457: First time talking about divorce
During the Chinese New Year, Yongzi took Tong Tong to see Jiaojiao, and quarreled with his mother-in-law in front of the guests, and pulled Tong Tong away.
Jiaojiao hate, this person, he said never to quarrel in front of children, but the result? He broke his own words again and again, and quarreled with himself in front of Tong Tong several times, which scared Tong Tong into tears.
This time, I still quarreled with my mother, thinking about how many years I have been married, even if I am not happy, aggrieved and dissatisfied, I have never had a dispute with my mother-in-law, I keep my promise, what about him?
The body of a man standing up to the sky and the earth, is it like this?
The people of this husband's family always think that the daughter-in-law doesn't know how much money she secretly took to supplement her mother's family, thinking that she can buy a rocket to ascend to heaven to play, but in fact? She didn't take a penny without permission.
That year, my younger brother needed a thousand yuan for tuition, Jiaojiao borrowed it from someone, Yongzi later found out, and was furious, furious, and made a big fuss with her, turned her head angrily and left, and did not go home for a few days and nights, she did not have a job at that time, but she just gritted her teeth and did not bow her head.
At that time, the man didn't think that his wife didn't spend a penny of bride price money to cheat home......
At that time, the man had not thought of his wife's embarrassment......
At that time, the only thing that the man thought about was his injured face, thinking that what his mother said was right, and his wife didn't know how much money she had taken to make up for her mother's family......
Jiaojiao doesn't want her in-laws to go to her parents' house at all, even if she only has the opportunity to go during the Chinese New Year, because her mother-in-law will repeat it a thousand times and 10,000 times: "The wardrobe at home is full of Jiaojiao's clothes, and I can't wear them all, and I still try to buy ......."
Mom was tired of listening: "Did Jiaojiao let you spend money to buy it?" ”
The mother-in-law shook her head.
"She earned it."
The mother-in-law nodded.
"She didn't spend your money on clothes, nor did she spend Yongzi to earn money, so what do you have to say? She got married at such a young age, and she didn't wear a good dress, and now that the economy is better, shouldn't she wear it?
If you can afford to marry a daughter-in-law, you must have the ability to afford it, and if you can't afford it, you have to ask yourself. ”
Later, my mother asked Jiaojiao, "How many clothes do you have?" ”
Jiaojiao was confused: "How many pieces, what's wrong?" ”
"Buy less, save more, and think about your children."
Jiaojiao knew that the mother-in-law was nagging in front of her mother again, and she didn't bother to pay attention, why didn't the mother-in-law talk about her daughter and let her buy less clothes? Defect!
Later, Yongzi said to Jiaojiao, I didn't expect you to have such a bad temper, and you ran away, unlike other women.
Jiaojiao raised her eyebrows: I went to school, and what I learned was not to take the husband as the sky, but to respect the husband. What I learned is that others treat me sincerely, and I still treat me sincerely, and others treat me with falsehood.
By mistake, let her marry by mistake, marry a hypocritical, irresponsible, incapable and incapable person who will not support her shoulders and carry the wind and rain for her.
On the contrary, the wind and rain she experienced were all brought to her by him.
Jiaojiao learned from the pain, it turned out that what she wanted to be grateful for was not the person or thing that made her go through twists and turns, tribulations, but the epiphany, reflection, vigilance, and growth when she silently endured it alone.
When Jiaojiao was at her parents' house, she insisted on exercising every day, and after she was able to walk normally, she went to talk about divorce with her parents.
The father-in-law and mother-in-law set up a meal in the yard to entertain the in-laws, the sister-in-law took Tong Tong to avoid, and Jiaojiao went to her own house to pack her luggage.
The furniture that parents bought for themselves should be left for the children!
In the yard, his parents reprimanded Yongzi, and his mother-in-law answered: "Don't say it, both of them are cheating......"
Interrupted by his mother: "All cheating? You're showing me the evidence of my daughter's cheating? I have a photo of your son sleeping with Yang Xueqin, and I can give it to your second elder to enjoy it? See the world? ”