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After returning to school from the Lin family's orchard, Lin Mingxu obviously felt that his son's mood was much happier, and he mentioned Aunt Jiajia and Sister Sugar Bun a lot every day.
Lin Mingxu felt that the idea that had been hidden for so long should be able to be put into action! But how do you start to increase your success?
Lin Mingxu felt that he needed to plan well like solving a work problem, otherwise with his current situation, it would be easy for people to misunderstand that his motives were impure.
And at the moment, we have to find out the wishes of his family Qiaoqiao first. If the son had been willing, the rest would have been less complicated. However, if his son simply likes "Aunt Jiajia", he can only conquer his son's mountain first.
Lin Mingxu boasted that he could still understand a little bit of Lin Jiajia's thoughts. When I came up, I talked about my feelings with his old classmate, and it is estimated that I will close the door and let the dog go in two sentences. Because people who have been tortured emotionally, even if they meet the most suitable person, they will restrain themselves and keep their hearts.
And he already has some ideas, but he still needs to think about the details.
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Lin Jiajia is also thinking about Lin Mingxu's father and son at this time, but unlike Lin Mingxu's "fighting alone", she has a group of Zhuge Liang who "wants to eat after dinner".
"Sister Jiajia, I think these two are good. You see that you know the roots, and it is also a kind of fate to be able to meet again after five or six years without contact! Chen Xiaofei squeezed Lin Jiajia to sit in the corner of the sofa and said heartily.
"Jiajia, I feel good too. We all like Qiaoqiao, this kid, and it's really distressing to be well-behaved. At least we don't have to worry about the two children not getting along well in the future, right? Mother Lin had vaguely had this idea since she first saw Lin Mingxu, but she didn't dare to say it until this time.
"Girl, none of our ideas can represent your wishes, so what we say is wild, and in the end you have to make your own decisions. Dad used to look at it, so he didn't dare to say that he could see this, and the only thing I can guarantee you is that if you both feel quite suitable, no one in his family, including his family, will dare to bully you in the future. ”
Father Lin's opinion is basically that the daughter should make her own decision, after all, what she wants and what her parents are optimistic about may not be the same. Especially after Li Dabao's kid returned to Beijing, he felt that he couldn't easily interfere in the children's affairs.
Lin Jiajia listened to the opinions of several "Zhuge Liang", but her starting angle was a little out of line. She didn't think about the relationship, but put the two people in the perspective of the company's partners to consider whether it was suitable.
First of all, from the most realistic economic level, her current income level is almost the middle class in third-tier cities. Lin Mingxu's parents are retired cadres, and he himself is in the system, although they are not high-income, but from a few small talks, it can be seen that the economic level is not bad.
So, it's just right that it's not far off. There will be no uneven treatment of children on both sides of the poor family. There will be no bloody stories in wealthy families that are incompatible because of the competition for family property.
Secondly, judging from the "inheritance" that Chinese people value the most, Lin Mingxu already has a son, so she doesn't need to worry about whether to have another one. Having children and daughters is already very "good". For Lin Jiajia, who has no plans to have a second child at all, it not only saves worry and effort, but also saves money.
Finally, and the most important part, the first starting point of the two of them is to find a companion for the child, which can be regarded as a relatively complete and happy family for the child. Both of them have children, so naturally it is a mode of getting along with each other that you pay seven points and I will definitely pay eight points.
The most important key factor of "stepfather and stepmother" is actually not "good or not", but "bad or not", so character is very important. Lin Jiajia looked at it coldly for more than half a year, and the character of President Lin Da is still trustworthy.
But Lin Jiajia didn't have the courage to say these thoughts, otherwise if he didn't say anything about others, Father Lin would have to cry angrily from him.
"Mom and Dad, I'll think about it seriously. But we can't shave our heads and pick our heads hot, can you give me some time to think about it again, and also take a look at Lin Mingxu's thoughts by the way? Lin Jiajia gave a piece of candy and reminded everyone to be calm.
"You have to think about it! It's gotta think! Mother Lin didn't expect Lin Jiajia to let go, so it didn't matter what the result was. As long as you open this opening, you can say anything in the future.
After sending the old couple back to the house, Lin Jiajia looked at Chen Xiaofei, who was still relying on her and not leaving, with black lines on her head. Could it be that this brother and sister really married herself?
"What, do you want to stay overnight?"
"Why not? That's what you'll pay for your accommodation! Chen Xiaofei held her heart in both hands and looked at Lin Jiajia with blinking eyes.
"Alright, alright, I'll take it! If you have something to say, hurry up and ...... if you have anything" Lin Jiajia accepted Chen Xiaofei's "heart" and asked the purpose of this girl.
But before Chen Xiaofei said, Lin Jiajia quietly walked to the door of the inner room and looked at her daughter who was sleeping, and quietly retreated back when she saw that she was sleeping sweetly.
"Sister, I can see that your feelings for Lin Mingxu are not between men and women, but a bit like good partners. But I didn't dare to say it to them just now, so I had to stay and ask you. ”
Chen Xiaofei knew about Liu Yang, but in her opinion, although Liu Yang's thoughts were a bit extreme, he was an innocent young man! And this Lin Mingxu, although he seems more mature, may be too mature, and it always makes people feel incomprehensible.
"Xiaofei, not everyone can meet perfect love, and not everyone is love-oriented. For example, now that I am now, what I need more than love is a partner who will not betray you easily. Of course, in later life, it is not bad to sublimate feelings. ”
Lin Jiajia didn't want to say anything specious in front of Chen Xiaofei, because this girl is sensitive and smart, and it is not interesting to lie.
"Okay, Sister Jiajia, although I don't particularly agree with your idea, I can still do it by respecting your decision!" Chen Xiaofei has always been convinced by Lin Jiajia, and this time she still chose to be convinced after solving her doubts.
Lin Jiajia smiled, her current three views are actually quite terrifying, because every possibility and every piece of information that appears in life is analyzed very thoroughly. But, isn't this another charm of life?
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"Qiaoqiao, do you like Aunt Jiajia?" Lin Mingxu asked tentatively.
"Like, she's very nice to Qiaoqiao!" Hashihashi vaguely felt that the question asked by his father was a bit strange, but he answered honestly.
"What about the Lin family's grandparents?"
"Like, they give me a lot of good food!"
Well, the child's world is really simple. Lin Mingxu decided to ask more directly, but just as he was about to speak, he saw his mother who went to the market to buy vegetables come back.
"Mingxu, let's eat dumplings at noon tomorrow! I just bought some fresh pork, you help chop it, mix it with the fungus I just made, and bring out the stuffing first in the evening. Aunt Li carried the big bag into the door while talking about her plans.
"Hey, got it! I'll wash my hands and start chopping in a while! Lin Mingxu couldn't continue the topic just now, so he decided to find another opportunity.
can't be in a hurry, in addition to the bridge, he also has his parents on a higher and bigger mountain to conquer!
It's a long way to go!
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