Cheng Ling smiled and said to Duoduo: "I only have a short contact with him, and I can't understand anything, some details need to be observed and savored daily." ”

Cheng Ling took a sip of water and continued: "The simplest and most intuitive way is for you to go to his house and see if his clothes are littered everywhere; Whether there are books at home and what type of books; posing for a group photo of the family; Are there posters of celebrities on the bedroom walls; Whether the bathroom is clean and tidy. As long as you go to his house and keep an eye on him, you will get to know him better. ”

Yu Duoduo nodded, "Makes sense!" ”

"You also have to pay attention to his attitude towards his mother. For a man, mom is the most important woman in his life. Therefore, looking at a man's attitude towards his mother, you can judge whether this man can be entrusted for life. ”

Yu Duoduo thoughtfully: "I understand! His attitude towards my mother is the same way he will treat me in the future. If he doesn't know that he feels sorry for his mother now, then he will definitely not feel sorry for me in the future. ”

Cheng Ling smiled: "What I'm talking about here is respect for my mother, and the kind of mom boy who obeys my mother's words, but they are two different things."

Yu Duoduo then nodded, "I know." ”

Cheng Ling continued: "You also have to look at his attitude towards children. If he can treat the child patiently when he is willful or vexatious, and can use some effective methods to make the child listen to him, it means that he is a loving and responsible man; If he shows a particularly bored attitude towards the child, he even reprimands the child. Then you have to carefully consider whether he is mature enough to take on the role of a qualified father in the future. ”

Yu Duoduo took a deep breath, exhaled slowly, and sighed: "These are really important. ”

Cheng Ling smiled, "These details, even if I don't say it, you can understand it, but you don't have to think about it." ”

Yu Duoduo said: "Sister, you are too modest, I really listen to your words now, and it is better to read for ten years." ”

"Alright, don't be poor. Think about what I just said, and then talk to Qiu Shuang. ”

Yu Duoduo nodded: "Well, first of all, go to his house and see the situation at home; The second is to observe his attitude towards mom and little ones. ”

Cheng Ling smiled: "You summarize it like this, I feel that what I said is far from enough." ”

Yu Duoduo blinked: "Did I miss something?" ”

Cheng Ling replied: "It's that I didn't say it comprehensively enough. As the saying goes, look at their friends and know their people. Around a good man, there will always be a few good brothers who are like-minded. If he is surrounded by some friends who drink and meat, then you don't have to expect too much from him. ”

Yu Duoduo said peacefully: "Well, things gather by like, and people are divided by groups." ”

"You don't need to like all of his friends, but you don't like most of his friends, then you definitely won't be suitable together."

Yu Duoduo nodded, she very much agreed with Cheng Ling's point of view.

Cheng Ling continued: "Sometimes, it is normal for a man to make some friends of the opposite sex, but everything can't be too much, if he has too many female friends around him, you have to be careful." ”

Yu Duoduo smiled, "Just like Liu Yifan and Du Sen." ”

"Well, their conditions are very good, if you are the person he loves the most, you will be very happy, if you are one of his many female friends, then you will never think that he will marry you."

Yu Duoduo said faintly: "Even if it is the woman he loves the most, I will be angry to death if I watch my man surrounded by other women all day long." ”

The two were chatting, and Wu Ting walked back with the kettle.

Yu Duoduo said to Wu Ting: "Xiao Tingting, you missed an important training. ”

Wu Ting smiled: "What did Sister Cheng teach you again?" ”

"Details!" After Yu Duoduo finished speaking, he picked up his water cup, "Sister Cheng, thank you!" We'll talk again when we have time. ”

"Okay, I must know everything, I must say everything."

Yu Duoduo waved his hand at Wu Ting and walked out of the administrative department.

She returned to the finance department, picked up the pen, and wrote down the items that Cheng Ling just said on A4 paper.

Yu Duoduo stared at these lines, thinking about how to tell Qiu Shuang in his mind.

She glanced at her watch, and there were still twenty minutes before her lunch break.

She sent a WeChat message to Qiu Shuang, "What do you want to eat at noon, I'll please!" ”

Qiu Shuang quickly replied: "Rich people are domineering when they speak. I haven't eaten KFC in a long time. ”

Yu Duoduo smiled indifferently and replied to Qiu Shuang, "Received!" ”

At 11:30, Yu Duoduo picked up his backpack and walked out of the finance department.

She first went to KFC to buy a family bucket, and then took a taxi to Qiu Shuang's pet clinic.

Although Jia Li didn't like Yu Duoduo, Yu Duoduo had already entered the door with something, and Jia Li could only greet him warmly.

Qiu Shuang took the family bucket brought by too much duoduo, "I'm hungry, let's start eating." ”

Yu Duoduo hurriedly said: "You will be hungry first, I have something to say." ”

Qiu Shuang was surprised: "What's wrong?" ”

Yu Duoduo said with a smile: "Our biology teacher said that when a person is hungry, the brain has sufficient blood supply, and the memory is the best. ”

Qiu Shuang was even more puzzled, "What are you going to do?" ”

"A lesson for you." Yu Duoduo said and took out the A4 paper he had written.

Qiu Shuang looked at the details of one item after another written by Yu Duoduo.

She asked Duoduo, "I still want to go to his house?" ”

"When it is certain that it is safe, it is necessary to visit the house."

Jia Li heard this on the side, and hurriedly asked, "Where are you going?" ”

Yu Duoduo explained embarrassedly: "We don't go anywhere, this is what the administrative manager of our company told me today, the details that need to be paid attention to when getting a boyfriend." ”

Jia Li looked at the precautions in her daughter's hand and said, "Oh, the administrative manager of your company is really good, and he is quite thoughtful." ”

Yu Duoduo smiled, "They are engaged in administration, and they all know some psychology." ”

Qiu Shuang took out a hamburger from the family bucket and said while eating: "What she said is quite reasonable, but it's all theory, how can I connect with reality?" ”

Yu Duoduo was helpless: "You just need to pay attention to the other party's words and deeds." ”

"Oh." Qiu Shuang responded and continued to eat chicken wings.

Jia Li said: "In addition to these, you should also pay attention to his attitude of spending money. ”

Yu Duoduo blinked, "The values should be the same, right?" Only when values are the same will there be fewer contradictions in the future. ”

Jia Li breathed a long sigh of relief: "Yes! In fact, the most important thing is not how much money he makes, but how he spends it. There are many men who like to rush to pay for meals, which is not necessarily how generous he is, maybe just to satisfy his vanity. ”

Yu Duoduo smiled: "This kind of person who likes to slap a swollen face and become fat can't be married." ”