Volume 2 The Sorrow of Human Nature Chapter 199 The so-called Chinese parents
When Xia Qing saw that Xu Yaya was slapped by her father, she was immediately a little angry, and just wanted to use her superpowers to teach Xu Yaya's father a lesson, but she was stopped by Mu Feng, who shook his head at Xia Qing.
Mu Feng; "We shouldn't meddle in this kind of thing, since Xu Yaya has made her own decision, she must have thought of the current solution, if we make a rash move, maybe Xu Yaya will think that we are in the way, just look at it."
After listening to what Mu Feng said, Xia Qing also calmed down a lot, but her eyes were full of coldness when she looked at Xu Yaya's parents, but after all, this was just their family matter, and if outsiders were allowed to disturb her, it would only make them more conflicted.
Anyway, Xu Yaya is not a child anymore, since she has decided to rebel against the Xu family, then this situation must have been guessed, now it depends on Xu Yaya how she wants to deal with it, if there is really no way, Xia Qing and they can make another move.
A lot of times it's like this, there are things that outsiders can't understand at all, so they can only let them solve these things themselves, and if outsiders intervene, maybe things will only get worse, which is why many people don't want to meddle with other people's affairs.
"Yaya, you just listen to my advice, it should be too late to go back now, as long as I intercede for you on behalf of the Ye family, the Xu family will not punish you or anything." Ye Jiayi persuaded her with a bitter look.
But Xu Yaya never spoke, at this time she just lowered her head and was silent, as if she was feeling guilty for her choice, but this did not make her parents angry, but intensified the abuse.
"Enough!"
Xu Yaya suddenly raised her head and shouted with a cold face, which scared her parents, it was the first time they saw Xu Yaya's expression, which looked full of indifference and ruthlessness, and more importantly, her eyes were full of pain.
"What do you know? Do you know that the Xu family wants to force me to marry someone else? You think I'm happy with the Ancient Warrior Family? But you never asked me if I was like this, you just blamed me and insulted me! Xu Yaya seemed to be venting her emotions, and her spirit was a little out of control.
"In the Ancient Warrior Family, I have never been truly happy at all! Every day is faced with black walls and countless house rules! Which of the people in my family who is willing to contact me has no other purpose? ”
"In order to let me be a tool of the Xu family, have you thought about my feelings? I don't even know what the meaning of my existence is, I just cultivate and cultivate every day, and I ...... like a puppet controlled by you! Is this what you want? ”
"I tried to resist, but did you make me resist, Mom and Dad? If I resist, then you will use how hard you work to morally kidnap me, and even beat and scold me, but did I say a word about you? I've just been suffering it silently! ”
"Until now, I have finally gained true friendship, but you are going to take it away from me, as if you had taken away my childhood, everything I wanted, everything I wanted to protect, you took it away! Why? Why can't I have my own happiness? ”
At this time, Xu Yaya, a line of tears had slowly flowed out of her face, but she didn't feel it, her cold eyes stared at her parents tightly and said, looking at Xu Yaya's indifferent eyes, Xu Yaya's parents suddenly panicked.
Their eyes dodged, and they didn't dare to look at Xu Yaya at all, but they didn't admit their mistakes, they knew that their actions were wrong, but they just didn't admit their mistakes! Because it will lose their face, and they will lose their face as fathers and mothers!
Every parent, even if they do something wrong, they are not willing to apologize, they only think of their own face, and even feel that it is a shame to apologize to their children, it is because of this kind of thinking that Chinese children do not want to recognize their parents when they grow up.
In fact, many people have experienced Xu Yaya's feeling, obviously they have a lot of grievances in their stomachs, but when they want to communicate with their parents, they are stubborn, insist on their own ideas, and force themselves to do things they don't want to do.
Then they will always tell their children that it is all for the good of their children, and they will tell their children every day how tired and bitter they are, and after a long time in such an environment, many people suffer from depression, the reason is because the family pressure is too much.
Sometimes, even if parents do something wrong, they will blame their children, they can't see their own mistakes, they think that they are adults, what they know is all is everything, and they don't think about their children's thoughts at all.
Even once some parents are in a bad mood, they will use their children as a punching bag, even if the child is not wrong, even if the child is serious about doing homework, they go up and slap the innocent child in the face, and the child is beaten by his parents with a belt before he can figure out what is going on.
No matter how good these children are, in the eyes of their parents, they are always inferior to the little geniuses next door, and these parents will only blindly compare their children with those little geniuses, in the final analysis, for their own face and dignity.
Even if these children have achieved certain achievements, those parents are not very happy, they even feel that it is a credit to their own education, but they do not notice that when those children get up in the middle of the night to read, they do not see the tears shed by the children in the middle of the night.
It is for the sake of their parents' sentence "I am very hard, you must work hard", how many children have given up their dreams under such pressure, because they do not want to be called a white-eyed wolf who does not recognize their parents, and they have been kidnapped by their parents' morality.
There is nothing wrong with understanding the hard work of parents, but when you say these words in front of your children every day, have you ever thought that your children themselves are also under a lot of pressure? Growing up under this kind of pressure for a long time, and not having a little sickness in my heart, that's the real strangeness.
Don't the bitter children of their parents really understand? Not really, they understand it very well, even better than anyone else! But no one can complain to their parents every day, which will only add more pressure to their studies and add burden to their lives.
A parent who really understands their children, they will not say anything for the good of their children, and even encourage their children to chase their dreams, with this kind of understanding father, these children are really happy, and their future is also very good.
However, there are only more such parents in foreign countries, and in China, this kind of parents can be said to be one in ten million, and they may not have one in ten million, and their long-term solidified thinking has made them very stubborn, and they are never willing to listen to their children's opinions, nor are they willing to listen to their children's inner voices......
"Why should I live for my family all the time? Why can't I live for myself once? I've been burdened with pain for my family for more than ten years, can't I have a day of happiness? Why are you doing this to me? Am I really your own? ”
In the end, Xu Yaya still said the words in her heart, she almost cried and roared in the end, and now her eyes are red, and she has a painful expression on her face, and the tears can't stop flowing, and the appearance of pear blossoms with rain is pitiful.
It's just that if tears can save the hearts of their parents, they will not imprison Xu Yaya for more than ten years, after listening to Xu Yaya's words, her parents were not touched in their hearts, and even felt that it was a great rebellion for their children to dare to yell at themselves.
Looking at the expressions of her parents who were about to explode, Xu Yaya was completely disappointed, she had miserable tears, and a sad smile appeared at the corner of her mouth, now she finally learned to smile, but her smile was forced out by her parents......
No matter how many times she said it, no matter how much she tried to make her parents understand, her parents seemed to be inaudible, and Xu Yaya was about to face their accusations and scolding, in fact, Xu Yaya had thought of these a long time ago, but she couldn't accept it.
"You ......, you brute! Okay, when you grow up, your wings are hard, and even your parents dare to scold, Lao Tzu really raised a white-eyed wolf! The two of us worked hard to give birth to you and then raised you, and what we got was your accusation, Xu Yaya...... You can do it! Xu Yaya's father, he looked at Xu Yaya with a resentful look and said
That kind of look is more like hating iron and steel, but there is no heartache at all, as if it is something that he has worked hard to make, it is not the same as what he imagined, and the appearance of collapse is exactly the same as Xu Yaya's father now.
Even her mother has that kind of eyes, with a trace of resentment and unwillingness in her eyes, and she actually hates her own children like her, isn't it ridiculous? That's right, Xu Yaya really laughed, laughing very heartbroken and sad.
Even at this time, she wanted her parents to understand her, but in exchange for the same result, Xu Yaya's parents didn't listen to any explanation from her at all, as if in front of them, all language became pale.
"Knowing this outcome, what am I still longing for? What should I do? Xu Yaya looked at the sky with a confused face, tears in her eyes, and muttered to herself.
"Smack!"
"Ahh
Suddenly!
Just when Xu Yaya was in despair, a slap and scream woke her up, and Xu Yaya turned her head to look at it with a blank face......
"You really don't deserve to be parents, isn't it enough to imprison your daughter for more than ten years? Now I still want to continue to kidnap her, if she really wants to fight back, then why should she be slapped by you? If she's really a white-eyed wolf, why are you telling you these things? Xia Qing sneered coldly in her eyes.
"Xia Qing? You ......" Xu Yaya was a little stunned, she didn't understand why Xia Qing would make a move at this time.
"I'm sorry, she's too impulsive, I can't stop it!"
Mu Feng smiled apologetically, and at the same time he also withdrew the red light that appeared in his right palm, the original Mu Feng also planned to make a move, but Xu Yaya was one step faster than him, although Mu Feng looked apologetic, but for Xu Yaya's parents, he didn't even look at it.
"You! How dare you hit me? Xu Yaya's father was stunned all of a sudden.
"It's you! What can you do? Xia Qing squinted her eyes and smiled.