Dr. Su continued to ask, "Then what kind of thoughts does Miss Gu have for Mr. Qi?" Let me ask in other words, does Miss Gu like Mr. Qi? ”

Yan Ruo's head was bowed.

Dr. Su breathed a sigh of relief.

It seems that all her judgments are correct.

"Since Miss Gu knows that Mr. Qi likes you, and you like him too. From the housekeeper's dictation, I have learned that you have always gotten along well with each other, and there were no abnormalities or disputes before the divorce. Since you have let go of your old love and have already felt that you want to get along with Mr. Qi, why do you want to divorce? ”

Yan Ruo corrected: "It's not me who wants a divorce, but Qi Lin." Before the divorce, I also asked him clearly, and since he had stated that he would not regret this choice, I naturally followed his advice. ”

Hearing this, Dr. Su already understood that this was the lack of timely communication between the couples, which caused conflicts, and the two of them were young and vigorous, which led to such a serious issue as divorce.

After that, Yan Ruo showed a tangled look on her face, and after a while, she still said with a worried face: "Doctor Su just said that Qi Lin has a mental illness, and now he is unconscious, what is the situation?" ”

"Miss Gu, don't worry about it first, I'll tell you something about Qi Lin, and you'll understand."

……

Yan Ruo and Dr. Su had a two-and-a-half-hour conversation.

Finally, she had a good understanding of Qi Lin's situation.

Qi Lin's parents were killed in a car accident when he was five years old, and he was entrusted to his grandfather to raise.

But his grandfather was originally a person who had been on the battlefield, and he had countless dark wounds on his body when he was young.

The old man was not in good health, and when he heard that his son and daughter-in-law both died in a car accident, he must have been hit hard, so the old age and illness broke out, and the energy was insufficient, and the situation naturally deteriorated.

Generally, children with better memory can remember at the age of five or six.

So Qi Lin has a deep memory of the situation during that time, and it can be regarded as the darkest time of his life - because there are always ignorant children who laugh at him at that time for being a wild child without a father or mother, and say that his grandfather will not want him to be a burden sooner or later.

Everyone has a father and mother, but if there is no one, other ignorant children will naturally exclude him.

And his grandfather has been sick for more than a year, and he is seeing that the situation is getting worse and worse.

The old man supported his body, asked someone to find Old Man Mo, and handed Qi Lin to Old Man Mo.

At that time, there was still a month before Qi Lin's sixth birthday.

He died less than two days later.

Qi Lin has been a sensible child since he was a child, he knows that his grandfather is not in good health, so he has never told his grandfather about other people's exclusion and bullying, but those darkness and depression are not that he doesn't exist if he doesn't say it, it will only take root in the depths of his heart and slowly accumulate and grow.

After that, the growth environment changed, and Old Man Mo was very good to him, but Qi Lin knew that he had no blood relationship with the Mo family after all, and he knew that he was just sending people under the fence, which was a drag on the Mo family.

He is silent and sensible, and he never talks about the difficulties and setbacks he encounters in his life, because he does not want to cause trouble to anyone.

In fact, those two years were the most vulnerable time in his heart.

Originally, his parents loved him and loved him very much, but his parents went to another world overnight and never returned to him.

After that, his grandfather also left him forever, and he followed a strange old man who seemed gentle, but actually exuded oppression all the time, and the whole person became sensitive and cautious.

He was afraid that if he was disobedient or not smart enough, he would be abandoned by Old Man Mo.

When the time comes, he will really be homeless and have one.

Although Old Man Mo seriously followed his old friend's last wishes and took care of Qi Lin as his own grandson, he was a straightforward man, so he naturally couldn't see Qi Lin's abnormality, and he didn't know the panic in Qi Lin's heart.

It was also at this time that Qi Lin developed a mental illness - he was extremely insecure, and he was extremely worried that he was not good enough and would be abandoned. And he felt that he was inferior to others, which made him have a strong sense of inferiority.

Although when he was a child, someone discovered his abnormality, but he did not connect his situation with his mental illness, so no one knew that Qi Lin needed psychological counseling.

Qi Lin is also well aware of his abnormality, and he doesn't want to be out of place with others, so he is also desperately trying to hide his difference.

As he gets older, Qi Lin's ability to cover up is getting stronger and stronger, and if Qi Lin hadn't said his truest thoughts in his heart, even if the psychiatrist stood in front of him, he could see that Qi Lin had a heart disease.

"But after all these years, hasn't his situation improved at all?"

After listening to Qi Lin's experience, Yan Ruo only felt a throbbing pain in her heart, and she suddenly regretted a little, how could she be so willful, at that time, she said that she wanted to divorce, so she signed without hesitation.

"There is no one to guide him to get rid of his negative emotions, in fact, it is actually difficult to heal himself. Moreover, mental illness has a lot to do with one's own living environment. Mr. Qi has always felt that he is under the fence, and those panics and inferiority complexes have not subsided, but have become deeper and deeper as he gets older. ”

"But I don't see anything wrong with him......"

Doctor Su said with a serious face: "This is because Mr. Qi's ability to disguise is too strong, and he also hides his true thoughts too well. ”

"But I don't think he has any inferiority complex, I see that he is confident and flying at any time in the face of things in the mall. How could he have low self-esteem? ”

"In fact, everyone has always misconcepted low self-esteem and self-confidence." Dr. Su said.

"What misunderstanding?"

"It's not that confident people don't have low self-esteem. Generally speaking, people's self-confidence comes from their affirmation of their ability in certain aspects. But no one is perfect, and everyone will always have their own areas that they are not good at. In these areas, even people who have been extremely confident in other areas may show low self-esteem. ”

Yan Ruo was stunned.

Dr. Su continued, "Generally, the younger you are, if there is any negative psychological impact, the impact is also very large. If you can't adjust it in time, I'm afraid that such a psychological impact will follow the owner for a lifetime, and even after receiving a certain stimulus, the person's reaction will be great. ”

The look on Yan Ruo's face became serious.

It's just that she still can't understand why Dr. Su came over to tell her about Qi Lin's situation so much.