Chapter 478: Male and female babies are different
"Mother-in-law, don't you say that?!"
"Actually, it's the same for both boys and girls in this life. How can a girl lose money......"
Chen Yuanyuan's voice was gentle and soft, and after saying this to Jiang Lijuan, Jiang Lijuan jumped directly as if she had been stimulated by some kind of stimulation.
"Yuanyuan, why are you so confused?"
"How can this birth of a male baby be the same as the birth of a daughter? If it's the same, then how can there be such a large group of people in the countryside who drowned her directly after giving birth to a girl? And drowned in a dung pit. ”
Gao Jiangyuan, who was sitting on the side, was silent for a while when he heard this.
Then, because he was in a little anxious, he took the paper and began to work on his own.
Jiang Lijuan saw that her son was gone, so she argued with Chen Yuanyuan like this: "Yuanyuan, you are young and don't understand many things, I understand this matter." So I'm going to tell you this truth now, directly knead it, break it up, and say it! ”
"You don't know what people outside say, it's the same to have a boy and a girl! That's all a lie! I'll settle accounts with you right now. ”
"This girl has a baby, you have to bring her from childhood to adulthood! Generally speaking, you have to keep it for a full eighteen years, right? In the past eighteen years, what has been eaten, drunk, clothed, and ...... has not cost money? ”
"When she gets married, how much bride price can the man give? The bride price money was too much, and people said that I sold my daughter. I don't give the bride price money, saying that my daughter is a bargain. Originally, the bride price they gave was not enough to cover the cost of raising their daughters for a year for some people! ”
"Moreover, this woman is not in the middle, and she stays here and then and becomes an enemy! When she is old, she really wants to marry and become someone else's family. So, Yuanyuan, you just listen to me, you can't please your daughter. ”
When Chen Yuanyuan heard such words, she did not rush to refute.
Instead, he asked softly.
"Mother-in-law, is that really the case?"
Jiang Lijuan saw that her words were suspected by her daughter-in-law, so she didn't think about it, so she said directly.
"Of course it's true, I'm a person who has come over, how could I lie to you?"
"I've lived decades longer than you, and I've eaten more salt than you've eaten rice. I summed it up anyway, a particularly profound life experience. ”
"Actually, it's a blessing to give birth to a child, or to give birth to a male baby. It's also a bit more cost-effective. Yuanyuan, think about it yourself, if you give birth to five or six male babies for our family, then, when those boys grow up, our old Gao family will be able to accept five or six good daughters-in-law. ”
"Daughter-in-law, that's labor!"
"In the family, if there are more people and more laborers for no reason, that day will definitely be prosperous and prosperous."
"Look at those, the head of the family even gave birth to several daughters, there is no son, those parents worked hard to raise their daughters, but when their daughters got married, they lived a miserable life."
"The two elders are thirsty, hungry, and sick at home, and who cares about the daughters who are married? It's not like we're living our own lives. Treat your parents as inappropriate. ”
"Those sons-in-law of theirs are outsiders who are not related by blood after all. Seeing that their father-in-law and mother-in-law were suffering, they carried a few catties of fruit at most, took a few yuan, and went to see them. When other people saw her son-in-law and cared about them with things, they all began to raise their thumbs and praise them repeatedly, saying that this son-in-law was good. ”
"But these things really don't seem to me to be worth anything. I just think that the one who is a son-in-law is very hypocritical......"
"It's all a false favor."
When Chen Yuanyuan heard this, she was not in a hurry to express her opinion.
She just followed her mother-in-law's meaning and said, "Mother-in-law, hearing you say this, I seem to feel that my brain has suddenly opened up a lot. ”
"Actually, if you think about it, it seems to be such a reason......"
As soon as Jiang Lijuan heard her words, she resonated with her daughter-in-law.
She immediately put aside her prejudices.
I brought myself a cup of tea and took a sip.
After moistening her throat, Jiang Lijuan was a little excited.
"Yuanyuan, why isn't it such a reason?"
"Let me tell you, if from the very beginning, the head of the family is really a few people and boys who are worth relying on, then the two of them don't have to worry about their own pension problems at all."
"Anyway, this female baby and male baby are all raised, why can't we raise one, it's more cost-effective?"
"This son was born to himself, and his daughter was born to someone else's family. Especially those daughters who choose to marry far away, Yuanyuan, let me tell you, it is better to have such a daughter than from the beginning,