One hundred and sixty-ninth Ren Ruonan's ex-husband
Regarding Ren Ruonan's worries, Shen Linglong couldn't help but think of the problem of Gu Silan before Chen Chi was going to the city, and the man clearly said that it was enough to take care of and protect himself.
For some reason, now I think about it in my heart. She couldn't help but smile a little bit in her eyebrows and said, "Don't worry, if Chen Chi needs me to pave the way for him, I'm afraid he won't be happy." ”
Ren Ruonan: "...... Sister Linglong, I heard that the Gu family entrusted his girl to your family to take care of. ”
Shen Linglong didn't think so, she glanced at Shen Linglong and said, "No, I don't know any Gu family, they have come to tell me in person, their family doesn't care about themselves, why should I rush over to help them educate their children?" ”
What she said was straightforward, and Ren Ruonan listened to it extremely refreshingly.
Ren Ruonan looked at Shen Linglong enviously and sighed: "If I had Sister Linglong and you were so calm, I'm afraid I wouldn't have come to this place now." ”
Shen Linglong is keen, so she naturally heard what she said, and judging from the previous birth and divorce, it is estimated that it is an emotional dispute and chaotic officialdom.
She didn't say anything more about this matter, but said in another way: "Retreat is advance, no matter what you did before, as long as you are firm in what you want, walk on this road in the future, work hard and strive for it, it is enough." ”
Ren Ruonan's heartbeat was a little faster: "...... Step up your game!? ”
Shen Linglong smiled but did not speak.
But this Ren Ruonan had the idea of confiding, she forcibly took Shen Linglong and hurried back to her small courtyard, at this time dusk was coming, the sun was dim, sprinkled on the lush tall trees on the side of the path, mottled by the dense green leaves.
The evening breeze was blowing on his face, and a sullen breath was used for running, and his heart suddenly became brighter.
When they arrived at the small courtyard, both of them were out of breath, and Shen Linglong couldn't help but say: "Why do you run so fast, I think I should exercise with Dafu and them every morning, and I ......will be out of breath when I run two steps casually."
Before he finished speaking, Ren Ruonan dragged Shen Linglong to the hall. This girl also poured a glass of cold boiled water for Shen Linglong very politely, she was also out of breath, but she ignored it, and after pouring water for Shen Linglong, she opened her mouth and said, "Sister Linglong, I have something to tell you." ”
Shen Linglong smiled: "Coincidentally, I also have something I want to ask you." ”
Ren Ruonan paused, then shook his head again and said, "I'll tell you first." ”
Shen Linglong nodded undeniably and made a gesture of invitation with her hand.
"I told you just now, I'm divorced, and I still have children." Ren Ruonan quickly said the pre-question, "A boy, nine years old. ”
Shen Linglong's action of drinking water froze: "Nine years old?!" ”
Launched like this, Ren Ruonan gave birth to a child at the age of seventeen?
Ren Ruonan also knew that her meaning had been misunderstood, so she hurriedly waved her hand and said, "Imaginary age, really seven years old." None of this is a problem, the question is that isn't my dad here? Then I have a younger brother, in his early twenties, who joined the army in the army, which is not much outstanding, and my grandparents and uncles were also moved to other places because of family problems, and my father also came here because of my mother's problems, and the person I originally married was forgotten about my family, I divorced him, but he didn't give me the child, saying that I was not qualified to have children......"
Speaking of the back, Shen Linglong began to choke.
Shen Linglong also had a general understanding of the situation, and she held her chin and asked, "What about the child?" Would your child want to come with you to such a remote place? ”
Ren Ruonan was stunned for a moment, and then said again: "I am the child's mother, he is very clingy to me......"
Shen Linglong glanced at Ren Ruonan with a smile and said, "Since you were born, he has been an independent personality, you can influence him everywhere in your life, but you can't say that he belongs to you." ”
"Don't tell me that she was born to you, the child is an adult's selfish desires, and he came to this world with a moment of indulgence, did you ask his opinion when you let him come? So before he has independent financial ability, you have to support him, remind him when he goes the wrong way, educate him, but it doesn't mean that you are bound to him. ”
Ren Ruonan was stunned when he heard this, and said with an extremely unfair face: "But if you stay with his father, he will be taken badly!" It's going to be a bad billet! ”
"Are you saying that those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black?" Shen Linglong smiled, "In my opinion, children don't hit the south wall and don't look back, and children are born with a sharp mind, they can clearly understand who is really good for them, so as to make a choice." ”
Ren Ruonan's brows were very tight, she held her head, and said weakly: "I come to this remote place, I can also give him the best life!" Why wouldn't he want to follow me? I've always taken him with me before! ”
"It's his own choice, even a child has to bear the consequences of his choice, maybe he has his own ideas and goals." Immediately, Shen Linglong gave Ren Ruonan a cruel fact, "Or, his genetic factors make him instinctively pursue wealth, luxury, power, etc., Pingcheng has the best conditions for him, the people he knows, and the circles he understands are different, which is a good thing in some ways, and it is also a good thing for you." ”
Ren Ruonan shook her head again and again, and she looked at Shen Linglong in disappointment: "Sister Linglong, why do you think so?" That's my child! I miss him, I love him, I can't bear him, and I don't want to see him become like his father, inferior to a beast. ”
Shen Linglong shook her head helplessly.
Ren Ruonan's thoughts are imprisoned in herself, in her opinion, her three views are the most positive, they are the template, and she is full of resentment towards her ex-husband and her ex-husband's family, so all the things of her ex-husband are bad.
It's like a rotten seed that doesn't grow anything good.
This kind of thinking cannot be changed by words.
Shen Linglong thought for a while, she turned around and asked, "Okay, then let me ask you, do you particularly want to bring your child over and bring it to you now, but your ex-husband won't give it, and your child doesn't want to follow you." ”
Ren Ruonan was silent, but did not refute Shen Linglong's words.
This result was also expected by Shen Linglong. After all, it was Shen Linglong who made a special trip to deal with it from Ren Ruonan's point of view.
Shen Linglong continued: "In this case, the advice I can give you is to go to Pingcheng, which is richer and more powerful than your ex-husband, so that your ex-husband will have to return the child to you, and if your child is unwilling to follow you because of his father's better environment, then your environment is also better, and he will naturally choose you." ”
Ren Ruonan understood the meaning, she looked for another way and walked on the road of selling things to the country in the black streets, didn't she just want to succeed?
But thinking like this, she may not be able to do it, she pursed her lips and said, "But I can't do it......"
Her voice was unusually low, pitiful and helpless, distressed with the collapse of having to recognize reality.
Shen Linglong said: "No, you can if you want to, if you can't do it in a year, it's ten years, can't you afford to wait?" ”
Ren Ruonan was dumbfounded: "Ten, ten years?!" Sister Linglong, what are you kidding, ten years later, my son will be seventeen! I'm nineteen years old! ”
By that time, whether it is character or personality, hasn't it already been cultivated?!
Shen Linglong stretched out her hands and shrugged her shoulders and said: "If you want to be faster and earlier, you have to work harder, I have always said that human character is born hidden in genetic factors, and there are actually very few things you can change, just add constraints to the child and give him advice, that's all." You miss your son, you want him to be with you, it has nothing to do with how old he is, I advise you not to impose your thoughts on children, especially hatred, which will only make you strangers to children. ”
Ren Ruonan was silent.
Shen Linglong didn't care if she wanted to make sense or not, she only said what she needed to say and what she should mention.
That's what you should do as a friend.
Ren Ruonan sighed heavily, and she smiled bitterly: "Hate? But shouldn't I hate him? That kind of hypocritical villain! ”
Shen Linglong: "The gains outweigh the losses, your resentment and anger only make you unhappy, and the people you hate have no effect." I feel that if you really hate someone, you either turn a blind eye to him and treat him as if he never appeared in your life, or ......"
Shen Linglong paused for a moment, hooked her lips and showed a cold smile: "Let him live as well as die, lose his favorite things, and let him only be able to make a living under your hands for the rest of his life, and be in your shadow all the time, this is the most disgusting revenge." ”
"How, how?" Ren Ruonan has no interest in the first one, she can't let herself turn a blind eye to the enemy, hearing the latter kind, when she thinks that she pressed her ex-husband under her hands and embarrassed him, Ren Ruonan was extremely excited, "I want to do that!" ”
Shen Linglong hooked her fingers at Ren Ruonan, lowered her voice and smiled: "You listen to me, take it one step at a time, let's do business well, we will always go to Pingcheng, go to our entire Huaxia, choke the economic lifeline, and then dig a hole for the other party, and then give the loophole to his enemies, clean up himself, and let your ex-husband be punished." ”
Hearing this, Ren Ruonan did not become happy.
She smiled bitterly: "If it was before, 66 years ago, I thought Sister Linglong would be good from one to the other, but now, when we do business, we can only speculate and sneak around with the rats in the culvert." ”
Shen Linglong knew when this situation would pass. Naturally, she wasn't worried about what Ren Ruonan said, but she couldn't say it on the surface, so she only said euphemistically: "Didn't your father say it?" Now this situation is not going to last long. ”
Ren Ruonan shook his head and said, "It will take several years to grind." ”
Shen Linglong patted Ren Ruonan on the shoulder, and said earnestly: "Sharpening knives and cutting wood, don't worry, what we are secretly sneaking around now is all accumulating, and when we can be above board, we will be one step faster, or even several steps faster, than others, so we must endure loneliness." ”
"Besides, sneaking around, can't you deal with your ex-husband? He can also make friends with his enemies and give assistance, and the enemies of his enemies are also friends. ”
Communication is the best way to vent her emotions, Ren Ruonan was relieved, and she couldn't help laughing.
Shen Linglong was puzzled and asked, "What are you laughing at?" ”
Ren Ruonan said: "Sister Linglong, I actually just vented, although I want my ex-husband to feel bad, but I also know that now the object of his clinging is in full swing, where can I deal with it." If I really talk about opponents, I'm afraid only Lou Zhong and Zhen are capable, but how can they help me deal with my ex-husband? It's not worth it for me to go and ruin the relationship with the object of my ex-husband's crushing. ”
Shen Linglong smiled and didn't speak, she was born with a kind of self-confidence, as long as it is what she wants to do, no matter how many years of hard work it takes, she will definitely do it.
At such an opportunity, before the reform began, she would definitely be able to seize the opportunity and soar to the sky in one fell swoop.
As for Ren Ruonan's conjecture, Shen Linglong felt that when she had that opportunity, she would definitely make her own choice.
No matter how much he says now, this person will not believe much.
"But Sister Linglong, I'm very motivated by what you said!" Ren Ruonan's atmosphere changed, but he put aside the depression and said with great interest, "I have to help you well, and then learn how you teach your children, even if it really takes ten years, I want to give it a try, maybe my son will thrive in the dye vat to me?!" ”
Shen Linglong: "...... If only you could figure it out. ”
As for what kind of her son is, Shen Linglong did not make any remarks.
Ren Ruonan was a lot more relaxed, and she was also in the mood to laugh with Shen Linglong, she turned her head to look at Shen Linglong and asked, "Didn't Sister Linglong have something to ask me just now?" I've said what I want to say, you ask! Knowing everything is endless! ”
Shen Linglong nodded and mentioned what she wanted to know: "Do you know Zhen Zhen?" ”