Marriage can't be rushed.

People say that if you are poor, you don't choose a wife, and you can't choose a path.

When this person is in a hurry, he is prone to ghosts.

When marriage is prone to ghosts, it is not easy to get out.

I know that the other party can't do it, but I want to get married to him in a flash, and when the time comes, I don't get along well, and I want to flash away, just like this, isn't it a bastard thing?

Some men feel that they will divorce if they are divorced, anyway, it is not a big deal if a man is divorced.

When the time comes, I'll just need to find another one......

But that thing, for a woman, still hurts a lot.

But when you meet the kind of man who is not suitable for marriage, if a woman does not have the courage to leave the other party, she will be dragged to death and harmed in the end, then she will only be herself.

Therefore, for the large group of women who got married and divorced in a flash, Chen Yuanyuan still admires it.

After all, this group of particularly resolute women can at least get their own happiness expectations in the second marriage, third marriage and subsequent marriages.

And that group knew that their marriage was a failure, and their lives were quite painful and miserable, but she said bluntly that she would not divorce for the sake of her children......

Then in that painful marital relationship, I was willing to be called by others as cattle and horses, and I was willing to be trained by others.

I am willing to live under other people's roofs and look at other people's faces.

I was bullied arbitrarily by my mother-in-law. was arbitrarily humiliated by his own man......

For this kind of person, many people will choose to drink pesticides and die, jump into a well to die, and take a few young children to jump into the river to die.

Or jump from a tall building and seek self-liberation.

At the end of the day, this kind of person is too weak.

Not strong at all.

Always like others torturing themselves and torturing themselves.

I can't get along with myself.

But he didn't think about finding a way to survive on his own.

In this society, as long as you have hands, feet and mouths, you can run around with an ID card.

Where can I not find a job?

Where can't you feed yourself?

As long as she has the ability to support herself, for example, even if she only earns more than 2,000 or 3,000 per month, then why should she stay under that kind of roof?

Her husband was violent and murderous to herself, so she ran around with her ID card and worked everywhere.

As long as you don't stay in a city often, it is impossible for that wretched husband to follow her 24 hours a day and look for her every day, right?

What are you waiting for someone else to come to your rescue?

Only by saving yourself can you let yourself live.

……

Chen Yuanyuan in her previous life because of the complicated experience when she was a child, which led to her special love of self-pity, inferiority, self-pity, and self-pity during that time.

Later, when she grew up and began to get in touch with society, she saw all kinds of people and all kinds of things, and after she suddenly realized that her past self-pity, self-pity and self-pity were nothing more than self-hypocrisy.

It's nothing more than moaning without disease.

Just like the poem written by a lyricist in the Song Dynasty, the young man didn't know what it was like to be sad, but he insisted on saying it.

If you are worried about it, you can only make yourself bored.

When Chen Yuanyuan was in her 20s, she completely changed her three views.

Previously she was a pessimist.

Later, she is a positive and optimistic person.

Success, happiness, and all other good things actually require one's own efforts to obtain.

No one will hold happiness in front of them in vain, and she doesn't need to pay any price to give it to herself.

……

Gao Jiangyuan found that his daughter-in-law had been sitting at the head of the bed silently tonight, staring at the book in his hand with a pair of eyes.

Within half an hour, she hadn't turned a page.

So he knew that his daughter-in-law must be thinking about something in her mind.

The longer he spent with his daughter-in-law, the more he found that his daughter-in-law's thoughts sometimes seemed quite dangerous.

Because sometimes he always feels that she sees things more thoroughly.

Gao Jiangyuan once had an in-depth conversation with his daughter-in-law about the marriage relationship.

He was reading the books of Marx and Engels at that time.

Engels seems to have written a book on marriage, family and private property.

After reading this book, he was greatly inspired.

What he didn't realize before, he realized through that book.

Regarding marriage and family and private ownership, Gao Jiangyuan felt that what Engels said was quite correct and profound.

He can sometimes indeed feel that the modern marriage relationship, in a sense, protects the economic interests of men.

From any marital relationship, a man gets a large part of what is not originally his.

For example, the fertility value of a woman.

The economic benefits that women create in society.

A woman's time, a woman's labor.

and the youth and beauty of women.

In capitalist society, these things actually belong to primitive capital.

Fertility value is the original capital. It can be monetized through surrogacy.

Beauty, time, youth, labor, and wisdom are all primitive capitals.

can be exchanged for money.

Gao Jiangyuan himself sometimes feels that after marrying his daughter-in-law, he gets a lot more than he pays.

Although over the years, he has often done housework at home, such as laundry and cooking.

However, Gao Jiangyuan judged some value for the things he got, and he felt that he belonged to the "winner" side in the marriage relationship.

Because, he got all the money from his daughter-in-law.

Her whole person. Her whole heart.

Her thoughts. Her whole life path.

Over the years, he has completely possessed her.

"Daughter-in-law, what are you reading?"

Chen Yuanyuan, who was suddenly beaten into thoughts, became reflexive and flipped through her writing.

She smiled and replied, "I'm not looking at anything." I'm reading a book about the history of Chinese and Western cultures. ”

"I think it's a pretty good book. Because it tells the development process of Western cultural history clearly and in a very organized manner. ”

"When you read it once, you remember it."

When Gao Jiangyuan heard this, he smiled at her.

"Just remember?"

"So you still have such a good memory......"

Gao Jiangyuan is now over half a hundred years old, and his memory was very good in the past, but now, there are some things that he is always easy to forget.

Especially those with short-term memory.

For example, every time he went out the door, he always forgot whether the key on his door was drawn.

And the switch of the socket board at home, is it turned off?

Because he was not at ease, he forced himself to go back and have another big check-up.

Chen Yuanyuan smiled at her husband after hearing his question.

"What's not to remember about this?"

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