Ten minutes later, because Bai Yiyang had to go back to make the chicken wing rice ordered by Lin Yu, he left his mother and Lin Yu to continue to visit the small garden, and he himself took the lunch box and chopsticks used at noon home with the lunch box and chopsticks that he had taken when he came out.

Tomorrow the little grapefruit is going back, and there is still a little bit to be done, but fortunately I didn't want to make it too complicated this time, otherwise I really couldn't finish it.

Lin Yu accompanied Yu Bihua to continue to circle in the small garden.

Just after half past four, the sun was no longer so hot, and the gentle wind blew through and slowly brought up some hair.

Lin Yu felt that if she ignored her oily hair that couldn't be saved by the dry hair spray, it might be a beautiful picture.

Yu Bihua talked with her for a while, and the depression in her heart had been replaced by happiness, and her tone was relaxed.

"Yuzu, do you have a favorite hobby?"

"Eh, is it okay to watch dramas on a spread?"

"Hmm...... That's a preference, right? But I really want to watch dramas, but unfortunately I'm busy every day. It's hard to come out of this trip, but I'm fully prepared, at least I can stay for nearly a week before I go back~"

"That's it.,I'm not so fast in the code word.,Hand speed monster only needs to write three hours to get my two-day update.,Life...... I can't help it, my head is not good, so I can only write slowly. My favorite every day is to brush up on the drama after the code is finished. ”

But what I am looking forward to the most is to rush to Brother Yiyang's house to eat as soon as the meal arrives!

Alas, I don't know if I can continue to eat after being discharged from the hospital......

Yu Bihua didn't know what she was thinking, and patted the back of her hand to comfort her.

"Take your time, success doesn't happen overnight. But there will always be a part of the world that belongs to the pride of heaven and is born smart. But there are also those who can make up for their clumsiness, and there is motivation only when there is comparison. If the contrast makes you less motivated, it's time to get rid of it. ”

"Abandoned? But without comparison, how can I be motivated to work hard? ”

"The starting point for comparison is good, but you have to find the right person to contrast. Sometimes, contrasts need to be found at a similar level. For example, an ordinary child living in a family that cannot reach the level of moderate prosperity has to be compared with a pampered child who lives in an upper-class rich family. What do you think of that? ”

Lin Yu wrote it, and it was naturally difficult for her to make a hypothetical comparison, so she thought about it carefully and then answered.

"There should be three possibilities. The first is that the ordinary child will have a distorted heart because of jealousy, and after a long time, there will be an unequal psychology, which will be more dangerous; The second is that he will feel sorry for himself because of his inferiority, and produce a cowardly and weak psychology, which is more likely to be bullied; The third is that he will work hard because of his unyieldingness, produce a stubborn and unwilling to admit defeat, and stimulate his potential, which should assist him to become a master. ”

Yu Bihua smiled faintly: "Well, the analysis is good, but most of the cases are ...... It should be the first two in the majority. The third can do very little. ”

"I know, Aunt Yu, don't worry, I won't compare with those darlings favored by God."

Lin Yu nodded, in fact, she also understood this truth, but she just said it casually.

It's just that I didn't expect Aunt Yu to worry that she would deviate from her heart psychologically, so she specially instructed her. So she didn't explain too much and listened carefully.

"Actually, there is another one, which is derived from the third one. When he is unrelenting, his potential is limited, and he stagnates at a certain point. Failing to achieve his intended goal, or even a far cry, could be a direct failure, and he could just as well switch to either of the previous two. Yuzu, are you right? ”