Gao Xinyue's ex-husband had a particularly bad temper before, and he liked to use his hands and feet and scold people.

In fact, whether a person's temper is good or not is not only affected by his own personality, but also because of his own consciousness of beating and scolding......

If a person deals with people who are equal to him in status, and he deals with problems in a brutal, scolding way, then he will not have friends.

There will be no true friends.

And those who are more deeply related than friends are their relatives.

In dealing with the relationship between relatives, communication skills are more needed.

Scolding, insulting, insulting, and despising each other can all cause rifts in the relationship between loved ones.

When friends don't get along with each other, they will be separated from each other.

And relatives are different.

Hello, relatives have a blood relationship connected in it, and they are inseparable and inseparable. Then it will lead to the contradiction between relatives and relatives, which will become stronger day by day.

It has also caused relatives to turn against each other and brothers to become enemies, which is a very incomprehensible reality and feels particularly regrettable.

In the past, when Gao Xinyue was facing the beating and scolding of her ex-husband and the domestic violence of her ex-husband, she always thought about the problem from the position of her own children, she felt that she should endure more for the sake of her children, and she would take a step back first.

Take a step back and open the sky, and the family environment will suddenly become harmonious.

But under such a mentality, Wang Peng was getting more and more inches in that period of time.

In fact, when one person commits all kinds of insulting acts against another person, endangering the interests of the other person, the victim needs to stand up and stop it in time.

Otherwise, the other party will intensify it.

And she herself will be in an even worse situation.

Domestic violence is a long-term and stable behavior.

Domestic violence is a means for the abuser to vent his inner emotions, and vent his dissatisfaction with the society, the surrounding environment, and himself on a weak person.

And this kind of venting means does not require him to pay any price.

After he vented his inner dissatisfaction, he felt very comfortable in his heart, and this was the sweetness of what he did.

And doing something is only sweet without any risk, and there is no need to pay any price, then, after this thing happens once, it will happen for the second time, the third time, and forever.

As long as his own wife does not die, he will definitely beat his wife to death.

This has basically become a law of psychology.

Therefore, there is no way to change people who like domestic violence.

Unless this man meets a more powerful, more desperate, more poisonous abuser than him.

Only when he tries to be abused by others, and it is the taste of domestic violence every day, will he put himself in the shoes of his wife, or his daughter, or other victims.

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Due to her past experience of domestic violence, Gao Xinyue now has an instinctive distrust of her ex-husband.

In this regard, Wang Peng is also very clear in his heart.

But it is clear and clear, but in his heart, he is quite dissatisfied with his ex-wife's behavior.

He didn't like his ex-wife, and brought her husband.

He felt that his territory, his possessions, had been offended.

His ex-wife, back then, was obviously his own.

But now, everything has changed.

His wife has become someone else's property.

Her own wife, why can she live so happily, so happily, so happily after leaving herself?

Why did she find one, much younger than him? Why find one, such a particularly handsome, particularly handsome?

Moreover, judging from the appearance of this young man, I feel that the family conditions of this foreigner seem to be quite good......

After Wang Peng made a particularly detailed comparison with Gao Xinyue's current husband, he finally decided that the husband Gao Xinyue is looking for now seems to be stronger than him.

Of course, although only a little stronger.

But strong is strong, and this is a fact that is hard to ignore, and it is also very unpleasant.

This person is afraid of comparison.

Once the gap is compared, especially when the other person's conditions are not good and the other party's conditions are very good, the person's psychological defense mechanism will work.

Instinctively, this is not true.

It must be the other party, what's wrong.

I'm actually no worse than him.

But many times, no matter how much you deny it, it's useless.

The facts are in front of you.

Blindfolded and not looking, covering his ears and not listening, this practice of covering his ears and stealing the bell is self-deception.

It's ridiculous.

Wang Peng didn't want to make himself such a joke, so he pretended to be personable and talked affectionately to Gao Xinyue and her current husband.

"Wife, this gentleman, I didn't expect you to come so early......"

"It's noon, I don't know if you've had breakfast?"

"Luckily, I went to buy some food myself this morning, and if you two can give me a little more time and give me a chance, let me cook it myself. So that I can entertain you......"

When Gao Xinyue heard this, she didn't agree first, but looked at her ex-husband seriously and asked.

"What about the sons?"

"Why didn't I see them?"

When Wang Peng heard this, his face was a little embarrassed.

He had already received a call from his ex-wife last night, who told him that he wanted to bring his man and gifts to see the sons.

So he told his sons about it, but his sons were not interested in it at all.

Moreover, they are not happy at all.

They didn't welcome the arrival of their own mother at all.

Wang Peng could see that his older sons didn't like his own mother very much, and they were quite repulsive.

So, in order to make their mother and son not get along too awkwardly, he gave them a large sum of money this morning and asked them to hurry up and have fun on their own.

When the time comes, if necessary, he will call them to inform them.

Let them come back.

so that their mom can take a look.

Wang Peng made such a plan, and Gao Xinyue didn't know anything about it.

In her heart now, it was full of interest. She is looking forward to reuniting with her sons after so many years.

As long as she thought of her sons growing up, she was worried and happy in her heart.