu Yaya, no matter what kind of person Mu Feng is, since she has become his "fiancée", then Mu Feng is all she has, as long as Mu Feng doesn't let her do it, then Xu Yaya won't do it casually.
Marrying a husband and following a husband, that's what it means!
These things were brainwashed by her family to Xu Xuya, and told her about those feudal superstitions, living in such an environment since she was a child, which also made her mind a little stubborn, and even what she is doing now is what her family ordered......
"It seems that it will take a long time to change her mind!" Mu Feng thought calmly.
"Are you going to follow me all the time today? There are no empty rooms here! ”
When he saw Xu Yangyang coming over again, it was Mu Feng who hurriedly spoke.
Hearing this, Xu Yaya immediately stopped her steps, she looked around, there were indeed people living in it, all these people walked out, they looked at Xu Yaya with such a beautiful and moving face with shocked faces, and they didn't seem to understand why there were such beautiful girls in the place where they lived.
"I can sleep outside, or in the aisle, as long as I am by your side, it doesn't matter anywhere, I ...... Get used to it! Xu Yaya said expressionlessly.
"That's not going to work! There are a lot of mosquitoes sleeping outside, and it's a sporadic period of viruses, and these mosquitoes carry more viruses than zombies, so there's no way I'll let you be outside. ”
Mu Feng didn't think about it, so he said directly.
Let a girl sleep outside, while she lies comfortably in the house, this kind of thing Mufeng can't do! Although Xu Yaya's stubborn character is quite annoying, she is not a bad person, so there is no need to treat her like this.
And Xu Yaya seemed to say that she was used to it just now, Mu Feng would not think that this was cultivated by her in the army, judging from the patriarchal thinking of those ancient families, she seemed to have been under a lot of pressure before, and even now she has become numb.
Maybe Xu Yaya in the past was the same as Xia Qing, what happened, so she became such a cold look, when she thought of this, Mu Feng couldn't help but feel distressed for this girl, and she couldn't help herself to do anything, Mu Feng deeply understood.
"Are you concerned about me?" Xu Yaya asked puzzled.
Growing up in a feudal family, she didn't understand what warmth and affection were at all, Xu Yaya, who had never felt love, didn't understand what it was like to care about someone, and now she just does things according to the rules of the family.
"Definitely! If something really happens to you, how can I explain to Wu Wei that old cheating guy? Mu Feng said with a smile.
Hearing Mu Feng say this, Xu Yaya also nodded, she didn't believe that there was such a thing as love in the world, and she didn't understand what emotion was, Xu Yaya was more rational, and she believed that everyone in the world did something for other purposes.
This is because Xu Yaya used to be like this, for the sake of the family, she was willing to do anything, but Xu Yaya didn't know why she did it, and she couldn't even find an excuse for herself, the only thing she could remember was what the family elder said about giving everything she had for the glory of the family, this is her mission!
Xu Yaya has never lived for herself, nor has she been happy for herself, the difference between her and the walking dead at this time is just an extra beautiful skin, she has been brainwashed by the family to forget herself.
It's just like the women of ancient times, just a tool......
"You'll just sleep in the room between me and Qi Yang!" Mu Feng said as he pulled Qi Yang outside.
"Caring about ......, what a strange feeling!" Xu Yaya's cold and beautiful face showed a trace of confusion.