"Your ex-husband and you are both very good and successful people, but when combined, they are not necessarily perfect." Wang Mingzhe did not evade what he said, and went straight to the point: "Do you know why the two of you have come to this point?" ”

"Because my ex-husband never fell in love with me, emotionally, I was a failure."

Wang Mingzhe's questioning did not disgust Xu Yihan, but stimulated her desire to talk.

"Marriage is a matter of two people, and one person's efforts cannot change the state of marriage. Now that you're divorced, what you have to do now is not denying yourself, but reinventing yourself. ”

"Reinvent yourself? How to reshape? ”

"First of all, change your own perception and break all the perceptions and concepts you had in your previous marriage. Marriage is just an experience in our life, not yours. ”

Xu Yihan took a sip of tea and pursed her lips: "Marriage is indeed not my life, my marriage is over." ”

"Divorce is a disaster for normal people, but if you turn this disaster into an experience of growing yourself, then divorce is very valuable and meaningful in your life."

"Let yourself be born again?"

"Yes, it's to be born again! Turning into a butterfly and bathing in fire nirvana, this process is very painful, but it doesn't hurt, how to wake yourself up? How to make yourself grow! ”

……

Li Siyan looked at Xu Yihan from afar, afraid of her sudden outburst, afraid of crying that she couldn't bear, but Xu Yihan has been very calm throughout the conversation, and she will think and feel.

"In this life, there will always be a lot of unsatisfactory things, you suffer divorce, and others may suffer health, career, etc. If you feel that your pain is endless and that your happiness will be indefinite, then this must be a game you have set for yourself, and it has nothing to do with others! Wang Mingzhe raised his hand and glanced at the time.

"Is there something wrong with Mr. Wang?"

"I'm sorry, I made an appointment, we have a chance to talk again." After Wang Mingzhe finished speaking, he stood up, walked to the round table, and packed up his notebook.

"Thank you, Mr. Wang, it was a pleasure chatting with you!" Xu Yihan took the initiative to stretch out his hand and say goodbye to Wang Mingzhe, without the arrogant mood when they first met.

Li Siyan sent Wang Mingzhe out.

"Your friend is not as severe as you say, just mild depression, which is normal, and everyone who has been traumatized goes through this stage."

"Thank you, Mr. Wang, she is in a good mood in front of you, but sometimes she still can't control herself."

"It's normal, the process of accepting the truth and accepting the pain is like this, the problem is not big, and I recovered quickly."

"Next time you make an appointment, call us." Wang Mingzhe went downstairs and left.

"Okay." Li Siyan felt relaxed for a while, the problem was not big, and he was slightly depressed, it seemed that he wanted to be serious.

When Li Siyan entered the door, Xu Yihan began to ask.

"When did you meet this friend, and what kind of work did you do?"

"It's just that I haven't been in touch for more than 20 years, I came back from abroad, and I only met recently, and I haven't had time to ask what exactly I do, but I can talk to the two of you."

"He sees things from a different perspective than ordinary people, and he speaks very sharply."

"I'll make an appointment next time!" Li Siyan was secretly happy in his heart, it seems that this psychological counselor is not wrong, and Xu Yihan does not reject him.

……

In Luo Yichen's office, Luo Yichen stood in front of the floor-to-ceiling window, looking at the sky, his back lonely.

"What's wrong with buddy?" Zhang Chi came in and stood behind him for a long time, but Luo Yichen didn't notice it.

Hearing Zhang Chi's voice, Luo Yichen just retracted his thoughts, and his body did not move at all.

"What! Haven't had a facelift in a few days? Unshaven beard! Zhang Chi turned his face sideways and looked at Luo Yichen.

Luo Yichen didn't answer him, just turned around and sat at the desk.

"Let's take a walk, go for a haircut and get a facelift, relax!" Zhang Chi couldn't help but say, and pulled Luo Yichen into the elevator.

Zhang Chi sent Zhao Mingyu a WeChat message, and Zhao Mingyu replied with four words, and he was busy contacting.

"Mingyu is busy, I'll contact you when you're eating."

Luo Yichen never said a word.

……

Zhao Mingyu was busy until he got off work, and then hurried to make an appointment with Zhang Chi at the restaurant.

"I'm sorry, I've been too busy lately." Zhao Mingyu put down the bag in his hand and sat down.

Zhang Chi: "Still doing Internet education?" ”

Zhao Mingyu: "Yes, I have contacted several schools recently, and they are promoting, and the response is good!" ”

Luo Yichen: "What do you do?" ”

Zhao Mingyu: "Selling membership cards, selling classes, as long as the school is willing to accept it, it is easy to promote membership cards." ”

Zhang Chi: "That's worth celebrating, have a drink!" ”

Zhao Mingyu: "Yichen, how are you doing?" It's been a long time since we've been together! ”

Luo Yichen: "Divorced." ”

Zhang Chi took a sip of water and almost choked on himself: "What, divorced?" Such a big thing is said lightly! ”

"It's okay to leave, we're relieved from each other, you shouldn't be together in the first place, Xu Yihan's insistence at that time, and the matchmaking between me and Zhang Chi, it seems to be wrong." Zhao Mingyu opened the wine bottle, took three glasses, and began to pour wine: "It's just bitter Luo Yufan, alas, ......"

"It seems that marriage really can't be compromised, you can't make do, you have to find what you like, whether the shoes fit or not, only you know." Zhang Chi raised his glass.

"Now I really believe in fate, fate is really such a magical existence, you have to go according to other people's arrangements! You can't resist it, you can't change it! After Luo Yichen finished speaking, he craned his neck and drank the wine in the cup.

Zhang Chi: "Dude, don't be so pessimistic, everything will be fine!" ”

Zhao Mingyu: "God will not let a person always walk with bad luck, nor will he let a person always be happy!" Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory, you can go and see the tenths and twelves of your income, your career, your pair of children, are all you have! ”

"The day Lin Chuxia had a car accident, it was also my birthday, let's celebrate my birthday together, I was really grateful to Xu Yihan at that time, so attentive, later, what did she do? You know? Luo Yichen picked up the cup and drank.

"What did she do then?" Zhang Chi and Zhao Mingyu asked at the same time.

"Lin Chuxia saw Xu Yihan hugging my waist before the car accident!" Luo Yichen put down the cup in his hand, and the table shook.

"What's going on?" Zhao Mingyu was puzzled: "Did she follow you out of the restaurant at that time?" ”

Zhang Chi: "Then I saw Lin Chuxia crossing the road, so I took the opportunity to hug your waist, Lin Chuxia was stimulated, and the tragedy happened!" How do you know? ”

"Xu Yihan told me personally!"

……