On the first day of Bai Ling's entry into Beijing, there were no guests to disturb him.

But on the second day, Princess Han ordered someone to send things to Bai Ling, and the guests of Bai Mansion were endless.

Of course, not all guests are qualified to come to the door at this time, which is also the rule among nobles.

Many people who are not qualified can only let the housekeeper come to the door in person and deliver the gifts to the concierge without disturbing the host, but they also show respect.

As a fan of wealth, Bai Ling naturally does not refuse to come, which is also to lay the foundation for future exchanges of gifts and to ensure that he will not be excluded by this circle in the capital in the future, which is a good thing after all.

It's bitter Bai Xing and catkins, every day with a few girls counting the congratulatory gifts, adding page by page to Bai Ling's dowry list, the tired two little girls can't stop at all, and it's impossible to go out to visit the capital.

"Tonight is a family banquet, don't be restrained just because the old woman is here. Eat and drink as much as you want. If you really can't let go, then wait until the old woman is full, and then you will make trouble. Old Madam Qin looked at the girls at the table, sat up straight one by one, and smiled kindly.

As the eldest elder, Old Madam Qin had no intention of putting on a show, but at this time, she could only speak and break such a tight situation.

Old Madam Yang's grade is not as high as that of Old Madam Qin, and she also smiled when she heard this, and she didn't dare to mention the rules.

In addition, now that Bai Cao is pregnant, and Bai Ling is about to marry into the Han Palace, she is not easy to touch, so she has to do nothing and can't see it.

However, Mrs. Yang's eyes when she looked at Bai Cao were a little more complicated, she really didn't like this granddaughter-in-law, but no matter whether it was the blood in Bai Cao's stomach or Bai Cao's powerful sister, Old Madam Yang couldn't do anything to her.

"The old lady's words have gone to our hearts." Bai Ling said generously: "Don't hide it from the old lady, when we have a few private dinners, we all have no rules, and we don't like to be bound by rules." It's just that there are elders, and everyone takes out the rules they learned in the past, and they are tired and panicked after eating. ”

"I just like your true nature, otherwise I wouldn't have promised Xuerou to the Liu family." Old Madam Qin said with a smile: "They are all from the past, the Qin family did not have such a status before, and I am not the daughter of those high-ranking families, so naturally I can't be restrained." So over the years, as long as I have the opportunity, I will go back to my hometown, and I don't have to deal with this, and then I have to deal with that, I'm tired. ”

"The old lady is an understanding person, and she also lives a chic life, and the younger generation toasts you." Bai Ling beat the snake and walked with the stick, and immediately raised his glass to the old lady Qin.

Old Madam Qin was also not polite, and after drinking a glass of fruit wine, she continued to speak: "Today, we are just a family having a light meal, and we will not talk about or pay attention to those things in the court." Men compete for their future, and we, as women, are responsible for managing the backyard and making ourselves happy.

You sisters are all capable, and you can straighten your back at any time, which is what a woman should look like.

Today, I will rely on the old and sell the old, and I will say a few words to you, which is also a reminder for you, so that you can live more comfortably in your mother-in-law's house in the future. ”

"Old lady, please speak, the younger generation listens." Bai Ling straightened his waist and made a teachable posture.

"It's not necessary to listen to it, if you think it's reasonable, think about it yourself, and if you think it's wrong, you should not have heard it. Although this is an experience that I have lived for most of my life, in the eyes of many people, it is a crooked reason, and it cannot be elegant. When Old Madam Qin talked about some people, she also deliberately glanced at Old Madam Yang.

Old Madam Yang's smile was a little embarrassed, but she didn't see Old Madam Qin's eyes, and if she was originally prepared, she didn't know if it was suitable to say.

"Don't listen to the old man's words and suffer in front of you, the younger generation has always felt that this sentence has a certain truth, but it is not absolute. However, the old lady's words just now, the younger generation agreed very much. Please advise the old lady! Bai Ling arched his hand.

"Talking to someone who understands is to save effort, and you don't have to beat around the bush." Old Madam Qin smiled a little more.

After drinking a glass of wine, Old Madam Qin looked at the juniors on the table and said, "Baicao is already married, you don't need to listen to what I say, otherwise your mother-in-law will not be suspicious of me." A few other girls, you can all listen to it and see if it's right. ”

"Yes." Sisters should be in unison.

Old Madam Yang was a little unable to sit still, and she didn't have much friendship with Old Madam Qin, but she had a certain understanding of her life.

"It is not easy for a woman in this world, from birth, she is regarded by her mother's family as a daughter raised by someone else's family, and after marriage, she is regarded as an outsider. If you are lucky, your mother's family will love you, and you can live a comfortable life for more than ten years.

But after all, the days after getting married are longer, and without a husband who really cares for you to protect you, life in your in-law's house is not easy.

There are also those three obedience and four virtues, all of which are women's bondage, and if they don't do it well, they will make people talk nonsense, and the husband's family also has reasons to divorce his wife......"

Old Madam Qin was drinking wine as she spoke, and she was telling the truth, and she didn't pick out what to say because Bai Ling was about to get married.

It is precisely because of this that the Bai Ling sisters listened more seriously and agreed very much.

"I am not telling you this to scare you, but I want you to understand that in this world, there will always be unsatisfactory things.

Many women may accept their fate, which is the so-called marrying a chicken and following a chicken. But the old woman doesn't want you to be like that, live for a man all your life, and forget who you are, that kind of life is too boring, and sooner or later you will become the kind of woman you are disgusted with, how can a man have you in his heart?

No matter at any time, don't be too accommodating to others, no one is obliged to let you always be inferior, after all, people's hearts are made of meat, and they will have their own bottom line.

Do what you like, keep doing. In order to make yourself less lonely, in order to give yourself a way out, don't give up easily.

I don't want to think about what if one day, the man who said he would protect you for the rest of your life suddenly no longer let you rely on, and you should also think about the children you will have after you get married. Just set an example for them, and don't let them go down the humble path. ”

After Mrs. Qin finished speaking, she turned her head to look at Mrs. Yang, whose face was dark, and said kindly: "You and I are both old people, and some things should be looked at." Of course, young people have impulsive times, and they also do things badly, but without these stumbles, how can they grow?

However, as elders, not to mention secretly helping them in the back, and then stumbling on their way, that is not what elders should do.

Old sister, what do you say is reasonable? ”

"Is it right that the way of the world is like this, and that you have to come against the way of the world?" Mrs. Yang disagreed.

"The way of the world?" Old Madam Qin sneered, "The way of the world is also made by people, and it is imposed on the world by those in power. Old sister, you are also from a famous family, don't you know that this world has undergone thousands of years of changes, and there have been too many changes? To live, we have to look forward, and do we really have to be enshrined in rituals? ”

"Courtesy, righteousness and shame are naturally based on courtesy." Mrs. Yang replied.

"If this is really the case, why did the Yang Mansion become estranged from distant relatives in those years?" Old Madam Qin's tone was very calm, but she didn't intend to stop there, "My position does not conflict with you, and I will say this for the good of the children." Think about whether you were happy when you were a daughter-in-law! ”

Old Madam Yang almost got up and left, but saw Old Madam Qin raise her wine glass, "Old sister, I shouldn't have said these words, but I am also a grandmother, and I want the children to be good, so I will say a few words that cross the distance, and I will apologize to you for this glass of wine." ”