Parental love, affection at a safe distance
Jiajia suddenly remembered that when her grandmother had just died, she avoided her mother intentionally or unintentionally, and now it seems that she is still ridiculous.
At that time, no one told them how to be suitable for their parents, they just subconsciously imitated what they saw.
But what can they see? And what can we learn from this? They don't have the time to worry about the children's psychological quality education, but they are just trying their best to keep the children fed and clothed.
And those educational sayings that have been passed down from generation to generation, such as "filial piety under the stick", "the water spilled by the daughter who marries", and "the parents who are all over the world", are already all the educational concepts they can come into contact with.
Jiajia looked at the mother who was falling down with tears, and for the first time she really felt distressed and helpless.
"Mom, there's nothing wrong anymore! Look at me, aren't I alive? ”
In order to show that she was really fine, Jiajia directly shook her right arm, but she made Mother Lin even more distressed.
"Alright! Don't toss yourself! Look at your face there, and look at the lack of flesh on your face! ”
The more Lin Mu talked, the more sad she became, there were more than thirty people, why didn't she know how to protect herself? It's a bright knife there, a little more crooked...... Does this little life have to be explained?
Looking at the mother who was getting more and more intense, Jiajia felt that she should cry too. Later, it was the old man who looked inappropriate on the side, and stopped shouting at the person with one sentence.
"Okay, that's so old!" The old man was also worried, but he had treated his granddaughter as a grandson since he was a child, and he still felt that it was not a bad thing to experience a little setback.
Mother Lin saw that everyone in the family was looking at her, and she was embarrassed to cry again. However, when he heard the old man say that he was old, he was still very unconvinced and pouted.
"Where's Mingxu?" Father Lin, who had not spoken, suddenly asked curiously.
Today is Friday, and the two are supposed to be out of school at three o'clock. And then Jiajia is not convenient, how can she come back with Junya and Minzhi?
"Oh, he has a party tonight and can't leave, and the children are picked up by Aunt Li! It's not very convenient for me these days, basically she helps watch it. Jiajiatou replied without thinking.
"What are you all watching me do?" Jiajia looked at the family speechlessly, is it taking turns to sing at home today? Why are they all so actively asking questions?
Everyone: "......"
Because of Jiajia's non-cooperation, the family had to suppress their doubts, but they agreed that these two people definitely quarreled? Of course, it may not be noisy, but it is definitely awkward!
Later, after the family's attention was diverted away by the tangyuan who learned to speak, Xiao Fei found an opportunity to ask a question.
"Sister, did you quarrel? Could it be that he angered you because Jian Jian punched him? The more Xiao Fei spoke, the more she felt that her guess was reasonable, so she rolled up her two sleeves and prepared to fight.
"Where do you want to go?" Jiajia rolled her eyes speechlessly, what kind of brain circuit is this?
Xiao Fei stuck out her tongue embarrassedly, "Didn't I think you didn't have any other problems!" Or, I'll send Ken over and let him beat him back! ”
"Ahem~"
Jiajia was amused by Xiao Fei's painful and tragic expression, but they really didn't quarrel, and they didn't make any awkward noise?
If you really want to find out something, it's that they were too good before, destroying her previous definition of intimacy between two people. This should be the reason for her irritability and restlessness.
"Well, it's fine! You go help with the cooking! Jiajia really couldn't catch Xiaofei's "chaotic punch", so she drove people away on the grounds that she wanted to rest.
But I didn't expect that there was an old white rabbit behind the little white rabbit, looking at Lin Mu with a dignified face, Jiajia felt that her decision to come back today was really a bit of a hurry.
Mother Lin avoided Jiajia's right arm, pulled the person to the sofa in the small living room and sat down, looking at her daughter's thin little face, her heart welled up again.
"What's wrong with you two? This time, I heard Xiaofei say that it was his ex-wife's maiden family looking for trouble, and you were injured! Mother Lin asked straight to the point.
"Mom, this incident was an accident. Moreover, I was also proud of my cleverness and wanted to solve these troubles at once, but I didn't expect the boat to capsize in the small gutter. Jiajia can't avoid it, and she knows that she can't avoid it, but she really doesn't know where to start when it comes to feelings!
Mother Lin was dissatisfied with her daughter's care, but the child was no longer seven or eight years old, she had to pay attention to methods.
"Alas, I'm really tired, so I'll break up, right?" Mother Lin said endlessly.
"Huh? Didn't I say we didn't have anything? Why is it divided? Jiajia asked speechlessly.
Mother Lin glanced at her daughter's expression, and guessed that the problem was not too big before putting it down, but this "pit" had to be dug again.
"Nothing? Nothing can annoy you like this? Nothing in the little time you came back without a phone call? ”
Jiajia was stunned by her mother's life-threatening serial questions, and what about the good wife and good mother? Why did she suddenly become a poisonous aunt?
"Mom~"
Jiajia still didn't know how to answer, so she just lied on to herself. After all, her awkwardness couldn't stand at all.
Mother Lin didn't know that Jiajia was playing tricks, but she hadn't seen such a soft and cute daughter for thirty years.
"You!"
Mother Lin carefully hugged Jiajia, and her heart was soft. Jiajia looked at her mother and hugged her like a rare treasure, and her nose was sour.
She suddenly felt that there was nothing wrong with hiding from her mother. Because, her love is enough for her to deliver 100% trust.
"Mom, you know what? That day, I suddenly had uncertainty in my heart about the relationship between me and Mingxu, and even became irritable and uneasy about our current life. I'm afraid that if I continue, I'll lose my mind and become less like myself......"
Jiajia told her mother about her doubts and distress during this time, and she didn't know what to do next. I don't know if the result will be as I want if it changes.
She is like walking on the edge of a cliff, the road is not smooth before and after, and there are cliffs on the left and right, which is really a dilemma and an unpredictable future.
This confusion lasted until she returned to the city, because her mother didn't give her any good ideas. However, the previous irritability and restlessness have been reduced.
But when she returned home and saw the extraordinarily atmospheric dining room, and the man who was looking at her nervously and eagerly, she suddenly had an answer.
"Jiajia, I don't think we've had such a sense of ceremony in a long time! I specially prepared it today, I don't know if you like it or not? ”
Jiajia looked at Lin Mingxu grinning and scratching his head, looking at a loss, as if he had returned to the time when they were first together a few years ago. Thinking of the temptation and seriousness of the two people at that time, Jiajia's eyes slowly moistened.
Perhaps, what she needs is not to distance the two of them. It's about getting back to the state I was in a few years ago, serious but always leaving a world for myself in my heart.
To put it simply, it's semi-saccharideism!
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