"A woman's heart is always soft and kind, and she always thinks of taking care of her children with her family, how can she be willing to leave? Day after day, day after day, day and night of toil, and frequent punches and kicks, she died with remorse and regret at the age of twenty-five.

Zhang also fell into the ravine after a drunkenness, fell to his death, and no one went to collect his body, let him be eaten by snakes, insects, rats and ants, and let him grow maggots and let his violent corpse not redeem the evil he had done. ”

Hua Pei Qingyu was sad, and her sad eyes seemed to be looking at each of the villagers, seeing through their ignorant nature.

"The saddest thing is not that you don't read and can't read, but that you show off your selfishness and incompetence everywhere on the grounds that you can't read and write, and don't learn the strengths of others.

Parents are the enlightenment of their children, your every move, your virtue, your complaints, your unfilial piety, are the fruits of your planting, and your children only give you back what they have learned from you. ”

Quietly, all with their heads bowed.

"Lift your head up for me, do you think you're doing the right thing? Think about your usual words and deeds, but men are more gossip than women, do you want face? ”

"My mother was a young girl from a scholarly family, and she had older brothers and sisters, but my grandfather took great care of women and demanded that they read and write like men.

My grandfather said to all his children: "Urging you to study is not for you to test your fame, but for you to understand things and have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong."

My grandfather believed that women were naturally weak, so the boys in the family should care for them and not let them suffer as if they were treasures.

My mother asked my grandfather, "Can I not study?" Anyway, I want to marry when I grow up, I am a member of someone else's family, with our family's background, I must be a wealthy family, even if there is no glory and wealth, but there will be no shortage of food and clothing.

My grandfather summoned several daughters for questioning and asked them: Although your relatives are the orders of your parents and the words of the matchmaker, what should you do if you meet someone you like and want to be harmonious with him, but he thinks you are rude?

If the order of your parents, the words of the matchmaker have found you a high-ranking family, but the high-ranking family has a large population, and there are countless brothers and sisters under the in-laws, there will be friction when there are more people, and when you need to be reasonable, you can't say anything because you have never read and read and don't understand the reason, you are wronged, you are looked down upon, and your husband doesn't like to stand up for you, what should you do at that time?

Can you protect your children from growing up in a wealthy family? Are you going to give all your support to your husband and let him control and arrange the rest of your life?

Women, to convince people with virtue and intelligence, in order to manage the feed well. Even if there are countless concubines, so what? The concubine is already a stinger, she has nothing else but beauty, she has nothing to do but compete for favor. What about the wife!

The wife will not be jealous with the concubine, in order to compete for the husband's little bit of favor, let alone fight with the concubine, and stage a plot of mistreating the concubine and the concubine resisting, the wife has more important things to do.

That is to assist the husband and the wife of the communication officer, discipline the daughter-in-law to cultivate the children, and manage the backhouse clean and refreshing, so that the grape trellis in the backyard will not fall down. ”