The eldest sister didn't speak, and walked with her head down, as if she hadn't heard Shen Linglong's question.

Shen Linglong didn't urge, she took a few children home, ate openly, and even gave a few children time to take a nap and pack up their things, and at the same time she went to the room to clean up her things.

After about a few minutes, when she began to fold her clothes, the eldest sister appeared at the door, her expression was not very good-looking, and she was depressed.

Shen Linglong glanced at her, smiled and beckoned, "Come and sit." ”

The eldest sister walked over slowly and sat down on the rattan chair and low stool next to the bed.

She sat next to her, staring at Shen Linglong's hand folding clothes. After being silent for a long time, the eldest sister said: "Mother, I thought Chu Yaya was very timid and shy. ”

Shen Linglong paused, looking at her girl's aggrieved eyebrows and eyes a little distressed.

She sighed and said, "She is indeed very shy and timid. ”

The eldest sister raised her head suddenly, she stared at Shen Linglong, her clear eyes were holding back tears, she just held back and didn't flow out, her immature voice was choked: "It's all fake, she's lying to me." She always told me how bad her family was, how pitiful she and her brother were, and thought of coming to our family and being brothers and sisters with us. ”

Shen Linglong didn't forget that the eldest sister suddenly told her before, begging her to let Chu Huyang's brother and sister become the children of their family.

Sure enough, was it Chu Yaya who said it?

That girl is really a natural white lotus!

Shen Linglong looked at the eldest sister and couldn't help but sigh: "Eldest sister, then why were you deceived by her?" ”

The eldest sister was stunned for a moment, and looked at Shen Linglong inexplicably.

Shen Linglong said: "Your younger brothers, you haven't been deceived by her, have you?" They will be able to be raised from Chu Huyang and know that even if they are harshly criticized by their stepmother, they will live better than we used to. ”

The eldest sister's delicate body trembled, her black pupils were a little dilated, and she muttered to herself, "I, I ......"

"You sent it yourself to someone else to cheat, and since that's the case, you don't have the right to blame anyone." Shen Linglong's expression was a little serious, "You can be kind, but first you have to have a pair of eyes to distinguish between good and evil, you don't have these eyes, and you give kindness to evil, that is what you find yourself, and the consequences will be borne by yourself, eldest sister, your surname is Chen, you are the daughter of me and your father, you can be soft and weak on the outside, but you must have a strong heart that is responsible for yourself." ”

The eldest sister didn't make a sound, she still lowered her head, and Shen Linglong didn't know if she listened or not.

However, Shen Linglong can only teach this, life is varied, on the way to grow up, you will meet all kinds of people, and bump into all kinds of good and bad things, these are not very preventable, the only thing you can do is to make your heart strong.

Shen Linglong believes that the most important thing in raising children is to teach children to make their hearts strong.

Shen Linglong said again: "Eldest sister, are you sad that your best friend is gone, or are you sad that you have been deceived?" ”

The eldest sister raised her head, opened her mouth and said, "I don't understand, why did she do this." ”

Saying that, her mood was a little lower: "I know that there are bad things about beating the house, but why did she deceive me?" She had clearly said I was her best friend. ”

Shen Linglong smiled, no matter how much the little girl leads by example, she loves her younger brothers and sisters, and she is just a child after all.

"Because of discontentment, and jealousy." Shen Linglong doesn't think these two things are so bad, everyone has them, it's just that some people choose to go astray because of these, and some people use this as motivation to work hard, "It's like Dafu eats a bowl of rice and sees that there are more delicious things, he will want to eat; It's like when I give Xiaofu Xiaomei a single drink of malt milk essence, you all want to drink it. ”

Eldest sister, she is not ignorant, listening to Shen Linglong's analogy, she began to stand in the perspective of Chu Huyang's brothers and sisters, and after adding envy and jealousy, she felt that what they did was not incomprehensible.

It's just that the eldest sister's expression is still not very good-looking, and she muttered in a low voice: "But I won't want to do that, I won't deceive my friends, I won't take advantage of my friends' ......"

Shen Linglong raised her hand and touched the eldest sister's head, her soft black hair was very comfortable, and she smiled: "So the Tao is not the same." ”

In the past few months, the eldest sister has read a lot of books from the principal, and she knows what it means to be different, but only now do she really understand what it means.

The eldest sister was silent for a long time before she said, "Mother, I know." ”

"Know what?" Shen Linglong is actually quite curious, she is actually not so confident in her education methods, after all, she raised a child for the first time as a big girl in a sedan chair, and all theories are not comparable to the actual situation.

Sometimes Shen Linglong thinks, is it really right to treat children as independent personalities? After all, children's self-control is the worst, and their ideas are the easiest to change.

But if they were forced to force them with sticks, according to their own ideas, Shen Linglong felt that this was very wrong, because she also grew up as a child, and understood how hated it was for children to be suppressed by relatives with sticks.

Just when Shen Linglong was thinking about these things, the eldest sister replied: "Chu Yaya pretended to be pitiful, made friends with me, made me sympathize with her, and wanted to live a better life, she is not wrong, but I don't like this, and I won't do such a thing, so even if I'm sad, I won't be nice to her in the future." ”

Shen Linglong was stunned.

She didn't tell her eldest sister about the rights and wrongs of Chu Yaya's behavior just now, but she didn't expect the eldest sister to say such a thing.

Shen Linglong looked at the eldest sister curiously and asked, "You said Chu Yaya is right?" ”

The eldest sister nodded, but looking at Shen Linglong's surprised expression, she was a little hesitant and timid, she suspected that what she said was wrong, so she made her mother unhappy.

Shen Linglong knew that this girl wanted to be crooked as soon as she looked at her, and hurriedly said, "I'm not saying that she's wrong, no, no, no, I mean, why do you think so." ”

Because she was worried that the child would misunderstand her meaning, Shen Linglong was a little anxious, and when she was in a hurry, the speed of her speech became faster, and it was easy to turn things upside down.

Fortunately, the eldest sister roughly understood, she pursed her lips, and said a little embarrassed: "Didn't my mother say it?" I was deceived because I didn't have long eyes, and Chu Yaya did this, because she wanted to do this, this was her own choice, and her choice was not wrong in her own opinion, just like Xiaofu Xiaomei They drink malt milk essence, me and Dafu Erfu They will not chase after them to drink, even if they want to drink again, they will not embarrass their mother and make the family unhappy. ”

Shen Linglong was stunned, and she looked at the eldest sister with a complicated expression.

To be honest, she really didn't expect her eldest sister to have such philosopher's thoughts.

I can understand the right and wrong issues of personal choice for individuals and the world.

Is it true that there is goodness in his bones?

Shen Linglong pursed her lips, to be honest, she didn't like anyone to calculate on her head very much, even if she knew that for the other party, the other party would not feel wrong, but in Shen Linglong's heart, she had already drawn a clear line of three views.

It is even more impossible to say that you don't dislike Chu Yaya's brothers and sisters. It's just that the three-view line drawn in her heart made Shen Linglong not take revenge on the two children.

Unexpectedly, the eldest sister, who was deceived, would understand and end this matter, and from the eldest sister's expression, Shen Linglong only saw relief, as if she had really let go of Chu Yaya's brother and sister's deception of her.

Shen Linglong paused for a moment, and finally did not forcibly press her three-view line in the eldest sister's mind, she sighed and said: "It's good that you figure it out, I only let you remember one thing, your heart must be strong, no matter what happens, you must be strong, don't cry your nose casually~"

The eldest sister raised her head, smiled at Shen Linglong, and then nodded heavily: "Hmm! ”

After speaking, Shen Linglong touched the eldest sister's head again and asked her to go out to play by herself.

Waiting for the child to leave, Shen Linglong sighed heavily, and was just about to get up and put his clothes into the baggage, but in a blink of an eye, he saw Erfu looking at it by the window.

The corners of Shen Linglong's mouth twitched: "What are you doing here?" ”

Erfu, who was lying on the window, grinned, looked shy, and said, "Mother, the person next door is here~"

Next door?

Pan Zhengli?!