Chapter 720: It's better to be in pain for a while than to be in pain for a lifetime
Some women are still smarter.
Since the men she met were not good things, she simply didn't marry.
Anyway, no one stipulates that a woman is born and must be married.
No one has written that rule into the constitution, saying that it is illegal for a woman not to marry and have several children in her life.
As a free-thinking, self-independent personality, she has the right to decide her own way of life.
She is not a thoughtless livestock.
It's not that she has to get married at a certain time.
As long as she wants, she can do whatever she wants, and she can do whatever she doesn't want.
Especially in her own field, such as her own home, she can completely rely on her freedom to eat when she wants, and drink water when she wants.
Some women's married life is really miserable.
Chen Yuanyuan also heard in her last life that a female colleague who was doing chores in the crew, after she got married, as long as she lived under the same roof with her parents-in-law, her parents-in-law would pick on her various habits.
It is also commonly known as finding faults.
When she eats, she likes to eat slowly.
After all, chewing slowly is good for people's mouth, esophagus, and stomach.
However, as soon as her mother-in-law saw her eating like that, she would unceremoniously accuse her of being cowardly.
What are you pretending to be Miss Everybody.
also said that she was shameless and liked to hold it.
If she opened her mouth to say a few words, her mother-in-law seemed to be greatly stimulated and began to lose her temper.
The bowl in his hand slammed into the dining table, and then his hands slammed it on the dining table.
Then, the veins on her forehead burst out.
Scolding, hysteria.
"What are you?! How can a junior like you talk to an elder like this? ”
"It's really unfortunate that our family has such a good thing as you! ……”
Some people's mouths, that's bad and poisonous.
If you curse others to die, you don't need to use your brain, you just blurt it out.
That female colleague's mother-in-law is such a stinky virtue, and when she finds that man, she is naturally such a virtue.
Her man saw his mother scolding his daughter-in-law, and he never persuaded him.
They never tell what is right and wrong.
He followed his instincts and stood directly on his mother's side.
scolded his daughter-in-law.
"You bitch! Apologize to my mom! Did you do this, daughter-in-law? Dare to collide with the elders? ”
"As far as you're the case, you're worse than a brute!"
"Why don't you die? You're going to die! You dead beast!! ”
The man pulled his throat and was hysterical, helping his mother scold his daughter-in-law, and he still felt angry.
Sometimes, he would directly hit people.
In Chen Yuanyuan's last life, I saw that the 30-year-old young woman had aged a lot since she got married in a hurry.
It's like I'm more than 10 years old.
After the woman got married, the whole person's life, in her own self-deprecating words, was really, "worse than livestock......
When she was at home, she was found fault with her parents-in-law every day, beaten and scolded by her own men, and was angry with them.
After leaving home, she had to spend an extra experience at work. Work harder, work harder.
Because she got married at that time, the man didn't care about anything, and her parents-in-law treated her as an outsider, guarding her every day, and were reluctant to give her a penny to spend.
So, she had to fend for herself.
Work by yourself, earn your own money, and then, save a lot of money, get pregnant, have a child, and pay for hospitalization during confinement. Money for the maintenance of the body.
Because the man she was looking for had already said it over and over again in front of her.
"I told you a long time ago, after I got married, I resolutely did not spend a penny of my parents' money. I will return it as it is. So, you married me, and the money for having a child, you'd better prepare it yourself. Otherwise, you can borrow it from your mother's family! ”
"Because my abilities are limited, and I can't make any money. It's more than 2,000 a month, and I can only manage myself. It's already a good thing that I don't ask you for money to spend. So, don't count on me, and don't count on my parents! ”
The man often expressed his attitude, and then, after the female colleague worked hard and saved up 50,000 yuan, and then spent the money on giving birth to her own child, the husband she was looking for cheekily found her workplace.
In front of so many people, her husband was very cheeky and stretched out his hand to her to beg, "We all agreed before we got married, and my salary will be in charge of you in the future!" ”
"We've been married for several years, and we have a child, when will you give me your money?"
"You are a person, you just don't have integrity! In normal times, it is also a lavish spending. Earn tens of thousands to spend tens of thousands, earn thousands to spend thousands. Whose daughter-in-law will be like you, a loser? ”
"Give me the salary card!"
"If you don't give it to me today, after you go back this time, see how my mother cleans you up!"
"You always go shopping Taobao Taobao all day long, you have that time, why don't you know to go out to make more money? Other people's daughters-in-law earn tens of thousands of dollars a month, what about you? It's only eight or nine thousand a month! ”
"It's really unproductive!!"
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In fact, in the blind date market, many young women will encounter the kind of older young men who hurry up to get married and are anxious to marry their wives.
In fact, according to Chen Yuanyuan's years of experience, the kind of person who is in a hurry to marry his wife in a hurry is definitely problematic.
And the problem is not small.
Last time, Chen Yuanyuan had a colleague, and she was urged by the man every day, saying that she was in a hurry to meet and settle things in a hurry.
Then hurry up and get married.
After she was forced to marry the other party in a hurry, she suddenly discovered that the other party had a hidden disease.
He had epilepsy.
Moreover, he had been married once before. I have a daughter with my ex-wife. And then that daughter also has hereditary epilepsy.
was deceived into marriage by such a man, if it was Chen Yuanyuan, she would definitely be able to run as fast as she could.
She doesn't care if she is married for the second time from now on, or whether the price has fallen!
It is better to be in pain for a while than to be in pain for a lifetime.
Some men, seriously, are not very good.
I have epilepsy, or I have cauliflower, or I have other hereditary diseases, or I have serious mental illnesses, such as glass hearts, cuckold complexes, distorted hearts, I wonder if others will look down on me every day, and I think every day that my daughter-in-law can't give me any psychological pressure......