Chapter 80: One branch is fortunate, three lives are compatible, seven are ashamed, and nine are like celebrations.
Fu Lanqing didn't know about these twists and turns, he only cared about one question now: "Auntie, what if my mother-in-law doesn't agree?" β
"As the saying goes, it's only three things, and I can guarantee that she will definitely agree to the third time."
Feng Yuan said so, Fu Lanqing could only listen.
Sure enough, the second lottery was still in vain.
The third time, Fu Lanqing was already a little anxious, and frequently urged Feng Yuan with his eyes.
The old lady took in Fu Lanqing's demeanor and movements, and took the initiative to mention: "Since the two are happy, it is not easy for me, a mother, to break up this pair of lovers, and my wife will accept the gift!" β
As soon as these words came out, Fu Lanqing finally breathed a sigh of relief.
Thankfully, my mother-in-law finally accepted it.
In addition to the live geese, there are also food, cloth, wine, snacks and other things, a total of more than 30 kinds.
After the lottery session, it is time to ask for the name.
"Ask the name: The person who asks the name will be blamed for the culprit."
"The Book of Rites: Fang's Note" also says: "Those who ask the name ask the mother's name." β
"Sister Lu, please tell me about Love's birthday."
There are two kinds of names, one is the name of the name, that is, the name of the woman when she was born in the third month. The second is the name of the name, that is, the name of the surname. As for the men's name, it was reported at the time of the interview, so the name was only asked by the woman's name and not by the man. Goose is still used for name gifts. The order of etiquette is "Guest Zhiyan, please ask the name, the host Xu, the guest enters, grants, such as the first ceremony". The purpose of the name is twofold:
The first is to prevent consanguineous marriages with the same surname;
The second is to use the date of birth obtained by asking the name to divinate whether the marriage of the parties is suitable.
The old lady happily gave the eight characters of her birthday, and Feng Yuan also gave Fu Lanqing's eight characters of her birthday, which is also called the exchange of Geng posts.
After getting Lu Jiu's birthday, Feng Yuan smiled: "Just overwhelm us Lan Qing!" β
The old lady smiled too.
After asking for the name, it was Najib.
Najib, that is, after the man retrieves the woman's name and eight characters, he performs divination in the ancestral temple. After receiving the auspicious omen, the woman was notified of the ceremony and decided to enter into a marriage. Zheng Xuan's note: "Returning to the temple, getting an auspicious omen, and resuming the messenger to tell him, the marriage matter is decided." β
That's what we often say, eight characters.
After leaving the Lu family, Feng Yuan said directly: "Go and invite Master Wenyuan." β
Master Wenyuan is a high-ranking monk who uses divination, which is the most suitable.
Soon, an old monk with immortal wind bones was invited.
Master Wenyuan only said four words: "A match made in heaven." β
When Fu Lanqing heard this, he was overjoyed.
"Thank you, Master!"
Master Wen Yuan said another sentence: "Donor, although concealment is not the same as deception, it is better to be honest with each other between husband and wife." β
Fu Lanqing's face changed slightly, his original good mood was completely destroyed, he looked at Master Wenyuan and asked, "What does the master mean?" β
"What the old man's intentions are, the donor knows it very well in his heart."
Master Wenyuan clasped his hands together and said slowly: "Amitabha, good and good!" β
Fu Lanqing gritted his teeth and asked again, "Does the master have a way to resolve it?" β
"Heaven cannot be ......"
Fu Lanqing's aura suddenly changed, like a demon returning from hell, and his whole body was dyed with a bad aura: "What if, I have to know the heavenly machine?" β
Long.
Master Wenyuan spit out six words: "Jiren has his own natural appearance." β
When Fu Lanqing heard this, the evil qi in his body dissipated a lot.
Swap "Geng stickers" (age, birthday) pressed on the bottom of the teacup in front of the statue of the god of the stove to measure the divine will.
If there are no "abnormal" situations such as broken bowls, bad food, noisy family members, and uneasy cats and dogs at home within three days, please ask the fortune teller to "row the eight characters" to see if the Nian Geng is compatible and whether the zodiac is compatible.
Simply, everything is fine.
After Najib, it was Najib.
Na Zheng: Ancient Han marriage customs. It is endemic in many parts of the country. The fourth of the "Six Rites". Also known as "Nacheng". That is, the man's family Najib sends a dowry gift to the woman's family. "The Book of Rites: The Rites of the Evening" Kong Yingda Shu: "Those who recruit will also be hired for money." Levy, success. Marry first, and then get married. "By this ceremonial marriage contract is fully established.
"Najib" and "Nazheng" are often performed together. This is the main procedure of engagement, which is called "Wending", that is, the man gives the bride price to the woman, usually in kind and in lieu of money.
In this ceremony, both sides use red and green to paint gold calligraphy, also called "dragon and phoenix calligraphy". What is written on the post are some auspicious words, but there is a certain program, the man writes "Su Yang Hu Fan, Jiuqin Side, Qianjin Yinuo, Guangsheng Pengbi"; The woman's reply wrote: "One branch is fortunate, three lives are compatible, seven are extremely ashamed, and nine are like celebrations" and other words.
Fu Lanqing's dowry was one hundred and eighty-eight lifts, and the Lu family's treasury was full.
There are so many dowry gifts, which the old lady never expected.
The old lady prepared a dowry of one hundred and twenty for her daughter, but she didn't expect Fu Lanqing to be so generous.
Under normal circumstances, the dowry and the dowry should be almost the same, or the dowry should be higher than the dowry, so that the girl can marry with face and stand on her in-law's family in the future.
Fu Lanqing's move directly caught the old lady off guard.
But the date of the marriage has not yet been set, and the time will be to add some dowry.
After the levy, it is the deadline.
The invitation period, commonly known as sending the sun or mentioning the day, is one of the ancient marriage etiquettes and the fifth of the six rites. That is, the male family chooses the best date for marriage, writes the male and female sheng geng (invitation ceremony) on red paper, and the matchmaker takes it to the woman's house, and discusses the date of marriage with the female owner.
It is now early February, and it was originally planned to be in March, but Lu Jiu's first failed marriage was the marriage in March, and the old lady felt unlucky, so she chose the good day of the eighth day of the fourth month.
At that time, the six salutes were only left to greet the last salute.
There are only about two months left before the wedding, Lu Jiu feels so fast, but Fu Lanqing feels that it is too slow.
He couldn't wait to visit the church and marry in the cave room immediately!
However, he could only think about it.
Lu Jiu and Fu Lanqing are now a legitimate fiancΓ©e, because there is a marriage certificate as evidence, it is unlikely that Lu Jiu wants to rely on it.
"Brother-in-law!"
Fu Lanqing heard someone call him, turned his head to look, but saw the most honest and honest third brother, that is, Lu Jiu's third brother, Lu Sanqiu.
Lu Sanqiu is the most non-existent person in the entire Lu family, he is like an old scalper in the field, he only knows how to work silently, eat the least, harvest the least, but do the most.
Fu Lanqing greeted Lu Sanqiu very politely: "Third brother." β
Lu Sanqiu snorted, and suddenly said to Fu Lanqing: "According to the customs of our Xingfeng Village, after the marriage, the man needs to go to the woman's house to help work, showing that he is diligent, so that he will not let his wife suffer in the future." β
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