【035】It's so soft

When it comes to other things, Fu Chaochao may not be able to analyze one or two, but when it comes to the experience of getting along between husband and wife, she is half a victim.

Why do you say victims?

As the old saying goes, "a long illness becomes a good doctor", and after the victim has been victimized for a long time, he can also prescribe the right medicine to analyze some diseases.

Fu Chaochao cleared his throat and planned to start the class well.

"Husbands and wives get along with each other in different ways, and some people complement each other's temperaments, such as one person is lazy and the other person is diligent, and when they are combined—"

Bo Jingshen continued: "I'm not very diligent, and I'm not too lazy." ”

Fu Chaochao was happy, "At a glance, you know that you have no experience in sharing a house with others, and the answer is that you either become diligent together, or you become lazy together, or you still don't change anything." ”

"Some couples are busy with work after marriage and can't live together, so they will have less time to get to know each other, and as the days go by, the relationship will fade.

Some couples still go their own way after marriage, which happens a lot to you men, and when you get married, you are like a big boy, you go out to play when you should play, and you also do your own thing in life, and you haven't grown up at all. ”

"Yes, they tried to fit in, but the differences in their habits in life were too obvious, so they chose to give up.

Some people find out that they have different views on each other after they get married, and they have no problem in life, but they can't communicate with each other, and they quarrel all day long. ”

Bo Jingshen once again looked down at Chapter N of the Covenant, "Then do what you said above, can we live in harmony?" ”

Fu Chaochao thought for a moment, nodded and shook his head, "I think I can, but you may not be able to." ”

"I don't have any bad habits in life, it's normal, and I don't pick vegetables to eat, so I usually go to grievances and accommodate others."

In the life of the Fu family, she has little chance to cultivate the habit of hypocrisy.

When I used to live in the countryside with my grandmother, she would prefer to eat white and tender water chestnuts and lotus roots, and would hate slimy spinach.

But after going to Fu's house, I was very hungry to do the test questions at night, and even the hard bread frozen in the refrigerator could be gnawed down with water.

Being a picky eater is a blessing in a way.

Seeing her wandering in a daze, Bo Jingshen couldn't help but reach out and shake it in front of her, pinching her face.

Well, it's so soft.

"You don't have to accommodate me, I think that's fine."

When Fu Chaochao was about to glare at him furiously, Bo Jingshen took his hand back and said slowly.

Fu Chaochao stretched out his hand and rubbed his face, feeling that he was a mascot today, and he loved to pinch her face.

Bo Jingshen is still reading "Chapter N" of the Law, and this time he is reading it very carefully, as if he wants to memorize all the terms in it.

Fu Chaochao lowered his head, twisted his hands together, hesitated a little, and finally spoke:

"In marriage, rights and obligations are equal, and I don't want me to give a lot and not get a response."

Bo nodded nonchalantly, "You're right, I don't like that either." Only others are cheated by me, and there is no share of my loss. ”

Fu Chaochao's words choked, and he felt as if something was wrong.

However, it is impossible to say what is wrong.

She continued to twist her hands and said: "And if everyone wants to live a comfortable life, you will accommodate me, I will accommodate you, and tolerate each other."

Whether it is forming a marriage by oneself or in the family of your parents, you must tolerate each other in order to live comfortably with each other. ”

Fu Chaochao exhaled and said firmly: "So I hope you can do what I ask, and I will try my best to cooperate with you." ”