Mother Wu and I were caught off guard.

I never expected that Jintang was standing beside us, and looking at his appearance, his smiling mouth hooked up, it seems that he listened to our words, and has listened to it for 5~10 minutes, it should be roughly heard.

Oh my God, what's the most critical core, entering the cave room and stuff like that, I think he must be able to hear it clearly, my god I've heard these things to him!

My face finally became painful, I am a little embarrassed now, how to face him, I feel that this is a privacy issue between our women, and it is also a very private thing, but he heard it, I really feel a little embarrassed, of course, I also know that he may be unconscious to eavesdrop, he just stood there and overheard, but I am still angry about this.

He didn't seem to hear it, but just asked Wu's mother.

"Is Mother Wu ready to eat dinner today? I didn't eat well at noon today, I still miss eating at home when I eat outside, I'm almost hungry, and I can't wait to eat when I can cook. ”

Wu Ma said happily, as if he didn't feel embarrassed at all about the matter just now, maybe the person who was embarrassed by the profession was me, so at this time I lowered my head, pretended to chop vegetables, and ignored him, because at this time I really didn't know what to say to him, as if I was a little embarrassed to say anything, so it was better not to say it.

Wu Ma said: "Today we made a lot of delicious things, because the little master is coming back, so I prepared a lot of Chinese food, as well as Western food, Chinese food or you like to eat, pepper steak, this steak is tender, I specially queued for you in the farmers' market for a long time to buy, it was today to slaughter you, the calf and sheep are very good, Chinese food we have prepared a spicy hot pot, is Miss Cat She asked for the spicy hot pot, there are a lot of materials in it are also you like, there are quail eggs, there are ham sausages, There are also big fat sausages, pork ribs, and all kinds of fresh vegetables, all of which you like. ”

Na Jintang nodded and said with a smile: "It seems that today's appetite is very good, it seems that my appetite is going to open today, it is rare to make such a delicious food, it seems that I still want to thank my kitten." Okay, you're busy here, I'll go upstairs and take a shower, and then come down and wait for dinner. ”

Before he left, he took my hand again and said, "Let's go, let's go upstairs together, here to help Wu's mother disrupt." ”

My face was flushed, and if I went with him at this time, I don't know what they would say about me, I simply didn't go, and it was simply difficult to choose if I didn't go, because if I followed him at this time, I would definitely be pointed at by what they said, and if I didn't follow them, it felt like it was inappropriate.

I pretended to say, "Mom, I still want to make this hot pot, he and she don't know much about some recipes, and there are some things that I still need to tell her, and then don't you want to eat authentic hot pot soup?" Then I'd better stay here and help Mama Wu, you can go up to take a shower first and then come up to eat. ”

Na Jintang smiled and did not refuse: "Okay, I'll go upstairs to take a shower first, wait for us to eat, and then take a walk in the evening, I haven't walked in the garden with you for a long time, I'm going to make me a pot of honey lemon tea today." ”

I'm about to threaten him with a kitchen knife, he's still rambling here if he doesn't leave, my face is almost red, and I'm still here, it seems like everyone can see the play, it's just too embarrassing.

Na Jintang begged for mercy and walked out quickly, and before he walked out, there were two laughs, it seemed that he was in a very happy mood.

Wu's mother also smiled and nodded my head: "The male should get married, the female should be married, what is there to be ashamed of, the marriage between the two of you has already been made public and acknowledged, and has been publicly blessed by the old man, which is equivalent to finally looking forward to your marriage as soon as possible and giving him a big fat grandson, the old man just doesn't say it, in fact, we all know it in our hearts, he sometimes talks about these words, you don't think about the old man's mood, so what's so shy, is already the daughter-in-law of this family, everyone thinks so. ”

Oh my God, I've never heard Wu's mother say this about me, I really haven't thought that so many people think I'm the daughter-in-law of the family, of course, this is also true, but I didn't expect the people below to think the same way, I never expected my mother to say, the old man wanted us to give her a grandson after we got married so early, these words I sound like I'm very happy, but that kind of shyness is still difficult to stop.

Maybe there may be a kind of fear or anxiety before marriage, this feeling is clearly reflected in me, I first like it very much, and I am also eager to enter the palace of marriage with him, and I am also eager to give him children, and live a life of husband and children in the future, as if this life is quite suitable for me.

But my worry and my anxiety is that I really don't know how to start such a very intimate life, I have always lived alone, and it doesn't mean that I am not with the clerk, for example, I am an independent soul inside.

So when you go to bed at night, suddenly there is a man next to you, I don't know if it's sweet or a, it seems that it's not suitable for now, I think it should be beautiful, otherwise so many women in the world want to marry the man in their minds, and willingly give birth to children for them, and willingly give everything for them. I think it's the power of marriage, or it's a natural law, and once everyone gets married, they naturally get into that state, maybe yes, I haven't been married, I don't know, but I've observed that it should be like this.

In the future, I asked Wu's mother, because Wu's mother said that these topics are quite open, so I want to ask him directly to ask him clearly, although I was very shy just now, but I think there are some things that need to be asked clearly, maybe my mood will be more relaxed.

"Mother Wu, tell me, if I get married, do I still have to go to work, do I have to have children after I get married, and is it painful to have children? Isn't the process of having a child very uncomfortable, is it a lot of pain, I heard them say that some people will die if they can't give birth, they will be in danger of their lives, and there will be a lot of blood, as if this is a terrible thing, right? ”

I asked with great trepidation, or I asked with sincerity and fear, because I really haven't encountered this kind of thing, and no one has ever told me about that kind of thing, so I put Wu Ma to help me a respected elder, I want to get the knowledge I want to know from him, even if it is a little bit of him or her, I am willing to understand.

Wu's mother is chopping the chili pepper now, she is going to make the chili pepper now, and it will be fried in the pot to be red, and it will become colored in the future, plus some bean paste, plus oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and shallots, you can make a very delicious seasoning.

She was smiling at me while making the seasonings and stir-frying.

"Which woman has not experienced the hurdle of having a child, it is indeed very painful and uncomfortable, but it is so painful, then it is over, it is not such a terrible thing as you imagined, and now such a good medical condition, I think the little master will never let you get sick, and he will never let you suffer a lot of pain, I heard that some people in the artichoke restaurant outside can still give birth to a child or take any anesthetic or something, it can be painless, so you don't have to worry too much, the little master will definitely take care of you, Besides, when you give birth, won't my mother also take care of you next to you? Isn't there anything that has helped you too? Don't be afraid, you see my mother has given birth to 5 children in her life, and each child is healthy and healthy. Am I still not very healthy? ”

I thought again, "Oh." ”

Wu's mother joked again: "Miss Cat, I know that you have no parents since you were a child, and I don't want to ask about this, I know that you are very anxious now, and you don't know how to deal with it, but my mother will tell you some things to do, if you believe me, I will tell you everything I know." ”

Hearing this, my eyes lit up, although I am still very shy now, but her words and her answer made me have a greater expectation, so I suppressed my shyness, I know a little, it is worth looking at her, and even a little can't wait to know some knowledge before marriage.

She put an egg scrambled pork on a plate and made the last spicy hot pot soup, she said it to me while doing it, and when she said this, it was a low voice, and I couldn't help but lean my body towards her, because what she said was too quiet, and it felt like a secret, so the two of us couldn't whisper like this, and the second one heard it, so when she said this, I couldn't stop fighting, looking outside to see if anyone came in.

Of course, this time I'm going to be a bad guy, I'm just going to close the kitchen door and see who's still in there to eavesdrop, and if someone in the kitchen can open their hands, I'll naturally stop talking about it, because I really want to know what the hell is going on.

Wu's mother seems to be a little completely let go now, not as restrained as she usually feels to me, because it seems that this problem, she also feels that he should share this experience with me as an elder, or as someone she once hired to share this experience with me, she may think that it should be a very proud thing, so when I discuss this topic, she is also willing to talk to me about this matter.

She said mysteriously in a low voice.

"Actually, it's not difficult to say this thing, it's not easy to say it's simple, entering the cave room must be an inevitable rule for us here, otherwise how could it be so important? Entering the cave is not only the beginning of the first day of your life, but more importantly, you have to enter each other's lives......"

"And what do you do on the night you enter the cave room?" I asked.

"Huh...... When entering the cave room, of course, two people want to sleep together, and then wait for the pain of your defeat, after drinking a glass of wine, the newcomer will go into the cave room, we all do this here, in the future, we will invite some relatives and friends to sit at the table, and in the future, in front of relatives and friends, kowtow to the mothers of both sides, serve tea, and say auspicious words, and then you husband and wife will bow three times and knock nine times, and become a real husband and wife under the common witness of everyone. ”

"And then after you become a real husband and wife, they will send you into the cave room, and if you are sent into the cave room, you will wait for him in the room, and after he has eaten and drunk, and entertained a group of friends, he will come in and do the best thing with you."

I got to the heart of the question: "What to do?" If you want to drink a glass of wine, don't you just throw your clothes and sleep? ”

Wu's mother was provoked by my words and laughed, did she not expect me to speak so boldly, her own face turned red, it turned out that she was embarrassed to say the following words again, so she said that the more she said, she must be like a mosquito in her heart, it seems that my mother is not willing, or she is embarrassed to continue, I see her face is red.

I became more and more anxious: "Mother Wu is fine, what do you say." ”

Wu's mother tidied up her clothes, it seemed that she was also a little nervous, I saw her hands shaking when she was stir-frying, this is not her usual normal play, it seems that her mood is in a fluctuating state, her movements and her limbs tell him her nervousness at this moment.

But the more she did this, the more curious I became, because I thought there must be some secret in it, or maybe she hadn't fully stated it, and the most important thing was when she did.

"Miss Cat, I'm going to tell you, you have to know some things, it seems that you really have no one to teach you these things, when my daughter got married before, I told him, since you have no one to tell, then I will help you as my daughter to tell you what is going to happen, what to prepare and how to do it?"

I laughed: "That's good Mother Wu, you know no one has taught me, I've been an orphan since I was a child, I really want to know what these things are, because I'm scared and worried, I can't do it, at least let me be mentally prepared, no matter what happens, I'm prepared, that's good, if I'm not prepared at all, then nothing will happen at that time, then I'm not prepared at all, it's not a shame." ”

Mother Wu took a deep breath, looking like her respective psychological barriers, as if what she was about to express just now was really a very difficult thing.

Wu's mother is a very conservative person, so what she wants to send next is completely beyond her personal bottom line.