Chapter 90: Heaven and Man are forever separated from each other
Wen Jinghao's father died of illness, and Wen Jinghao insisted on taking his mother to Beijing and living with him.
The death of his father made him feel deeply guilty as a son, and since he was admitted to university and went to Beijing, he rarely went home, let alone fulfilled his filial piety in front of his father's bed.
Father's last words: "Take care of your mother." With that, he died.
Wen Jinghao handled his father's funeral with sadness and regret, and after the first seventh, he asked his mother to simply pack up her clothes and leave the house with her mother.
At first, my mother was reluctant to leave, saying that your father came back to the house and was deserted, and there was no one.
Wen Jinghao: "After death, the soul wanders around, and I don't want my dad to see you alone at home, he will be relieved to see you living with me." People only enter the house when they are past seven, and I will bring you back on the second and third seventh. ”
Wen's mother has always been unable to control her son, besides, her husband, who used to get along day and night, is gone, and her son is her god, and she will listen to her son's arrangement in everything in the future.
Lin Chuxia was happy about the arrival of her mother-in-law, her husband and son preferred Shaanxi noodles, and she didn't know anything.
Lin Chuxia cleaned up the room for her mother-in-law early, and Wen Zimo followed her to run back and forth, although she lived with her grandfather since she was a child and rarely met her grandmother, she was still very close to her grandmother, and the blood relationship was so wonderful.
The mother-in-law is also satisfied with this daughter-in-law, with a pure nature, a soft personality, not much, extremely quiet, and always holding a book in her free time. The only thing I don't like to do is that I can't cook and don't like to do housework.
However, if you are healthy and healthy now, and you are not sick or sick, you come here to cook and do housework, so that you can stay idle, and you have to stay sick. If you think about it this way, you will be satisfied, and the family will live in harmony and happiness.
What's more, the son and grandson love to eat the noodles she makes, and every day they watch them each have a bowl of noodles, and then a head of garlic, they eat with relish, and the daughter-in-law can't make such a delicious meal, so that the two of them can enjoy it.
It's the daughter-in-law, who doesn't like to eat noodles, but she is also obsessed with pulling noodles.
The days passed like this, when Wen's mother stayed at home alone, she would secretly cry, the pain of losing her husband, in her old age, it was like a broken arm, so that she could not find a balance in a short period of time, and she could not stand alone.
Lin Chuxia came home from work and saw her mother-in-law sitting on the sofa wiping her tears alone.
"Mom, when you're home alone, watch TV and pass the time." Lin Chuxia walked up to her mother-in-law.
"I'm going to cook." The mother-in-law said and stood up.
"Mom, sit down, let's talk." Lin Chuxia pulled her mother-in-law to sit beside her.
Lin Chuxia took out his mobile phone and sent a message to Wen Jinghao to take takeaway.
"Mom, you don't have to cook today, Jing Hao will come back to pack and bring rice later."
Lin Chuxia knew that her mother-in-law was emotionally unstable in the near future, and the pain of losing her loved ones, this kind of trauma to the soul, had a huge impact on a person, and this suffering could not be healed in a short period of time.
"Mom, talk to me, what have you been thinking lately?" Lin Chuxia sat in front of her mother-in-law and held her mother-in-law's hand.
The mother-in-law had tears in her eyes: "In the days before your father left, the most thing he said to me was, promise me, when God takes me away, you will let me go!" At that time, I agreed, and agreed that in a few years, I would go to him, but ......"
The mother-in-law choked up and couldn't speak, and her tears couldn't stop falling.
Lin Chuxia took a tissue and wiped her tears for her mother-in-law, she knew that her mother-in-law's emotions must be vented and let her cry happily, she couldn't be so suppressed.
"However, I can't do it, when he leaves, I don't want to let him go, I even cry and beg him, don't leave me, you can't leave me, you can't go! You have to hold on! But he left me alone! The mother-in-law cried so hard that she couldn't stop crying.
Lin Chuxia put her arms around her mother-in-law's shoulders and waited for her trembling body to slowly calm down.
"Mom, I know that the loss of my father, this heart-rending sadness and incomparable emptiness is a pain that ordinary people can't bear. But the only way to get out of pain is to experience it, and having to feel the presence of pain is not to keep you in pain, but to remind yourself that you have lost at all times, and let yourself slowly accept the loss, and you have to accept it! If you can accept the loss, then you're halfway there. ”
Lin Chuxia picked up the thermos pot, poured a glass of water, and handed it to her mother-in-law.
"You must know that although Dad has left you, your life will go on, your life will go on, and Dad in the spirit of heaven doesn't want to see you live so unhappily every day!" Lin Chuxia looked at her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law's mood stabilized.
"If you tell me today, don't think about it over and over again in the future, this kind of missing will only increase your pain and make you fall into it, and it will be difficult to get out of this emotion."
"Tell you, Mom feels better!" The mother-in-law took a sip of water.
"Mom, you have to come out of this emotion by yourself, others can't help you. Tell me when you're really uncomfortable, everything will be fine, not to mention, you still have Jing Hao, Momo and me. ”
"Okay, Mom got it."
Wen Jinghao opened the door and walked in, followed by Wen Zimo.
"Mom, what's wrong?" Wen Jinghao looked at his mother's red and swollen eyes.
Lin Chuxia gave him a look and asked him not to ask again.
With her son's question, Mother Wen's tears couldn't stop falling again.
"Mom......" Wen Jinghao put down the takeaway in his hand and sat next to his mother: "Mom......"
The son understands his mother's thoughts and knows his mother's pain points, but his son is always not good at expressing his feelings.
"I just chatted with Xia Xia, my mother is not blocked, I just think of your father......" Mother Wen stopped talking, she remembered what her daughter-in-law said, don't go to the memories over and over again, loss is loss: "Forget it, Mom go wash your face and eat." ”
"Grandma, I'll go with you." Mo Mo walked over and took Grandma's hand.
"Okay, it's still my grandson! I know that I feel sorry for my grandmother! ”
Mother Wen washed her face, yes, my daughter-in-law is right, I still have Jing Hao, Momo.
Wen Jinghao watched Lin Chuxia pour the packed dishes on the plate and put them on the dining table, he asked in a low voice, "What did Mom tell you?" ”
"It's nothing, Mom will only get better and better, trust me."
"Mom won't be depressed, will she?"
"No, I do. Besides, thanks to you for bringing her in, you didn't leave her alone. Lin Chuxia set up the chopsticks: "Momo, come over for dinner with grandma." ”
"It's good to have you!" Wen Jinghao looked at his daughter-in-law, his eyes were full of love......